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apexleigh.bsky.social
Apex Intimacy Coach
@apexleigh.bsky.social
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California based intimacy coach specializing in BDSM, consensual non-monogamy, and sex work. Inquiries for individual, couples, or whole polycule sessions welcome at IntimacyWithApexLeigh.com

He/They, Bi/Pan, Switch, Polyam, Nerd, Critter mom, SWer
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apexleigh.bsky.social
All dressed up for the Elegance Munch 💕
Apex has their back to the camera and is wearing a long black formal dress with an open back and a slit, and a chunky chain necklace, the tail of which falls down their back. Their shorter masculine partner has his hand on their waist and is looking up at them. He is wearing dark menswear with rolled up sleeves, a black hat, and a stack of bracelets and cuffs on the visible arm Apex has their back to the camera and wearing a long black formal dress with an open back and a slit, and a chunky chain necklace, the tail of which falls down their back. They have one tall stiletto heel kicked up slightly to show off the red bottom. Their shorter masculine partner has his hand on their waist and is looking up at them. He is wearing dark menswear with rolled up sleeves, a black hat, and a stack of bracelets and cuffs on the visible arm. Both are smiling looking at the camera
July 13, 2025 at 9:15 PM
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Having trouble getting started? I can help!

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A meme that reads: When you wanna spice things up in bed but you honestly have no idea what you're doing The image below contains two small white rabbits with dark eyes. One has stuffed itself into a toilet paper roll and the other has its front paws on top of the roll
July 13, 2025 at 8:21 PM
apexleigh.bsky.social
Absolutely loved returning to the Elegance Munch with my love! It's great to have an excuse to get dressed up, show each other off, and connect with other kinky people in our local community
Apex and their masculine partner Z stand smiling in dark formal wear. Apex is wearing a vintage white and gray fox fur coat, and has tiny, brightly colored rubber ducks in their cleavage Apex and their masculine partner Z stand kissing in dark formal wear. Apex is wearing a vintage white and gray fox fur coat over their long black dress Apex and their masculine partner Z stand smiling and laughing in dark formal wear, Apex standing much taller than Z
July 3, 2025 at 7:39 PM
apexleigh.bsky.social
I know that haircuts can be healing, but this one meant more than most
Apex takes a selfie with bare shoulders and damp, short bleached hair, mid process Apex takes a selfie with bare shoulders and damp, short bleached hair, mid process, from the side showing the detail in their fade Apex takes a selfie with bare shoulders and short, fluffy hair dyed with pink, red, and purple tones from the front Apex takes a selfie with bare shoulders and short, fluffy hair dyed with pink, red, and purple tones from the side showing off their fade
July 2, 2025 at 2:01 AM
apexleigh.bsky.social
Out at the Berkeley Pride Variety Show with my partner 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️
Apex stands smiling with their partner at a queer event in Berkeley. Apex is wearing black knee high leather boots with rainbow stitching and laces, black leather cargo shorts, a black Mr. S shirt, and a blue/green iridescent chest harness. Their masculine partner is wearing blue boots, black jeans, a Leather flag belt buckle, sparkly rainbow button down shirt, a black leather suspender set with blue accents, and a blue long sleeved undershirt
June 21, 2025 at 11:20 PM
apexleigh.bsky.social
Out for the watch party for a friend's new music video!
Delia and their masculine partner. Delia is wearing black and white leather sneakers, black crew length socks, black leather cargo shorts, and a gray short sleeved button down shirt. Their partner is wearing black knee high Docs, dark blue leather pants, a black leather longline vest, a silver chainmail belt, and a dark gray patterned button down shirt
June 14, 2025 at 6:30 AM
apexleigh.bsky.social
A hierarchy of needs pyramid, but there's only one segment that reads, "biting someone who cares about me and plays with my hair and keeps me warm"
June 11, 2025 at 1:13 AM
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Got my Neurodivergent Three Drinks™️ ready for the first call of the day!
A photo of a mug that reads "my illness is chronic but my ass is iconic" with black tea, a black water bottle with colorful stickers, and a stemless wine glass that contains soda water and bitters
June 3, 2025 at 4:52 PM
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My website for intimacy coaching is live! I'm offering three free sessions in exchange for feedback. Singles, couples, and more are welcome. More info below.
Two femmes, Apex (nonbinary), and our masculine mutual partner standing and smiling together with arms around each other. There is a bright eclectic mural behind us
May 30, 2025 at 7:24 PM
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Q: would like to be more like you A: While this is a sweet sentiment and it's good to have role models, it's also important to remember that I'm a very flawed human being like most everyone else. I hope you can take away the good things though and thrive!
May 29, 2025 at 6:15 PM
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tellonym.me/delia.leigh
Q: i bet you are an introvert A: Actually, the answer to that is complicated! I am less of an introvert, more of an extrovert who has gained social anxiety from the pandemic. 😅 I also have been listening to my body more and identifying when my social battery is running low for the presence of new or more taxing individuals. I don't get tired of being in the presence of certain people though, and actually find parallel play very comforting. And some days I really do want to just be out amongst strangers for awhile. So it's complicated! But I think extroverted neurodivergent is probably closer to reality.
May 29, 2025 at 6:10 PM
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tellonym.me/delia.leigh
Q: I always feel better after talking to you, thank you!!! A: That's so sweet! I'm glad that I can help 💕
May 28, 2025 at 8:22 PM
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tellonym.me/delia.leigh
Q: I feel like I understand you from your posts A: While it's impossible to really get to know someone from their posts alone, I do try to be very authentic in how I present myself so I take this as a compliment 😊
May 28, 2025 at 8:21 PM
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tellonym.me/delia.leigh
Q: I honestly value you very much A: I'm guessing this is from a friend, and I value you too 💕
May 28, 2025 at 8:19 PM
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tellonym.me/delia.leigh
Q: I wrote you msgs but was too scared to send them A: Send them! As long as they're not asking for free labor or objectifying, nice messages are great 😊
May 28, 2025 at 8:18 PM
apexleigh.bsky.social
My polyam game is top notch 😎 (though for most, I definitely wouldn't suggest this many. It just happens to work for my own personal polycule and life circumstances!)
Q: got a partner right now? A: Five committed partners at current! They are all wonderful 🥰
May 28, 2025 at 8:17 PM
apexleigh.bsky.social
This was so sweet to read 🥰

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Q: ur perfect as I are A: Sweet of you to say 💕 I'm definitely not perfect, but I'm committed to growth and kindness and I think that's all one can do!
May 28, 2025 at 8:15 PM
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Your cousin must be cool af 😉

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Q: u definitely remind me of ma cousin A: I hope that's a compliment 😂
May 28, 2025 at 8:13 PM
apexleigh.bsky.social
Happy birthday to our wonderful partner Jeff!
A photo of Apex, two of their femme metamours, and our masculine mutual partner Jeff dressed casually for his birthday outing. There is a busy, contemporary art piece in the background A photo of Apex, two of their femme metamours, and our masculine mutual partner Jeff dressed casually for his birthday outing. There is a busy, contemporary art piece in the background
May 24, 2025 at 6:46 PM
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Meanwhile my baby is also on vacation, just with his Biscuit Daddy
Markesh, a dilute red tri colored Australian Shepherd, lays on a blue pillow giving big puppy eyes to the camera Markesh, a dilute red tri colored Australian Shepherd, lays on a blue pillow giving a big smile to the camera
May 23, 2025 at 1:25 PM
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Couple of lazy dogs watching TV
Two dogs look out the window to green scenery, hoping for wildlife to come by
May 23, 2025 at 1:15 PM
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Hi, my name is Apex! I've been practicing polyamory in various forms, involved in kink, and sex work for over a decade and I am excited to help you connect with yourself and others.
Apex takes a selfie in front of Trader Sam's at Disneyland. They are a slender white nonbinary person with short rainbow hair and a genuine smile
May 23, 2025 at 12:18 AM
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Enjoying Colorado with one of my partners 💕
Apex stands smiling in a black leather jacket with their hands in their pockets, dark gray jeans, and black and white leather sneakers. In the background there is a stone chapel and the Rocky Mountains Apex stands smiling with their partner in a black leather jacket with their hands in their pockets, dark gray jeans, and black and white leather sneakers. Their partner is a white masculine individual wearing a black beanie, blue and gray coat, blue jeans, and dark gray hiking shoes. In the background there is a stone chapel and the Rocky Mountains A photo of the Rockies with a stone chapel and converging creeks in the foreground A photo of the Rockies with converging creeks in the foreground
May 22, 2025 at 6:42 PM