@unhingedfairy.bsky.social
I am queer, trans man who is Polyamorous and living with Autistic burnout and ADHD.
(He/him)
Decolonisation starts with educating ourselves.
(He/him)
Decolonisation starts with educating ourselves.
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Happy Black History Month!! It costs 0$ to Repost a Black disabled queer small business! It could lead to my next sale.
All 3 knee brace patterns are available for pre-order!! If I don't sell enough of them. I'll have to cancel orders. So please support!!
We're 55% to the goal! Keep sharing!!
All 3 knee brace patterns are available for pre-order!! If I don't sell enough of them. I'll have to cancel orders. So please support!!
We're 55% to the goal! Keep sharing!!
February 27, 2025 at 6:23 PM
Happy Black History Month!! It costs 0$ to Repost a Black disabled queer small business! It could lead to my next sale.
All 3 knee brace patterns are available for pre-order!! If I don't sell enough of them. I'll have to cancel orders. So please support!!
We're 55% to the goal! Keep sharing!!
All 3 knee brace patterns are available for pre-order!! If I don't sell enough of them. I'll have to cancel orders. So please support!!
We're 55% to the goal! Keep sharing!!
March 2, 2025 at 2:15 PM
Some of my makeup looks from end of last year. Mainly eyeshadow looks. #eyeshadow #femboy
February 3, 2025 at 9:52 AM
Some of my makeup looks from end of last year. Mainly eyeshadow looks. #eyeshadow #femboy
I love a pop of bright colourful eyeshadow. #greeneyeshadow #femboy
February 3, 2025 at 9:50 AM
I love a pop of bright colourful eyeshadow. #greeneyeshadow #femboy
I might cut my fringe again soon.
December 19, 2024 at 9:42 AM
I might cut my fringe again soon.
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That’s interesting. I’ve been in one relationship for 24 years and we’ve never been monogamous together. I’ve been with another partner nearly 5 years now who has been with his other partner for 19 years. I also had a relationship last 7 years.
What was that again?👂
#polyamory
What was that again?👂
#polyamory
December 19, 2024 at 4:18 AM
That’s interesting. I’ve been in one relationship for 24 years and we’ve never been monogamous together. I’ve been with another partner nearly 5 years now who has been with his other partner for 19 years. I also had a relationship last 7 years.
What was that again?👂
#polyamory
What was that again?👂
#polyamory
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I think a lot about how we know the solution to homelessness is free,condition less housing, and we know it actually costs less money than people being homeless bc of the cost of jails, prisons and hospital stays, but we just refuse to do that despite all the research.
December 18, 2024 at 9:17 PM
I think a lot about how we know the solution to homelessness is free,condition less housing, and we know it actually costs less money than people being homeless bc of the cost of jails, prisons and hospital stays, but we just refuse to do that despite all the research.
My abusive ex would tell me so often that no one else would put up with dating me. After years of hearing it, it became ingrained in me. I have 3 amazing partners now who are so great at reassuring me and want me to talk with them about problems or issues or things weighing on me #polyamory
December 7, 2024 at 11:51 AM
My abusive ex would tell me so often that no one else would put up with dating me. After years of hearing it, it became ingrained in me. I have 3 amazing partners now who are so great at reassuring me and want me to talk with them about problems or issues or things weighing on me #polyamory
I have to explain to some people that I am traumatised and trans. I am not trans because of my trauma. I do however have trauma related to being trans… in that I had to hide who I was and pretend to be the person everyone seemed to want me to be.
December 2, 2024 at 12:18 PM
I have to explain to some people that I am traumatised and trans. I am not trans because of my trauma. I do however have trauma related to being trans… in that I had to hide who I was and pretend to be the person everyone seemed to want me to be.
I was told never to point a loaded weapon (most often a gun) at anyway because you can accidentally injure or kill them… by the same person who would point loaded weapons at me. 🤪😘🥰😂 #childhoodtrauma
December 2, 2024 at 12:16 PM
I was told never to point a loaded weapon (most often a gun) at anyway because you can accidentally injure or kill them… by the same person who would point loaded weapons at me. 🤪😘🥰😂 #childhoodtrauma
I kept adjusting my eyeshadow the other night to try out some slightly different looks, since I was just doing my eyeshadow for fun and creativity. #femboy
December 1, 2024 at 7:12 AM
I kept adjusting my eyeshadow the other night to try out some slightly different looks, since I was just doing my eyeshadow for fun and creativity. #femboy
Love having my eye makeup done but I do not wear it out much… I mainly do my makeup and wear it at home. #femboy #queer #eyeshadow
December 1, 2024 at 7:06 AM
Love having my eye makeup done but I do not wear it out much… I mainly do my makeup and wear it at home. #femboy #queer #eyeshadow
Can I just post my lady bug gif and go? Thanks :p
November 24, 2024 at 3:31 PM
Can I just post my lady bug gif and go? Thanks :p
Too often I forget that if I don’t eat I will die.
I feed my cat several times a day. I will not let her starve. I know she can’t get the food herself so I help her.
I struggle with hunger cues and my body’s signals. I will not eat and wonder why I have no energy. I need routine to eat.
#autism
I feed my cat several times a day. I will not let her starve. I know she can’t get the food herself so I help her.
I struggle with hunger cues and my body’s signals. I will not eat and wonder why I have no energy. I need routine to eat.
#autism
November 24, 2024 at 2:04 PM
Too often I forget that if I don’t eat I will die.
I feed my cat several times a day. I will not let her starve. I know she can’t get the food herself so I help her.
I struggle with hunger cues and my body’s signals. I will not eat and wonder why I have no energy. I need routine to eat.
#autism
I feed my cat several times a day. I will not let her starve. I know she can’t get the food herself so I help her.
I struggle with hunger cues and my body’s signals. I will not eat and wonder why I have no energy. I need routine to eat.
#autism
It’s always the FOURTH lemon!!! 🤬👹
November 24, 2024 at 12:44 PM
It’s always the FOURTH lemon!!! 🤬👹
When my boobs first grew, I felt such great discomfort. I refused to wear a bra until I was made fun of for my nipples showing. A Bra just reminded me of a sex marker of the gender I had had bestowed on me from birth.
November 20, 2024 at 9:31 AM
When my boobs first grew, I felt such great discomfort. I refused to wear a bra until I was made fun of for my nipples showing. A Bra just reminded me of a sex marker of the gender I had had bestowed on me from birth.
I used to think I would feel like a woman once I got my period. Once I got my period I felt the depth of gender dysphoria that I was not expecting. My body can make life… but I would rather sustain my life by becoming the man I have always known I was #transman
November 20, 2024 at 9:26 AM
I used to think I would feel like a woman once I got my period. Once I got my period I felt the depth of gender dysphoria that I was not expecting. My body can make life… but I would rather sustain my life by becoming the man I have always known I was #transman
I grew up being told by my mum that I deserve all the love in the world… I want my loved ones to also have and experience all the love they can in this world. I want to give them so much love, as well as wanting them to get love from many others. We all deserve a strong and loving support system
November 19, 2024 at 1:33 PM
I grew up being told by my mum that I deserve all the love in the world… I want my loved ones to also have and experience all the love they can in this world. I want to give them so much love, as well as wanting them to get love from many others. We all deserve a strong and loving support system
Sometimes I’m too exhausted, want me time or to hang out with friends or family; seeing or just knowing my partners are spending time with a loved one makes me happy because I know they are getting their needs met, or just that they are happy, or giddy about a crush, or cuddling with another partner
the feeling of compersion that comes with being #polyam is one of the most beautiful things in the world ❤
November 19, 2024 at 1:30 PM
Sometimes I’m too exhausted, want me time or to hang out with friends or family; seeing or just knowing my partners are spending time with a loved one makes me happy because I know they are getting their needs met, or just that they are happy, or giddy about a crush, or cuddling with another partner
I never liked the terms Big Dick Energy or Small Dick Energy. I understand how it is a bit of an ironic joke because dick size does not matter(yes some people have preferences but not everyone) but referring to a shitty behaved person as having small dick energy can cause body image issues in others
November 19, 2024 at 1:26 PM
I never liked the terms Big Dick Energy or Small Dick Energy. I understand how it is a bit of an ironic joke because dick size does not matter(yes some people have preferences but not everyone) but referring to a shitty behaved person as having small dick energy can cause body image issues in others