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apexleigh.bsky.social
Apex Intimacy Coach
@apexleigh.bsky.social
California based intimacy coach specializing in BDSM, consensual non-monogamy, and sex work. Inquiries for individual, couples, or whole polycule sessions welcome at IntimacyWithApexLeigh.com

He/They, Bi/Pan, Switch, Polyam, Nerd, Critter mom, SWer
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My website for intimacy coaching is live! I'm offering three free sessions in exchange for feedback. Singles, couples, and more are welcome. More info below.
Well, this is new. I tried to respond to a client for intimacy coaching via email with the meeting link, and their account auto returned my response. They didn't leave their phone number so I have no way to get in contact with them. 😐 If this is you, (initials IS) please reach out
August 12, 2025 at 11:10 PM
All dressed up for the Elegance Munch 💕
July 13, 2025 at 9:15 PM
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It is 2025 can we STOP fetishizing people based on their race if we are not of that race???
July 12, 2025 at 10:30 PM
I had this interesting interaction with someone on Fetlife who was complaining about his experiences with the local polyamory and kink scenes. He consistently likened polyamory to "getting cucked" and I went in with curiosity. It ended up going in a pretty good direction I think, and I hope 1/
July 13, 2025 at 8:44 PM
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did you eat and take your meds?
July 13, 2025 at 5:39 AM
Having trouble getting started? I can help!

intimacywithapexleigh.com
July 13, 2025 at 8:21 PM
Tired from kinky camp still, but leaning on my loved ones and still glowing from the wonderful interactions I had, new connections I made, and those that I deepened. How are you celebrating your sensual self lately?
July 3, 2025 at 7:51 PM
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There are many pathways to healing sexual identity-based shame and trauma, and one of my favorite ways is through the practice of sensual self-touch. 🥰

coachkevmartin.substack.com/p/how-sensua...
How Sensual Self-Touch Can Heal Trauma
It’s safe to say that a majority of us within the gay+ community hold onto some form of trauma pertaining to our sexual orientation, our sexual identity, and/or our sexual interests.
coachkevmartin.substack.com
July 3, 2025 at 5:51 PM
It's not just women's rights, it's anyone with a uterus, but we ALL deserve the right to bodily autonomy.
Uplift and defend women's rights—every woman deserves the freedom to make decisions about her own body without interference, judgment, or restriction. Bodily autonomy isn't a privilege—it's a fundamental human right.

Namastè,
Master Coach Hu
July 3, 2025 at 7:44 PM
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We have always existed…and always will. 🏳️‍🌈
July 2, 2025 at 8:28 PM
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can we talk about how cultural competence/humility/whatever still centers yt practitioners as the default? because as a Native social worker, how am I supposed to be culturally humble with my own dang culture??
July 3, 2025 at 5:58 PM
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Who else likes a size difference relationship?
July 3, 2025 at 6:58 PM
Absolutely loved returning to the Elegance Munch with my love! It's great to have an excuse to get dressed up, show each other off, and connect with other kinky people in our local community
July 3, 2025 at 7:39 PM
I know that haircuts can be healing, but this one meant more than most
July 2, 2025 at 2:01 AM
Currently on a flight home from Fusion. Went to some really excellent classes, made some new friends, deepened existing friendships, and am also VERY glad to be almost home. Want to hear more of the wisdoms I've learned? Check out
IntimacyWithApexLeigh.com
Coaching for Intimacy with Apex Leigh | Enhance Your Love Life Today
Discover personalized intimacy coaching with Apex Leigh, specializing in relationship dynamics, confidence, and non-monogamy for a better love and personal life.
IntimacyWithApexLeigh.com
July 2, 2025 at 1:57 AM
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We live in such a quick paced, harsh, disconnected society. It's no wonder we can't find the chance to slow down and reconnect. Here's an exercise and it won't take any more time than it would to take a shower or bath!

#relationshiptips #chronicillnesswarrior #chronicillness #disabilityawareness
June 21, 2025 at 9:04 PM
Out at the Berkeley Pride Variety Show with my partner 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️
June 21, 2025 at 11:20 PM
Happy Father's Day to all of the dads and Daddies! 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️⚧️
June 15, 2025 at 10:26 PM
Out for the watch party for a friend's new music video!
June 14, 2025 at 6:30 AM
June 11, 2025 at 1:13 AM
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Happy Pride Month 2025 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️
Be gay do crow stuff

#pridemonth #pridecrows
June 1, 2025 at 12:38 PM
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June 7, 2025 at 5:55 AM
"Working with Apex was wonderful. From the start, I felt really welcomed and understood. My partner and I were struggling with navigating new interpersonal dynamics in our polyamorous relationship, and Apex gave us practical, thoughtful advice that made a big difference. 1/3
June 10, 2025 at 1:31 AM
Looking forward to Dark Odyssey Fusion in just over two weeks! Already looking at classes there to enrich my education in kink, consensual non-monogamy, and beyond! 😊
June 9, 2025 at 9:25 PM
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June 9, 2025 at 2:43 PM