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apexleigh.bsky.social
Apex Intimacy Coach
@apexleigh.bsky.social
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California based intimacy coach specializing in BDSM, consensual non-monogamy, and sex work. Inquiries for individual, couples, or whole polycule sessions welcome at IntimacyWithApexLeigh.com

He/They, Bi/Pan, Switch, Polyam, Nerd, Critter mom, SWer
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Apex Intimacy Coach @apexleigh.bsky.social · May 30
My website for intimacy coaching is live! I'm offering three free sessions in exchange for feedback. Singles, couples, and more are welcome. More info below.
Two femmes, Apex (nonbinary), and our masculine mutual partner standing and smiling together with arms around each other. There is a bright eclectic mural behind us
apexleigh.bsky.social
Well, this is new. I tried to respond to a client for intimacy coaching via email with the meeting link, and their account auto returned my response. They didn't leave their phone number so I have no way to get in contact with them. 😐 If this is you, (initials IS) please reach out
August 12, 2025 at 11:10 PM
apexleigh.bsky.social
All dressed up for the Elegance Munch 💕
Apex has their back to the camera and is wearing a long black formal dress with an open back and a slit, and a chunky chain necklace, the tail of which falls down their back. Their shorter masculine partner has his hand on their waist and is looking up at them. He is wearing dark menswear with rolled up sleeves, a black hat, and a stack of bracelets and cuffs on the visible arm Apex has their back to the camera and wearing a long black formal dress with an open back and a slit, and a chunky chain necklace, the tail of which falls down their back. They have one tall stiletto heel kicked up slightly to show off the red bottom. Their shorter masculine partner has his hand on their waist and is looking up at them. He is wearing dark menswear with rolled up sleeves, a black hat, and a stack of bracelets and cuffs on the visible arm. Both are smiling looking at the camera
July 13, 2025 at 9:15 PM
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delialeigh.bsky.social
It is 2025 can we STOP fetishizing people based on their race if we are not of that race???
July 12, 2025 at 10:30 PM
apexleigh.bsky.social
I had this interesting interaction with someone on Fetlife who was complaining about his experiences with the local polyamory and kink scenes. He consistently likened polyamory to "getting cucked" and I went in with curiosity. It ended up going in a pretty good direction I think, and I hope 1/
July 13, 2025 at 8:44 PM
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did you eat and take your meds?
July 13, 2025 at 5:39 AM
apexleigh.bsky.social
Having trouble getting started? I can help!

intimacywithapexleigh.com
A meme that reads: When you wanna spice things up in bed but you honestly have no idea what you're doing The image below contains two small white rabbits with dark eyes. One has stuffed itself into a toilet paper roll and the other has its front paws on top of the roll
July 13, 2025 at 8:21 PM
apexleigh.bsky.social
Tired from kinky camp still, but leaning on my loved ones and still glowing from the wonderful interactions I had, new connections I made, and those that I deepened. How are you celebrating your sensual self lately?
July 3, 2025 at 7:51 PM
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coachkevmartin.bsky.social
There are many pathways to healing sexual identity-based shame and trauma, and one of my favorite ways is through the practice of sensual self-touch. 🥰

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How Sensual Self-Touch Can Heal Trauma
It’s safe to say that a majority of us within the gay+ community hold onto some form of trauma pertaining to our sexual orientation, our sexual identity, and/or our sexual interests.
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July 3, 2025 at 5:51 PM
apexleigh.bsky.social
It's not just women's rights, it's anyone with a uterus, but we ALL deserve the right to bodily autonomy.
mastercoachhu.bsky.social Master Coach Hu @mastercoachhu.bsky.social · Jul 3
Uplift and defend women's rights—every woman deserves the freedom to make decisions about her own body without interference, judgment, or restriction. Bodily autonomy isn't a privilege—it's a fundamental human right.

Namastè,
Master Coach Hu
July 3, 2025 at 7:44 PM
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drronholt.bsky.social
We have always existed…and always will. 🏳️‍🌈
July 2, 2025 at 8:28 PM
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drblackdeer.bsky.social
can we talk about how cultural competence/humility/whatever still centers yt practitioners as the default? because as a Native social worker, how am I supposed to be culturally humble with my own dang culture??
July 3, 2025 at 5:58 PM
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delialeigh.bsky.social
Who else likes a size difference relationship?
Delia stands with their back to the camera, showing off the keyhole back and high slit of their long black dress, along with a chain necklace that trails down their back. They tower over their masculine partner who is in dark formal wear and a hat, and he gazes upward at Delia with a hand on their waist
July 3, 2025 at 6:58 PM
apexleigh.bsky.social
Absolutely loved returning to the Elegance Munch with my love! It's great to have an excuse to get dressed up, show each other off, and connect with other kinky people in our local community
Apex and their masculine partner Z stand smiling in dark formal wear. Apex is wearing a vintage white and gray fox fur coat, and has tiny, brightly colored rubber ducks in their cleavage Apex and their masculine partner Z stand kissing in dark formal wear. Apex is wearing a vintage white and gray fox fur coat over their long black dress Apex and their masculine partner Z stand smiling and laughing in dark formal wear, Apex standing much taller than Z
July 3, 2025 at 7:39 PM
apexleigh.bsky.social
I know that haircuts can be healing, but this one meant more than most
Apex takes a selfie with bare shoulders and damp, short bleached hair, mid process Apex takes a selfie with bare shoulders and damp, short bleached hair, mid process, from the side showing the detail in their fade Apex takes a selfie with bare shoulders and short, fluffy hair dyed with pink, red, and purple tones from the front Apex takes a selfie with bare shoulders and short, fluffy hair dyed with pink, red, and purple tones from the side showing off their fade
July 2, 2025 at 2:01 AM
apexleigh.bsky.social
Currently on a flight home from Fusion. Went to some really excellent classes, made some new friends, deepened existing friendships, and am also VERY glad to be almost home. Want to hear more of the wisdoms I've learned? Check out
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Coaching for Intimacy with Apex Leigh | Enhance Your Love Life Today
Discover personalized intimacy coaching with Apex Leigh, specializing in relationship dynamics, confidence, and non-monogamy for a better love and personal life.
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July 2, 2025 at 1:57 AM
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inclusiveintimacy.bsky.social
We live in such a quick paced, harsh, disconnected society. It's no wonder we can't find the chance to slow down and reconnect. Here's an exercise and it won't take any more time than it would to take a shower or bath!

#relationshiptips #chronicillnesswarrior #chronicillness #disabilityawareness
June 21, 2025 at 9:04 PM
apexleigh.bsky.social
Out at the Berkeley Pride Variety Show with my partner 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️
Apex stands smiling with their partner at a queer event in Berkeley. Apex is wearing black knee high leather boots with rainbow stitching and laces, black leather cargo shorts, a black Mr. S shirt, and a blue/green iridescent chest harness. Their masculine partner is wearing blue boots, black jeans, a Leather flag belt buckle, sparkly rainbow button down shirt, a black leather suspender set with blue accents, and a blue long sleeved undershirt
June 21, 2025 at 11:20 PM
apexleigh.bsky.social
Happy Father's Day to all of the dads and Daddies! 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️⚧️
June 15, 2025 at 10:26 PM
apexleigh.bsky.social
Out for the watch party for a friend's new music video!
Delia and their masculine partner. Delia is wearing black and white leather sneakers, black crew length socks, black leather cargo shorts, and a gray short sleeved button down shirt. Their partner is wearing black knee high Docs, dark blue leather pants, a black leather longline vest, a silver chainmail belt, and a dark gray patterned button down shirt
June 14, 2025 at 6:30 AM
apexleigh.bsky.social
A hierarchy of needs pyramid, but there's only one segment that reads, "biting someone who cares about me and plays with my hair and keeps me warm"
June 11, 2025 at 1:13 AM
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tcustodis.bsky.social
Happy Pride Month 2025 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️
Be gay do crow stuff

#pridemonth #pridecrows
June 1, 2025 at 12:38 PM
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bishopsteiner.bsky.social
June 7, 2025 at 5:55 AM
apexleigh.bsky.social
"Working with Apex was wonderful. From the start, I felt really welcomed and understood. My partner and I were struggling with navigating new interpersonal dynamics in our polyamorous relationship, and Apex gave us practical, thoughtful advice that made a big difference. 1/3
June 10, 2025 at 1:31 AM
apexleigh.bsky.social
Looking forward to Dark Odyssey Fusion in just over two weeks! Already looking at classes there to enrich my education in kink, consensual non-monogamy, and beyond! 😊
June 9, 2025 at 9:25 PM
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thewakan.bsky.social
June 9, 2025 at 2:43 PM