When I met my wife, I had not long started schema therapy & was learning about the punitive critic voice. It's a bully. It backs down when you stand up to it. I reminded her that it lies. So if she hears that voice saying nasty shit about her, what is it?
A lie.
October 10, 2025 at 5:33 AM
When I met my wife, I had not long started schema therapy & was learning about the punitive critic voice. It's a bully. It backs down when you stand up to it. I reminded her that it lies. So if she hears that voice saying nasty shit about her, what is it?
But that was a particular place and time in the world, and we don’t live in the world anymore. I wish it was different too. But like most other women who exist online, I’ve had stalkers. I’ve had threats. I feel it’s too risky for me to disclose details about my intimate life, in the current climate
October 10, 2025 at 3:40 AM
But that was a particular place and time in the world, and we don’t live in the world anymore. I wish it was different too. But like most other women who exist online, I’ve had stalkers. I’ve had threats. I feel it’s too risky for me to disclose details about my intimate life, in the current climate