Dandy May
@dandymaylions.bsky.social
She/Her, 24, US-born, dog/cat lover. I work in HR, I have a small library of fantasy novels, my favorite is Eragon, I have 2 dogs and 2 cats, and a small love of Liveplays.
Here's something I find disrespectful:
Telling me about laws in my own country that I already read up on, and thinking you're dome genius for figuring it out.
It's not cute, it's not clever, it's malignant.
Telling me about laws in my own country that I already read up on, and thinking you're dome genius for figuring it out.
It's not cute, it's not clever, it's malignant.
October 7, 2025 at 6:12 AM
Here's something I find disrespectful:
Telling me about laws in my own country that I already read up on, and thinking you're dome genius for figuring it out.
It's not cute, it's not clever, it's malignant.
Telling me about laws in my own country that I already read up on, and thinking you're dome genius for figuring it out.
It's not cute, it's not clever, it's malignant.
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Let’s get Kraken! I’m so excited to announce that this gorgeous guy is going to be joining the potion bottles as a commissionable item in my upcoming store!
September 2, 2025 at 1:01 PM
Let’s get Kraken! I’m so excited to announce that this gorgeous guy is going to be joining the potion bottles as a commissionable item in my upcoming store!
They're talking about a known womanizer and homophobe.
Life is sacred, but you won't see me shed a tear for a tang-flavored tyrant.
Life is sacred, but you won't see me shed a tear for a tang-flavored tyrant.
Even if he is alive and well. Can you ever imagine this many people just straight up wanting you dead. Like people all over your country are hoping you have gone……… That’s…. That’s just something else.
September 1, 2025 at 3:18 PM
They're talking about a known womanizer and homophobe.
Life is sacred, but you won't see me shed a tear for a tang-flavored tyrant.
Life is sacred, but you won't see me shed a tear for a tang-flavored tyrant.
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Right, time for exciting things! I’ve been keeping busy with many much crocheting ready to set up shop! Coming soon to a Kofi near you…
August 26, 2025 at 12:41 PM
Right, time for exciting things! I’ve been keeping busy with many much crocheting ready to set up shop! Coming soon to a Kofi near you…
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If women submitting to men was a natural way of being, they would not have needed laws, religion & violence to get them to do it.
July 15, 2025 at 11:08 PM
If women submitting to men was a natural way of being, they would not have needed laws, religion & violence to get them to do it.
This all came up when I returned from a training class.
Some guy was telling his story of how he lost several of his buds because of what he did, but the way he told the story irked me.
After taking time to process his tale, this was why. The man was bitter he lost a victim who got wise.
Some guy was telling his story of how he lost several of his buds because of what he did, but the way he told the story irked me.
After taking time to process his tale, this was why. The man was bitter he lost a victim who got wise.
Remember that there is a clear difference between regret and remorse.
I'll be breaking this up into two threads for easier viewing:
I'll be breaking this up into two threads for easier viewing:
July 11, 2025 at 5:54 AM
This all came up when I returned from a training class.
Some guy was telling his story of how he lost several of his buds because of what he did, but the way he told the story irked me.
After taking time to process his tale, this was why. The man was bitter he lost a victim who got wise.
Some guy was telling his story of how he lost several of his buds because of what he did, but the way he told the story irked me.
After taking time to process his tale, this was why. The man was bitter he lost a victim who got wise.
Remember that there is a clear difference between regret and remorse.
I'll be breaking this up into two threads for easier viewing:
I'll be breaking this up into two threads for easier viewing:
July 11, 2025 at 5:33 AM
Remember that there is a clear difference between regret and remorse.
I'll be breaking this up into two threads for easier viewing:
I'll be breaking this up into two threads for easier viewing:
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June 12, 2025 at 6:35 PM
WE are LIVE. Join @lollybeau.bsky.social @cleettrpg.bsky.social @ioshiv.bsky.social & @aelyryapayne.bsky.social as they continue their journey.
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This looks so cute, but the comments had me do a bit of digging.
I think I found a video that does this lil Pixie some justice:
youtu.be/gjQI675mx6Q?...
I think I found a video that does this lil Pixie some justice:
youtu.be/gjQI675mx6Q?...
May 25, 2025 at 2:37 PM
This looks so cute, but the comments had me do a bit of digging.
I think I found a video that does this lil Pixie some justice:
youtu.be/gjQI675mx6Q?...
I think I found a video that does this lil Pixie some justice:
youtu.be/gjQI675mx6Q?...
I have a question:
Who has gotten a response from someone that feels like it came directly off a checklist?
Like, it doesn't say it, but you read it, and just sounds like "Step 1: Do Something"
Nothing more fake than a how-to response.
#SelfCare #SayNoToToxicity
Who has gotten a response from someone that feels like it came directly off a checklist?
Like, it doesn't say it, but you read it, and just sounds like "Step 1: Do Something"
Nothing more fake than a how-to response.
#SelfCare #SayNoToToxicity
May 24, 2025 at 7:31 AM
I have a question:
Who has gotten a response from someone that feels like it came directly off a checklist?
Like, it doesn't say it, but you read it, and just sounds like "Step 1: Do Something"
Nothing more fake than a how-to response.
#SelfCare #SayNoToToxicity
Who has gotten a response from someone that feels like it came directly off a checklist?
Like, it doesn't say it, but you read it, and just sounds like "Step 1: Do Something"
Nothing more fake than a how-to response.
#SelfCare #SayNoToToxicity
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ARTISTS!
I'm sharing my contract template with simplified language and easy to fill in sections
This will be most helpful for smaller clients bc corps have their own contracts
But providing the contract will help protect you from giving away rights to your art!
docs.google.com/document/d/1...
I'm sharing my contract template with simplified language and easy to fill in sections
This will be most helpful for smaller clients bc corps have their own contracts
But providing the contract will help protect you from giving away rights to your art!
docs.google.com/document/d/1...
Contract Template for Limited Rights
***NOTE: This is a View Only document. Go to File > Make a Copy to create your own editable copy. Please do not request edit access. Delete this note before using*** This Agreement, entered DATE, be...
docs.google.com
April 9, 2025 at 2:57 PM
ARTISTS!
I'm sharing my contract template with simplified language and easy to fill in sections
This will be most helpful for smaller clients bc corps have their own contracts
But providing the contract will help protect you from giving away rights to your art!
docs.google.com/document/d/1...
I'm sharing my contract template with simplified language and easy to fill in sections
This will be most helpful for smaller clients bc corps have their own contracts
But providing the contract will help protect you from giving away rights to your art!
docs.google.com/document/d/1...
Some advice for folks whose friends might be dealing with drama:
Don't be polite to the people who hurt your friends. They absolutely can AND will try to use you to get to their victim.
You help your friends more by being the wall between them and their tormentors. Not a doorway.
Don't be polite to the people who hurt your friends. They absolutely can AND will try to use you to get to their victim.
You help your friends more by being the wall between them and their tormentors. Not a doorway.
March 29, 2025 at 6:23 AM
Some advice for folks whose friends might be dealing with drama:
Don't be polite to the people who hurt your friends. They absolutely can AND will try to use you to get to their victim.
You help your friends more by being the wall between them and their tormentors. Not a doorway.
Don't be polite to the people who hurt your friends. They absolutely can AND will try to use you to get to their victim.
You help your friends more by being the wall between them and their tormentors. Not a doorway.
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You should laugh at anyone who says the president should have unlimited power because he was elected. His power has to be limited *because* he's the president. This is fifth grade level social studies
March 18, 2025 at 4:43 PM
You should laugh at anyone who says the president should have unlimited power because he was elected. His power has to be limited *because* he's the president. This is fifth grade level social studies
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Like @coloradotravis.bsky.social I consumed this over the weekend, and I highly encourage everyone to read it.
The coverage is treating the book as an expose of Meta culture and execs and while it is that, I think the more interesting parts are in between and focus on global power dynamics 1/
The coverage is treating the book as an expose of Meta culture and execs and while it is that, I think the more interesting parts are in between and focus on global power dynamics 1/
March 17, 2025 at 4:01 PM
Like @coloradotravis.bsky.social I consumed this over the weekend, and I highly encourage everyone to read it.
The coverage is treating the book as an expose of Meta culture and execs and while it is that, I think the more interesting parts are in between and focus on global power dynamics 1/
The coverage is treating the book as an expose of Meta culture and execs and while it is that, I think the more interesting parts are in between and focus on global power dynamics 1/
Friendly little shout out to all the incel manlets out there:
A warning about a hacker on the loose IS NOT a gesture of good faith. For all I know, you might be that hacker.
If you want my goodwill, maybe try listening to what I'm telling you? Pay attention, read the room, GO AWAY when you're...
A warning about a hacker on the loose IS NOT a gesture of good faith. For all I know, you might be that hacker.
If you want my goodwill, maybe try listening to what I'm telling you? Pay attention, read the room, GO AWAY when you're...
March 18, 2025 at 1:50 PM
Friendly little shout out to all the incel manlets out there:
A warning about a hacker on the loose IS NOT a gesture of good faith. For all I know, you might be that hacker.
If you want my goodwill, maybe try listening to what I'm telling you? Pay attention, read the room, GO AWAY when you're...
A warning about a hacker on the loose IS NOT a gesture of good faith. For all I know, you might be that hacker.
If you want my goodwill, maybe try listening to what I'm telling you? Pay attention, read the room, GO AWAY when you're...
Who here has had to deal with that one slimeball who thinks he can just come back like you're buddy-buddy after he completely wrecked your state of being?
The amount of times I have hit block on a dude who I dumped years ago could write a novel istfg.
The amount of times I have hit block on a dude who I dumped years ago could write a novel istfg.
February 11, 2025 at 10:15 AM
Who here has had to deal with that one slimeball who thinks he can just come back like you're buddy-buddy after he completely wrecked your state of being?
The amount of times I have hit block on a dude who I dumped years ago could write a novel istfg.
The amount of times I have hit block on a dude who I dumped years ago could write a novel istfg.
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Monday thought:
February 10, 2025 at 1:41 PM
Monday thought:
So I came across this crazy story the other day:
A guy was looking for a hobby group when he got picked up by some theatre buds, their lead being this sweet little woman (this is important).
The guy managed to quickly cement himself as a cool, "normal" dude: cracking jokes, making merry, mostly...
A guy was looking for a hobby group when he got picked up by some theatre buds, their lead being this sweet little woman (this is important).
The guy managed to quickly cement himself as a cool, "normal" dude: cracking jokes, making merry, mostly...
December 24, 2024 at 1:11 AM
So I came across this crazy story the other day:
A guy was looking for a hobby group when he got picked up by some theatre buds, their lead being this sweet little woman (this is important).
The guy managed to quickly cement himself as a cool, "normal" dude: cracking jokes, making merry, mostly...
A guy was looking for a hobby group when he got picked up by some theatre buds, their lead being this sweet little woman (this is important).
The guy managed to quickly cement himself as a cool, "normal" dude: cracking jokes, making merry, mostly...
Don't you just love it when some sniveling manling tries to make you feel awful for their poor mental health & life choices?
It's absolutely comical how they think telling a woman they're in the wrong for not wanting that energy in their life is in any way a good move.
It's absolutely comical how they think telling a woman they're in the wrong for not wanting that energy in their life is in any way a good move.
December 17, 2024 at 12:44 PM
Don't you just love it when some sniveling manling tries to make you feel awful for their poor mental health & life choices?
It's absolutely comical how they think telling a woman they're in the wrong for not wanting that energy in their life is in any way a good move.
It's absolutely comical how they think telling a woman they're in the wrong for not wanting that energy in their life is in any way a good move.
A little meal prep goes a long way, so for today's message:
Mise en Place. The more you do to set yourself up beforehand, the less you end up needing to do.
Get your lunches ready to be made in the morning.
Organize your week's fashion.
Clean as you go.
Mise en Place. The more you do to set yourself up beforehand, the less you end up needing to do.
Get your lunches ready to be made in the morning.
Organize your week's fashion.
Clean as you go.
December 15, 2024 at 10:09 AM
A little meal prep goes a long way, so for today's message:
Mise en Place. The more you do to set yourself up beforehand, the less you end up needing to do.
Get your lunches ready to be made in the morning.
Organize your week's fashion.
Clean as you go.
Mise en Place. The more you do to set yourself up beforehand, the less you end up needing to do.
Get your lunches ready to be made in the morning.
Organize your week's fashion.
Clean as you go.
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California just now had a 5.2 quake off the coast and a tornado in Santa Cruz earlier. Mother Nature really said 'why choose?'
Tornadoes in California? In Santa Cruz County? Yep, Scott’s Valley got hit relatively hard with a few injuries
December 15, 2024 at 7:42 AM
California just now had a 5.2 quake off the coast and a tornado in Santa Cruz earlier. Mother Nature really said 'why choose?'
For all my ladies out there:
The best vengeance you can take against a man that hurt you is to not allow them to get a response out of you.
They may try coming back to *appear* sorry. They're not. Because they were willing to hurt you once before, they can never truly be sorry.
The best vengeance you can take against a man that hurt you is to not allow them to get a response out of you.
They may try coming back to *appear* sorry. They're not. Because they were willing to hurt you once before, they can never truly be sorry.
December 13, 2024 at 1:06 PM
For all my ladies out there:
The best vengeance you can take against a man that hurt you is to not allow them to get a response out of you.
They may try coming back to *appear* sorry. They're not. Because they were willing to hurt you once before, they can never truly be sorry.
The best vengeance you can take against a man that hurt you is to not allow them to get a response out of you.
They may try coming back to *appear* sorry. They're not. Because they were willing to hurt you once before, they can never truly be sorry.
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