Violet Grey
@violetgreywriter.bsky.social
Sex blogger, erotica writer, tea drinker, theology nerd, Anglo-Catholic, book hoarder. 30s. 🏳️🌈 All opinions my own. STRICTLY 18+ ONLY. MDNI
Website: becomingvioletgrey.com
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Violet Grey
@violetgreywriter.bsky.social
· Oct 21
One for the algorithm. I'm a sex blogger and spicy writer. I write and enjoy:
❤️ Spicy romance
❤️ Erotica (primarily D/s fiction).
❤️ HEAs
❤️ Grumpy x Sunshine
❤️ "He's a bad guy, but not a bad GUY" trope.
❤️ Warm and fuzzy romance.
❤️ Diet dark romance (morally grey but good guy MMC).
Strictly 18+.
❤️ Spicy romance
❤️ Erotica (primarily D/s fiction).
❤️ HEAs
❤️ Grumpy x Sunshine
❤️ "He's a bad guy, but not a bad GUY" trope.
❤️ Warm and fuzzy romance.
❤️ Diet dark romance (morally grey but good guy MMC).
Strictly 18+.
Not being facetious here, this is exactly how people with dementia and Alzheimer's talk. Often called a word salad and it heightens when a person is sundowning.
Trump: "Under Boot Edge Edge - another grossly incompetent. Get on his bicycle, ride to work. What they do is they take the fiber optics & they take fiber, try to hook it into copper. And fiber and copper don't mix. You can't do it...you saw that by the helicopter crash. You saw that into the plane"
December 2, 2025 at 5:50 PM
Not being facetious here, this is exactly how people with dementia and Alzheimer's talk. Often called a word salad and it heightens when a person is sundowning.
"You attract what you fear."
AHHHH! IDRIS ELBA!!! AHHHH!!!
AHHHH! IDRIS ELBA!!! AHHHH!!!
"you attract what you fear."
OH GOD. OH MY GOD NOOOO!! A SENSE OF VALIDATION AND BELONGING... AND UNLIMITED FREE TIME TO WRITE?? GET AWAAAAAY FROM MEEEEE!
OH GOD. OH MY GOD NOOOO!! A SENSE OF VALIDATION AND BELONGING... AND UNLIMITED FREE TIME TO WRITE?? GET AWAAAAAY FROM MEEEEE!
December 2, 2025 at 5:17 PM
"You attract what you fear."
AHHHH! IDRIS ELBA!!! AHHHH!!!
AHHHH! IDRIS ELBA!!! AHHHH!!!
December 1st marks World AIDS Day.
We remember the generation of people lost to this terrible disease. We remember the people living with HIV that now can live regular lives due to advancements in medicine. We remember the people in impoverished areas who desperately need this medicine. ❤️🕯️
We remember the generation of people lost to this terrible disease. We remember the people living with HIV that now can live regular lives due to advancements in medicine. We remember the people in impoverished areas who desperately need this medicine. ❤️🕯️
a candle is lit up in the dark and the flame is visible
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December 1, 2025 at 9:13 PM
December 1st marks World AIDS Day.
We remember the generation of people lost to this terrible disease. We remember the people living with HIV that now can live regular lives due to advancements in medicine. We remember the people in impoverished areas who desperately need this medicine. ❤️🕯️
We remember the generation of people lost to this terrible disease. We remember the people living with HIV that now can live regular lives due to advancements in medicine. We remember the people in impoverished areas who desperately need this medicine. ❤️🕯️
Friendly reminder that you don't have to partake in any sexual activity you don't want to. And if you do, between consenting adults (obviously, that goes without saying), that's between you and your partner(s). Whatever anyone else thinks, it's not their business.
Stay safe, folks ❤️
Stay safe, folks ❤️
a pink heart shaped candy with the word consent on it
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November 26, 2025 at 5:03 PM
Friendly reminder that you don't have to partake in any sexual activity you don't want to. And if you do, between consenting adults (obviously, that goes without saying), that's between you and your partner(s). Whatever anyone else thinks, it's not their business.
Stay safe, folks ❤️
Stay safe, folks ❤️
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3/ ✍️ Writers:
We're looking for pitches from early talent Trans+ writers and journalists to write 700-1000 word history articles - one for each day of Trans+ History Week 🏳️⚧️
Apply 👉 www.wearequeeraf.com/telltranshis...
We're looking for pitches from early talent Trans+ writers and journalists to write 700-1000 word history articles - one for each day of Trans+ History Week 🏳️⚧️
Apply 👉 www.wearequeeraf.com/telltranshis...
November 11, 2025 at 2:46 PM
3/ ✍️ Writers:
We're looking for pitches from early talent Trans+ writers and journalists to write 700-1000 word history articles - one for each day of Trans+ History Week 🏳️⚧️
Apply 👉 www.wearequeeraf.com/telltranshis...
We're looking for pitches from early talent Trans+ writers and journalists to write 700-1000 word history articles - one for each day of Trans+ History Week 🏳️⚧️
Apply 👉 www.wearequeeraf.com/telltranshis...
Always remember to read the room before you ejaculate 🤣
November 25, 2025 at 1:46 PM
Always remember to read the room before you ejaculate 🤣
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The UK is a strongly pro-choice country with 86% of Britons wanting abortion to be legal in all or most cases. But the US anti-choice movement has been investing heavily into campaigns in Britain, and Nigel Farage’s Reform UK party seems to be support the interference.
The worrying rise of US anti-abortion rhetoric is in full force - how deep is Reform UK's involvement?
Money is pouring into anti-abortion campaigns in Britain, and it seems Nigel Farage’s party isn’t pushing back…
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November 23, 2025 at 3:11 AM
The UK is a strongly pro-choice country with 86% of Britons wanting abortion to be legal in all or most cases. But the US anti-choice movement has been investing heavily into campaigns in Britain, and Nigel Farage’s Reform UK party seems to be support the interference.
Okay folks, question time: What posts do you want to see more of on my blog?
November 22, 2025 at 2:56 PM
Okay folks, question time: What posts do you want to see more of on my blog?
Die Hard has now been replaced from the "Is it a Christmas movie?" discourse 😂
A time for us all to gather for a meal, a celebration of the birth of a very special child, born miraculously through immaculate conception. Reminding us that what truly matters is what's inside... 🎄
November 22, 2025 at 2:54 PM
Die Hard has now been replaced from the "Is it a Christmas movie?" discourse 😂
Happy International Men's Day to all the wonderful men in my life 🫶 You're all awesome, you're all handsome and I'm sending you all the hugs in the world 🤗
November 19, 2025 at 10:32 PM
Happy International Men's Day to all the wonderful men in my life 🫶 You're all awesome, you're all handsome and I'm sending you all the hugs in the world 🤗
So the same folks who talked about "protecting the children" via book bans, losing their minds at drag queens etc, are defending a man with links to one of the most prolific child sex traffickers in modern history, and when a journalist asks him about it, says "Quiet, piggy"?
Right...
Right...
a woman in a purple jacket is sitting in a chair with a glass of wine in her hand .
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November 19, 2025 at 1:38 PM
So the same folks who talked about "protecting the children" via book bans, losing their minds at drag queens etc, are defending a man with links to one of the most prolific child sex traffickers in modern history, and when a journalist asks him about it, says "Quiet, piggy"?
Right...
Right...
"You can't call someone a Nazi because you disagree with them."
It's not because I disagree with them. It's because they're doing and sympathise with what the Nazis did, and believe in doing the same to others.
Hence, a Nazi.
It's not because I disagree with them. It's because they're doing and sympathise with what the Nazis did, and believe in doing the same to others.
Hence, a Nazi.
November 17, 2025 at 11:11 PM
"You can't call someone a Nazi because you disagree with them."
It's not because I disagree with them. It's because they're doing and sympathise with what the Nazis did, and believe in doing the same to others.
Hence, a Nazi.
It's not because I disagree with them. It's because they're doing and sympathise with what the Nazis did, and believe in doing the same to others.
Hence, a Nazi.
Not going to lie, the thought crossed my mind too once he said to release them. That there might be scrambling to burn, shred, wipe, any trace of some of his most depraved involvement.
Just a hunch, but I feel some might be already destroyed so we may never know the true extent.
Just a hunch, but I feel some might be already destroyed so we may never know the true extent.
He knows they have the votes to filibuster in the Senate.
Or they have successfully destroyed everything showing he knew all about what Epstein was doing.
Or they have successfully destroyed everything showing he knew all about what Epstein was doing.
November 17, 2025 at 6:36 PM
Not going to lie, the thought crossed my mind too once he said to release them. That there might be scrambling to burn, shred, wipe, any trace of some of his most depraved involvement.
Just a hunch, but I feel some might be already destroyed so we may never know the true extent.
Just a hunch, but I feel some might be already destroyed so we may never know the true extent.
Sacha is absolutely right here. From my experience as a sex blogger, and speaking from the POV of a convert, never in my life have I come across a demographic so obsessed with sex and other's sex lives as I have purity-culture obsessed religious folks.
Those who scream 'think of the children', who beg for a return to purity and traditional family values... don't half obsess about other people's sex lives.
November 17, 2025 at 5:03 PM
Sacha is absolutely right here. From my experience as a sex blogger, and speaking from the POV of a convert, never in my life have I come across a demographic so obsessed with sex and other's sex lives as I have purity-culture obsessed religious folks.
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This is Benjamin. He was found as a stray with torn CCLs and a significant bone infection, making walking very painful. He needs multiple surgeries to feel better and ongoing care to ensure the infection doesn't spread. You can help him below ❤️🩹
15outof10.org/benjamin/
15outof10.org/benjamin/
November 14, 2025 at 5:03 PM
This is Benjamin. He was found as a stray with torn CCLs and a significant bone infection, making walking very painful. He needs multiple surgeries to feel better and ongoing care to ensure the infection doesn't spread. You can help him below ❤️🩹
15outof10.org/benjamin/
15outof10.org/benjamin/
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Yes, by starving them since how many can't get access to SNAP anymore. The cruelty is the point.
Also, so as not to forget, Mike Johnson still is refusing to swear in an elected official because they'll be the deciding vote to release the Epstein Files.
Also, so as not to forget, Mike Johnson still is refusing to swear in an elected official because they'll be the deciding vote to release the Epstein Files.
November 7, 2025 at 2:57 PM
Yes, by starving them since how many can't get access to SNAP anymore. The cruelty is the point.
Also, so as not to forget, Mike Johnson still is refusing to swear in an elected official because they'll be the deciding vote to release the Epstein Files.
Also, so as not to forget, Mike Johnson still is refusing to swear in an elected official because they'll be the deciding vote to release the Epstein Files.
As it's Guy Fawkes Night, friendly reminder to look after our four-legged friends and our friends with PTSD. Same for over the holiday season and New Year, where fireworks are most used.
Take care and stay safe, everyone ❤️
Take care and stay safe, everyone ❤️
November 5, 2025 at 7:51 PM
As it's Guy Fawkes Night, friendly reminder to look after our four-legged friends and our friends with PTSD. Same for over the holiday season and New Year, where fireworks are most used.
Take care and stay safe, everyone ❤️
Take care and stay safe, everyone ❤️
Damn, he's good 😂
November 5, 2025 at 2:50 PM
Damn, he's good 😂
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Let's go, Zohran! 🙌
November 5, 2025 at 1:48 PM
Let's go, Zohran! 🙌
Still in a blogging slump. If anyone has any advice, be much appreciated 🫶
Truthfully, I've been in a blogging slump for a while and I've preferred staying off social media since *those guys* got back in again.
My blog's been feeling the need to go in a little different direction for a while, but I'm not entirely sure how yet.
My blog's been feeling the need to go in a little different direction for a while, but I'm not entirely sure how yet.
November 3, 2025 at 8:55 PM
Still in a blogging slump. If anyone has any advice, be much appreciated 🫶
Me: Since I have seasonal depression, how about I read something more cheerful?
Also me: What about some Russian literature? You've been meaning to read Dostoevsky for a while now.
Me to me: 🤦♀️
Also me: What about some Russian literature? You've been meaning to read Dostoevsky for a while now.
Me to me: 🤦♀️
a woman in a blue suit has her hands on her hips and says " have you lost your mind "
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November 3, 2025 at 8:53 PM
Me: Since I have seasonal depression, how about I read something more cheerful?
Also me: What about some Russian literature? You've been meaning to read Dostoevsky for a while now.
Me to me: 🤦♀️
Also me: What about some Russian literature? You've been meaning to read Dostoevsky for a while now.
Me to me: 🤦♀️
When you're loving the coziness of autumn, but then seasonal depression kicks in 🙃
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October 23, 2025 at 5:11 PM
When you're loving the coziness of autumn, but then seasonal depression kicks in 🙃
If anyone else started talking like this, you'd rush them to the doctor.
DJT talks like this, he gets voted into the White House.
People are mad.
DJT talks like this, he gets voted into the White House.
People are mad.
Trump: "We have Darth Vader. You know Darth Vader, right? Darth Vader is a man who is sitting -- is that Darth? Stand up please. Does everybody know -- they call him Darth Vader, I call him a fine man. But he's cutting Democrat priorities and they're never gonna get them back."
October 21, 2025 at 5:52 PM
If anyone else started talking like this, you'd rush them to the doctor.
DJT talks like this, he gets voted into the White House.
People are mad.
DJT talks like this, he gets voted into the White House.
People are mad.