#actualLesbians
I don't even like actuallesbians either. I don't feel like I belong in any Reddit community tbh
February 14, 2026 at 11:52 PM
Every single lesbian subreddit except for actuallesbians is stealth TERF
Yeah sure. Go off I guess. Perpetuate those harmful stereotypes lesbians!! Make people hate us even more!! How empowering for the lesbian community...
February 14, 2026 at 11:08 PM
r/actuallesbians is the largest lesbian sub on reddit. Full of trans & nb and bi/pan people. Unfortunately they are also lesbophobic.

They claim lesbians can be men attracted to men. They also claim lifelong activists like me are transphobic bc I described MYSELF as a nb afab lesbian. It gets worse
February 14, 2026 at 1:52 PM
I figured it out at 27, meanwhile at 23 I was on r/traaa and r/actuallesbians
February 12, 2026 at 8:32 AM
Oh look, people who think there aren’t any queer people in China

https://www.reddit.com/r/actuallesbians/comments/1qzhhm5/were_all_thinking_it_right/
February 8, 2026 at 11:21 PM
I don’t think it’s the first time I’ve said this and it won’t be the last. If I’m repeating myself it’s b/c I read another infuriating post on /r/actuallesbians.
February 7, 2026 at 12:30 PM
I’m learning so much
January 29, 2026 at 3:18 AM
stede bonnet
January 17, 2026 at 8:34 PM
r/actuallesbians has a new topic of conversation.
Normally it's one of:
1) Can lesbians be attracted to me?
2) Something that makes trans women feel shit
3) Something to do with bi women

Currently they're arguing about whether lolicon is acceptable lesbian reading
December 27, 2025 at 3:52 PM
I have bad news for this lady.

Also man the /r/actuallesbians sub is cooked, it's full of people whining about misandry being real, hurtful, and oppressive.
December 18, 2025 at 9:56 AM
Other people don’t see you the way you see yourself.

www.reddit.com/r/actuallesb...

www.reddit.com/r/actuallesb...

And so on. I googled Reddit actuallesbians tummy pouch, and there are pages of results.
Yes I do 🤤
www.reddit.com
December 15, 2025 at 10:58 PM
Reddit was a kind of horrible place for Women (still is) back then - see r/lesbians just being a porn sub and so r/actuallesbians had to be made to talk about being lesbian.
December 2, 2025 at 11:08 AM
It is a small thing, but it makes me smile to know that my little raunchy idea is now sitting near the top of the /r/actuallesbians and /r/piltoversfinest subreddits
3/3 CaitVi Sketches complete!

Now I'm gonna focus fully on Beau/Yasha in wedding attire!
November 21, 2025 at 1:39 AM
traderjoeslesbian appears to be the old name of the cauliflowergnoccidyke blog, by the way (e.g. this 5-year-old actuallesbians redditpost containing the same post www.reddit.com/r/actuallesb... ). I took the screenshot on the right today.
November 18, 2025 at 5:31 PM
idk if the reddit lesbians are okay (marked NSFW of course)
November 7, 2025 at 3:14 PM
I’m sorry but this is so funny. Peep the second comment
October 30, 2025 at 10:20 PM
는 r/actuallesbians 좀 보고 (8시쯤)
October 28, 2025 at 11:25 AM
r/actuallesbians 눈팅 좀 하고 자야지
Gonna go to sleep after reading some r/actuallesbians posts
October 26, 2025 at 12:29 PM
r/actuallesbians 눈팅좀하고
While reading posts on r/actuallesbians
October 23, 2025 at 3:52 AM
I love my people
October 21, 2025 at 5:01 AM
Aren't you confusing it with lesbiansactually? Because actuallesbians is super trans incluse, it's one of the only safe places there is
October 11, 2025 at 10:29 PM
I was always put off by how transmisogynistic actuallesbians usually was. Often to the point of comments being full of transmascs shitting on trans women and cis lesbians agreeing. Really sucked.
October 11, 2025 at 8:10 PM
I never checked the sources on r/actuallesbians. I was caught up in how sweet and trans-inclusive the sub was.

I constantly see people there supporting each other and I never looked too deeply beyond that since there were so few spaces I found out there that were both wlw and trans-positive.
October 11, 2025 at 8:08 PM
i mean lets not forget that r/actuallesbians had to be called that because r/lesbians was made as a porn sub....
October 11, 2025 at 8:00 PM