Ren G.
tigren37.bsky.social
Ren G.
@tigren37.bsky.social
Queer, brown, disabled, and angry.

In between bouts of raging about the state of things, I read books and play video games.

#DisabledPeopleExist
Pinned
Which is to say, hey!

If you feel overwhelmed managing medication/energy/pain/doctors appointments, advocating for your care with doctors, if you're constantly over or underestimulated (just to name a few)...

let's chat!

For now, message me! Gonna get my ko-fi page up to date when I can.
So I'm leaning towards doing some form of "life coaching" I guess? Guided by my OT education and lived experiences as an #AuDHD #ChronicallyIll #Disabled #Queer brown person.

Because I'd rather help my peers than be abused by the medical system from both sides of the curtain.

4/4
Oh hey while I was gone I figured out I have #MCAS and have started more antihistamines.

Still haven't seen allergist/immunologist but even this change (and eating lower histamine) has been shockingly effective.
July 16, 2025 at 12:10 AM
I have no memory of this place send help
hello I have opened this app for the first time in months
July 16, 2025 at 12:04 AM
hello I have opened this app for the first time in months
July 16, 2025 at 12:03 AM
THIS!!

Except when assholes in flashy cars disrupt the process. Only time I have any trouble driving.
“Autistic people struggle with driving”

No…

*Some* Autistic people struggle with driving.

Others (like me) actually find it very easy. I see it as a logic puzzle with a clear process which means I plan, predict, etc. everything that’s happening.

Binary statements don’t work.
April 27, 2025 at 5:32 AM
My roommate introduced me to #TheBandGhost and I'm slowly joining in on her hyperfocus and we're just having a good time
April 27, 2025 at 5:30 AM
I'm alive! Still recovering, but alive!

Made it to the kitchen at least twice a day four times this week! And have taken care of the dog three times this week as well.

Still quite a ways from my previous baseline, but I'll take a new one, honestly.
April 26, 2025 at 6:04 PM
Hello this is supposed to say *A* small-ish discord. Not some. A.
I found some small-ish discord server that has very quickly begun to feel like home.

I've literally never participated in conversations in discord servers before, but now I feel like I'm making friends. I don't feel overwhelmed, I feel excited.

It's amazing.

I didn't know this was possible.
April 12, 2025 at 1:33 AM
I found some small-ish discord server that has very quickly begun to feel like home.

I've literally never participated in conversations in discord servers before, but now I feel like I'm making friends. I don't feel overwhelmed, I feel excited.

It's amazing.

I didn't know this was possible.
April 11, 2025 at 10:29 PM
Hey, so like...

If you can leave, cool. That's great for you.

But before you make the decision to get out, think about who you're leaving behind?

Not like... the general public.

But, you know, a disabled loved one? One whom you're worried about?

Just a thought.

Maybe talk to them about it.
April 8, 2025 at 4:47 AM
At some point, maybe, I'll find a balance between being on here and on threads.

But this crash isn't it.

Happy one month of being bedbound to meeee.

#ME/CFS #NEISVoid #Spoonie #POTS
March 31, 2025 at 5:39 AM
I'm halfway through #Legendborn and I LOVE it when a book gives me unexpected character growth omg
March 31, 2025 at 5:37 AM
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me: why am I so sleepy

why am I craving salt

why am I--

oh, the thermostat is on winter mode and I am having a POTS flare because the temperature was *checks notes* 73F

#NEISvoid
March 29, 2025 at 7:23 PM
Today, I made it into my kitchen for the first time in a week.

Let's find out how much I pay for it.

#me/cfs #NEISVoid #Spoonie
March 28, 2025 at 6:59 AM
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We learned so much about airborne transmission in the last 5 years, yet have done little with that knowledge.

We could have clean air benchmarks in public spaces. Free respirators to anyone who needs them. PSAs about masking.

We could have greatly reduced ALL airborne disease.
March 25, 2025 at 5:15 AM
Okay, worst thing I'm experiencing in this crash (besides, you know, all of it):

I try to stay hydrated. I get up to pee. My body/nervous system take FOREVER to return to a restful state again when I get back to bed.

By which point....I HAVE TO PEE AGAIN.

#ME/CFS #NEISVoid #ChronicIllness
March 25, 2025 at 6:15 AM
Changing the text size worked, but I unsurprisingly pushed myself back deeper into this crash so now I'm barely existing again.

I haven't seen my kitchen in...four days?
I made it smaller let's find out if my brain likes it again lol
I've spent long enough back on threads that bluesky overwhelms me now.

Not even the content. The visuals? The text is bigger I think and switching between the two makes my brain feel weird.
March 23, 2025 at 11:33 PM
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Things COVID has proven:

1) The job you were told couldn’t be done remotely, can be done remotely.

2) Many disabled workers could have been working from home, but corporations just didn’t want them to.

3) Internet is a utility and not a luxury.

4) Universal healthcare is a necessity.
March 21, 2025 at 10:38 PM
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If you want to help disabled people fight New York's proposed mask ban... wear a mask.

If more people would mask up in solidarity, these important accessibility tools would be harder to ban.

Help us normalize masking and protect your health in the process!
March 21, 2025 at 11:08 PM
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we believe we are special and we simply are not
March 21, 2025 at 9:29 PM
I made it smaller let's find out if my brain likes it again lol
I've spent long enough back on threads that bluesky overwhelms me now.

Not even the content. The visuals? The text is bigger I think and switching between the two makes my brain feel weird.
March 21, 2025 at 10:06 PM
I've spent long enough back on threads that bluesky overwhelms me now.

Not even the content. The visuals? The text is bigger I think and switching between the two makes my brain feel weird.
March 21, 2025 at 10:05 PM
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I know that the unraveling of the republic is a very bad time for many of us and we are confronting experiences that are unprecedented in many ways but fascism and oppression are not a sudden development in this country and it is deeply insulting to act brand new about it.
March 20, 2025 at 9:36 PM
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It’s important to understand that when a white person says “this has never happened before” or compares some oppressive behavior to a foreign regime, but it *did* happen here to Black/brown people for years/decades/centuries, it represents a massive blow to solidarity. It’s selfish.
March 20, 2025 at 9:31 PM
Hey #NEISVoid #Spoonie #EDS #hypermobile friends, I need help if you can:

Do any of you that also deal with #me/cfs or fatigue that leaves you bedbound for weeks have any tips for my very angry rib cage?

I can't get proper rest bc my rib cage starts screaming at me.
March 20, 2025 at 11:36 PM
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Repost with alttext:

Roses are red
Violets are blue
March 20, 2025 at 10:47 PM