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Belasco
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Queer disabled nerd trapped in Texas
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It was suggested I do an intro post:
I’m a disabled middle-aged nonbinary queer liberal, happily married to my best friend since ‘95, & a parent of 4 adults.
I’m a gamer, LOVE learning, Episcopalian, & open to questions/convo.
DMs are open w/a no creep/crypto/maga policy
I ❤️ the block feature!
That wasn’t as bad as I expected it was going to be. Some food, 4hrs in bed & as long as I don’t move the vertigo is barely noticeable!

For me, this is part of what improvement looks like. If my lifespan were in geologic time I think I might actually get back to my pre-long covid baseline.
Sat up too long
Forgot to eat
Uhoh

#neisvoid
February 13, 2026 at 6:16 AM
Sat up too long
Forgot to eat
Uhoh

#neisvoid
February 13, 2026 at 1:52 AM
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Runes on the internet: ᛁ ᚨᛗ ᚨ ᛒᛖᚱᛊᛖᚱᚲᛖᚱ.

Runic inscriptions in real life:
February 12, 2026 at 2:10 PM
My spouse works for a company that’s based in South America.
They’re having their yearly offsite in Austin, TX. So few employees were willing to travel to the US, they’re renting a 7bdrm Airbnb. I just saw where it’s located, & that’s not Austin, y’all, that’s a very red area.

So, now I’m worried
February 12, 2026 at 8:24 PM
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February 11, 2026 at 9:45 PM
I got text spam from repub. Paul Rojas’ campaign (🤢) inviting me to our local coffee shop for a meet & greet. I was floored, it’s one of the 3 safe spaces for queer ppl in town.
Spouse called to see wtf, & the dude was there. Looks like he just showed up w/no notice then sent a text blast, asshole.
February 11, 2026 at 6:41 PM
Watching the Olympic women’s luge final with a slowly subsiding migraine is rough. I really want to have a chat with whomever thought giving the crowd whistles was a good idea - the cowbells aren’t quite so bad.

I know I could mute it, but I like the commentary
February 11, 2026 at 6:27 AM
In a very rare turn of events both my spouse & I got migraines.
My meds are starting to work & our sons are handling the pets & making dinner. Now I just need to be able to think clearly enough to cobble a migraine cocktail together for my spouse.
February 11, 2026 at 1:29 AM
I’ve been in a crash for a few days & I guess yesterday’s push to sit up to play a chill video game & moment of laundry folding abandon were too much, bc today I can barely speak or sit up.
I don’t understand ppl who are willing to risk getting #longcovid bc masking awkward, this is so much worse.
February 10, 2026 at 8:40 PM
Whelp, this was supposed to happen tomorrow, but my body canceled on me. I’ll try again in a couple of weeks.
Spouse made the decision to cancel & texted the guy to let him know since I couldn’t get a full sentence out. I’m grateful he read the situation & just handled it, still sucks.

#neisvoid
I just said okay to a stranger coming to visit. I mean, we’ve been in the same email group for a while & he seems super cool, but I’ve never met him.

It’s like the extrovert I was before long covid triggered much worse me/cfs possessed my body 😳

…I miss being that person

#neisvoid
February 10, 2026 at 8:29 PM
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Carbon Dating

xkcd.com/3205/
February 10, 2026 at 7:43 PM
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Hi everyone, I wanted to share a research study I just launched on rest, energy, & ME/CFS, open to people with ME/CFS & medical or healthcare providers who are currently practicing or conducting research & have had at least 1 patient or participant with ME/CFS. Visit restandmecfs.com for more.
February 4, 2026 at 4:05 PM
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I still cant believe a single covid infection has destroyed my life like this. I will always push for better awareness because i didnt know this was possible. But people seem willfully ignorant, even those in my life who see what happened to me. #LongCOVID #MECFS
February 9, 2026 at 8:06 PM
I read The Tao of Pooh as a teen & got super curious about Toaism. I came away from the reading & discussions feeling like I’d visited a different planet. In short, it was cool but not for me.
Here I am over 30yrs later & long covid has made what I learned then relevant, regardless of my opinion.
February 10, 2026 at 3:54 AM
I did a kinda crazy thing* rather than asking for help ‘cause I was frustrated. The visible app got super salty, & I had to stop. It’s been about 30mins & as I feel myself sinking I’m remembering why doing most things & getting frustrated are bad ideas.

#neisvoid

*I folded 1/2 a load of laundry
February 10, 2026 at 12:50 AM
Solid idea!

I’m always kinda amazed anyone is still speaking to me & I’m still married when I come off it
During a round of Prednisone, I basically need to chain myself to a tree like a werewolf during a full moon.
February 10, 2026 at 12:41 AM
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Being able to regulate your body temperature sounds made up.
February 9, 2026 at 12:29 PM
4mins is a lot of clock to run out
February 9, 2026 at 3:02 AM
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European drug commercials:

Canadian drug commercials:

US drug commercials: don’t take this drug if you are allergic to the drug.
February 9, 2026 at 2:25 AM
If you love defense & special teams this is the Super Bowl you’ve been waiting for!
February 9, 2026 at 2:25 AM
I invited my mom & stepdad over to watch the Super Bowl w/us & their grandsons.
After they said they’d join us I realized we moved the TV into our bedroom, & now there will be 7 adults in there.

Good thing we have a king size bed & room for a chair next to it!
February 8, 2026 at 10:07 PM
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Some days will stay with you forever.

This was taken on an incredible stormy morning at Reynisfjara in south #Iceland in Feb 2020. Never seen anything like it.
February 8, 2026 at 9:52 PM
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In case you missed this big, exciting news:

Germany Declares 'National Decade Against Post-Infectious Diseases'

www-bmftr-bund-de.translate.goog/SharedDocs/K...

From February 2026 Massachusetts ME/CFS & FM Association newsletter

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#MEcfs #LongCovid
February 8, 2026 at 1:46 AM
I only see commercials a few times a year. It’s been like this since 2006, & has become an interesting view into what companies think will motivate our society to buy things. This year, at least via the Olympics, I’m liking the vibe.

Beats the hell out of the “Win Christmas” year!
February 8, 2026 at 3:24 AM
I’m having one of those days where I feel like I’m dragging myself through a non newtonian fluid. If I speed up at all everything gets much more difficult or I rapidly hit a wall, but if I only move w/intention I can do it.

life with #longcovid & #me/cfs
February 7, 2026 at 11:56 PM