Shawndra Ivins
@charmingkobold.bsky.social
Newly hatched lesbian trans woman still figuring everything out. Monogamously married.
Mostly, I post about games, hobbies, and comics. And I guess now probably a lot of trans stuff.
She/her.
Mostly, I post about games, hobbies, and comics. And I guess now probably a lot of trans stuff.
She/her.
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Hey! So, some keen-eyes observers who have been following me a while may have noticed a few differences in my profile. And my name.
First thing's first... I'm not quite ready to come out publicly yet, so if you know me in real life, I'd appreciate you sticking with "Shane" and he/they for now.
First thing's first... I'm not quite ready to come out publicly yet, so if you know me in real life, I'd appreciate you sticking with "Shane" and he/they for now.
I still sincerely believe, to this day, that I would, in fact, download a car.
November 23, 2025 at 12:17 AM
I still sincerely believe, to this day, that I would, in fact, download a car.
I will never stop thinking about how cool it was that their wings folded in the front and looked like capes when they did. Such a clever character design.
November 22, 2025 at 10:22 PM
I will never stop thinking about how cool it was that their wings folded in the front and looked like capes when they did. Such a clever character design.
The government can't nullify my gay marriage if they refuse to acknowledge my actual gender.
Checkmate, idiots.
Checkmate, idiots.
November 21, 2025 at 4:54 AM
The government can't nullify my gay marriage if they refuse to acknowledge my actual gender.
Checkmate, idiots.
Checkmate, idiots.
Couple of firsts today; first time coming out to someone in person (lowest stakes possible since they're like 10 years old and nonbinary) and also my first time in an in-person social setting actually using my new name and pronouns.
I don't think I was quite prepared for how nice it would feel.
I don't think I was quite prepared for how nice it would feel.
November 20, 2025 at 2:15 AM
Couple of firsts today; first time coming out to someone in person (lowest stakes possible since they're like 10 years old and nonbinary) and also my first time in an in-person social setting actually using my new name and pronouns.
I don't think I was quite prepared for how nice it would feel.
I don't think I was quite prepared for how nice it would feel.
Quote post with a song you can’t hear without thinking of a movie it was in
It's hilarious to me that I went to find the official music video for "All Star" by Smash Mouth to say "Shrek, obviously" and then I find out that the start of the video is a Mystery Men bit.
It's hilarious to me that I went to find the official music video for "All Star" by Smash Mouth to say "Shrek, obviously" and then I find out that the start of the video is a Mystery Men bit.
November 18, 2025 at 2:06 PM
Quote post with a song you can’t hear without thinking of a movie it was in
It's hilarious to me that I went to find the official music video for "All Star" by Smash Mouth to say "Shrek, obviously" and then I find out that the start of the video is a Mystery Men bit.
It's hilarious to me that I went to find the official music video for "All Star" by Smash Mouth to say "Shrek, obviously" and then I find out that the start of the video is a Mystery Men bit.
Some people have a mid-life crisis and buy a fancy new car. Others just decide to finally transition.
Not sure which will turn out more expensive, in the end.
Not sure which will turn out more expensive, in the end.
November 16, 2025 at 2:51 PM
Some people have a mid-life crisis and buy a fancy new car. Others just decide to finally transition.
Not sure which will turn out more expensive, in the end.
Not sure which will turn out more expensive, in the end.
Honestly gonna be pretty disappointed if "Trump gave Bill Clinton a BJ" turns out to be the only reason Trump was trying to hide this thing.
He's done awful things, and he should suffer for the awful things he's done, not this.
He's done awful things, and he should suffer for the awful things he's done, not this.
November 15, 2025 at 4:27 PM
Honestly gonna be pretty disappointed if "Trump gave Bill Clinton a BJ" turns out to be the only reason Trump was trying to hide this thing.
He's done awful things, and he should suffer for the awful things he's done, not this.
He's done awful things, and he should suffer for the awful things he's done, not this.
Look, I know what this looks like... I promise there's a non-sexual explanation if you'll just stop laughing and let me explain...
November 15, 2025 at 4:16 PM
Look, I know what this looks like... I promise there's a non-sexual explanation if you'll just stop laughing and let me explain...
Ladies and gentlefolk?
We got him.
We got him.
November 15, 2025 at 2:17 AM
Ladies and gentlefolk?
We got him.
We got him.
Due to some recent revelations, the guy playing a dragonborn paladin in the D&D campaign I'm running has decided he wants to multiclass into warlock.
Tonight's going to a fun session.
Tonight's going to a fun session.
November 14, 2025 at 10:53 PM
Due to some recent revelations, the guy playing a dragonborn paladin in the D&D campaign I'm running has decided he wants to multiclass into warlock.
Tonight's going to a fun session.
Tonight's going to a fun session.
You ever have a song take on new depths of meaning and importance because of where you're at in life? Even a song you already loved before?
That's happening to me right now with Everybody Wants To Rule The World.
That's happening to me right now with Everybody Wants To Rule The World.
November 14, 2025 at 3:06 AM
You ever have a song take on new depths of meaning and importance because of where you're at in life? Even a song you already loved before?
That's happening to me right now with Everybody Wants To Rule The World.
That's happening to me right now with Everybody Wants To Rule The World.
Help me pick a new banner! A thread.
My current one is of my wedding, and it's lovely and beautiful and I'll always cherish those photos. But I'm obviously looking pretty masc in that photo. It was one of the rare times my wife had longer hair than me. 😅 I think I want something different, for now.
My current one is of my wedding, and it's lovely and beautiful and I'll always cherish those photos. But I'm obviously looking pretty masc in that photo. It was one of the rare times my wife had longer hair than me. 😅 I think I want something different, for now.
November 13, 2025 at 12:09 PM
Help me pick a new banner! A thread.
My current one is of my wedding, and it's lovely and beautiful and I'll always cherish those photos. But I'm obviously looking pretty masc in that photo. It was one of the rare times my wife had longer hair than me. 😅 I think I want something different, for now.
My current one is of my wedding, and it's lovely and beautiful and I'll always cherish those photos. But I'm obviously looking pretty masc in that photo. It was one of the rare times my wife had longer hair than me. 😅 I think I want something different, for now.
I think this silly "traditional gender roles" test is the thing that actually cracked my shell... I remember thinking at that point that I would probably eventually transition, but I wanted to see how the election went before I committed to anything.
In retrospect, probably not my best call.
In retrospect, probably not my best call.
November 13, 2025 at 4:50 AM
I think this silly "traditional gender roles" test is the thing that actually cracked my shell... I remember thinking at that point that I would probably eventually transition, but I wanted to see how the election went before I committed to anything.
In retrospect, probably not my best call.
In retrospect, probably not my best call.
Hey! So, some keen-eyes observers who have been following me a while may have noticed a few differences in my profile. And my name.
First thing's first... I'm not quite ready to come out publicly yet, so if you know me in real life, I'd appreciate you sticking with "Shane" and he/they for now.
First thing's first... I'm not quite ready to come out publicly yet, so if you know me in real life, I'd appreciate you sticking with "Shane" and he/they for now.
November 13, 2025 at 1:47 AM
Hey! So, some keen-eyes observers who have been following me a while may have noticed a few differences in my profile. And my name.
First thing's first... I'm not quite ready to come out publicly yet, so if you know me in real life, I'd appreciate you sticking with "Shane" and he/they for now.
First thing's first... I'm not quite ready to come out publicly yet, so if you know me in real life, I'd appreciate you sticking with "Shane" and he/they for now.
First new #MarvelCrisisProtocol mini I've painted in a while!
I've been hoping for this character for literally 5 years now, and he's exactly what I hoped he would be, rules-wise.
I've been hoping for this character for literally 5 years now, and he's exactly what I hoped he would be, rules-wise.
November 13, 2025 at 1:35 AM
First new #MarvelCrisisProtocol mini I've painted in a while!
I've been hoping for this character for literally 5 years now, and he's exactly what I hoped he would be, rules-wise.
I've been hoping for this character for literally 5 years now, and he's exactly what I hoped he would be, rules-wise.
The art vs the artist's hand 💜
November 10, 2025 at 1:03 PM
The art vs the artist's hand 💜
Ready to do some D&D prep! Planning to send my players somewhere special for Halloween tomorrow night.
October 31, 2025 at 3:18 AM
Ready to do some D&D prep! Planning to send my players somewhere special for Halloween tomorrow night.
This was a fun time. :D
We ran a game of Spirit Island tonight where we sprinted to full terror for Halloween. You can feel the power creep with Breath of Darkness versus Bringer of Dreams and Nightmares but we had a good time.
And wouldn't you know once the colonists had fled in terror this happened.
And wouldn't you know once the colonists had fled in terror this happened.
October 31, 2025 at 3:15 AM
This was a fun time. :D
Wife: Can you hand me... *pauses* ... the bottle with the pink polka dots?
Me: The one you put lotion in? I know what's in that one.
Wife: I don't like to assume.
Me: True. You wouldn't want to make an ass of Umption.
Wife: Yeah, that guy's been through enough.
Me: He's had a hard life.
Me: The one you put lotion in? I know what's in that one.
Wife: I don't like to assume.
Me: True. You wouldn't want to make an ass of Umption.
Wife: Yeah, that guy's been through enough.
Me: He's had a hard life.
October 29, 2025 at 4:11 AM
Wife: Can you hand me... *pauses* ... the bottle with the pink polka dots?
Me: The one you put lotion in? I know what's in that one.
Wife: I don't like to assume.
Me: True. You wouldn't want to make an ass of Umption.
Wife: Yeah, that guy's been through enough.
Me: He's had a hard life.
Me: The one you put lotion in? I know what's in that one.
Wife: I don't like to assume.
Me: True. You wouldn't want to make an ass of Umption.
Wife: Yeah, that guy's been through enough.
Me: He's had a hard life.
Got all the new #MarvelCrisisProtocol releases assembled!
Now I need to wait for some good weather for spray primer...
Now I need to wait for some good weather for spray primer...
October 26, 2025 at 2:02 AM
Got all the new #MarvelCrisisProtocol releases assembled!
Now I need to wait for some good weather for spray primer...
Now I need to wait for some good weather for spray primer...
Might have a new favorite Sheetz order. Breakfast sandwich on a bagel. Crispy chicken, fried egg, buffalo sauce, cream cheese, bacon.
The cream cheese and buffalo sauce go so well together. 😁
The cream cheese and buffalo sauce go so well together. 😁
October 25, 2025 at 9:58 PM
Might have a new favorite Sheetz order. Breakfast sandwich on a bagel. Crispy chicken, fried egg, buffalo sauce, cream cheese, bacon.
The cream cheese and buffalo sauce go so well together. 😁
The cream cheese and buffalo sauce go so well together. 😁
Making pretty good progress already. 😁
October 19, 2025 at 5:57 AM
Making pretty good progress already. 😁
Covets Gleaming Shards of Earth! The Incarna token is a Red Dragon Wyrmling from Nolzur's, while the Hoard marker is made of clay. :) Metal tokens coming soon!
If you don't know what this is, this might help: spiritislandwiki.com/index.php?ti...
If you don't know what this is, this might help: spiritislandwiki.com/index.php?ti...
October 16, 2025 at 10:48 PM
Covets Gleaming Shards of Earth! The Incarna token is a Red Dragon Wyrmling from Nolzur's, while the Hoard marker is made of clay. :) Metal tokens coming soon!
If you don't know what this is, this might help: spiritislandwiki.com/index.php?ti...
If you don't know what this is, this might help: spiritislandwiki.com/index.php?ti...
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If you're not on SNAP, please share the replies and donate if you're able.
Link's not around so we do what we can, right?
If you're not on SNAP, please share the replies and donate if you're able.
Link's not around so we do what we can, right?
SNAP runs out in a couple of weeks
Everyone’s talking about Milpay, but reminder that USDA is currently using excess 25 funds to pay for WIC and School Lunch. They say they have like maybe a month of that left.
Red States are going to lose their fucking minds if they can’t draw those soon.
Red States are going to lose their fucking minds if they can’t draw those soon.
October 15, 2025 at 9:30 PM
If you're on SNAP and you need help, add your links below so I can boost them.
If you're not on SNAP, please share the replies and donate if you're able.
Link's not around so we do what we can, right?
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Link's not around so we do what we can, right?
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If I'm old enough to decide to have kids forever, I'm also old enough to decide to have kids never.
October 9, 2025 at 12:54 PM
If I'm old enough to decide to have kids forever, I'm also old enough to decide to have kids never.