The Sweary Unicorn
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Gathering a few things to declutter by selling them at the local carboot sale…unintentionally a large number of them were wedding presents 🥴
February 18, 2026 at 3:51 AM
Gathering a few things to declutter by selling them at the local carboot sale…unintentionally a large number of them were wedding presents 🥴
Well, well, he finally found out somehow about my thesis making it to the Dean’s list/me being finished ….dont know how because he never asked me about it!
February 17, 2026 at 7:45 AM
Well, well, he finally found out somehow about my thesis making it to the Dean’s list/me being finished ….dont know how because he never asked me about it!
Based on the CC statement he’s booked an overseas trip - love how there’s still no discussion with me and he’ll just expect me to deal with the fact he’s not here to walk the dogs for me.
February 15, 2026 at 7:24 AM
Based on the CC statement he’s booked an overseas trip - love how there’s still no discussion with me and he’ll just expect me to deal with the fact he’s not here to walk the dogs for me.
So after barely ever going to the supermarket when he lived with me he now goes to multiple supermarkets in a day….in fact 5 different ones in 2 days!!
February 8, 2026 at 5:35 AM
So after barely ever going to the supermarket when he lived with me he now goes to multiple supermarkets in a day….in fact 5 different ones in 2 days!!
Let’s see how much he cares about the dogs now….have asked him to look after them for a week day at the end of the month while I’m at a conference. In the past he’s always said no, so I’m not expecting him to help out but I’m open to being surprised.
February 7, 2026 at 1:19 AM
Let’s see how much he cares about the dogs now….have asked him to look after them for a week day at the end of the month while I’m at a conference. In the past he’s always said no, so I’m not expecting him to help out but I’m open to being surprised.
It’s so easy to start blaming myself &thinking I should have tried harder/been better. then I remember that he never asks how the dogs are coping, if they’re sleeping ok yet, even though I’ve mentioned them disrupting my sleep for days in a row&that he choose to live somewhere he can’t have the dogs
February 5, 2026 at 8:08 AM
It’s so easy to start blaming myself &thinking I should have tried harder/been better. then I remember that he never asks how the dogs are coping, if they’re sleeping ok yet, even though I’ve mentioned them disrupting my sleep for days in a row&that he choose to live somewhere he can’t have the dogs
Well his friends partner just commented on my LinkedIn post so I guess we’ll see how long it takes to travel the grapevine…
He also hasn’t asked me anything about my PhD since the week I submitted (unless he asked in THE conversation but I don’t remember it)…..so he has no idea that I’ve defended it, or that I’ve changed my name 🤷♀️ be funny if I make it past graduation without him knowing & then I can just start using Dr
February 3, 2026 at 8:56 AM
Well his friends partner just commented on my LinkedIn post so I guess we’ll see how long it takes to travel the grapevine…
Fuck fuck fuckity fuck!
February 2, 2026 at 8:22 AM
Fuck fuck fuckity fuck!
He's having such a cliche midlife crisis....new car...left the wife...joined the gym LOL
Glad he waited til after he'd left before joining the gym, otherwise I'd have to listen to all his comments about weight and weightloss.
Glad he waited til after he'd left before joining the gym, otherwise I'd have to listen to all his comments about weight and weightloss.
February 2, 2026 at 3:55 AM
He's having such a cliche midlife crisis....new car...left the wife...joined the gym LOL
Glad he waited til after he'd left before joining the gym, otherwise I'd have to listen to all his comments about weight and weightloss.
Glad he waited til after he'd left before joining the gym, otherwise I'd have to listen to all his comments about weight and weightloss.
I can’t believe he still hasn’t mentioned anything to do with separating our joint assets etc…. I wonder how long it’ll take him to get sick of financing 2 households….
January 29, 2026 at 5:51 AM
I can’t believe he still hasn’t mentioned anything to do with separating our joint assets etc…. I wonder how long it’ll take him to get sick of financing 2 households….
Weird, the (nice) neighbour has texted in a slightly ambiguous way, which has left me wondering if he spoke to them & has told them some of what’s going on……except it sounds like she thinks I’m not living behind her 🥴
January 21, 2026 at 3:41 AM
Weird, the (nice) neighbour has texted in a slightly ambiguous way, which has left me wondering if he spoke to them & has told them some of what’s going on……except it sounds like she thinks I’m not living behind her 🥴
Someone (who knows what’s happening in my life) just asked what my next move is….as if I should have things sorted out already….is there some schedule of time limit I should know about?!
January 15, 2026 at 7:57 AM
Someone (who knows what’s happening in my life) just asked what my next move is….as if I should have things sorted out already….is there some schedule of time limit I should know about?!
In the past month he’s spent nearly $700 on clothes/shoes….and yet he complains about everything being expensive/our financial situation.
Don’t think I’ll hold off any longer I’m buying the new trainers I need.
Don’t think I’ll hold off any longer I’m buying the new trainers I need.
January 14, 2026 at 6:39 AM
In the past month he’s spent nearly $700 on clothes/shoes….and yet he complains about everything being expensive/our financial situation.
Don’t think I’ll hold off any longer I’m buying the new trainers I need.
Don’t think I’ll hold off any longer I’m buying the new trainers I need.
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Mostly no, because non-consensual intimate images are generated overwhelmingly by men, overwhelmingly targeting women, and New Zealand demonstrably employs misogyny as a tool in every sphere of life with zero qualms whatsoever, including our media, our politicians, and as evidenced here, our policy.
are any NZ media talking about grok and applying pressure, let alone any politicians??
BREAKING: Technology Secretary Liz Kendall says creating ”non-consensual intimate images”, including with X’s Grok, will be made illegal this week
January 13, 2026 at 3:48 AM
Mostly no, because non-consensual intimate images are generated overwhelmingly by men, overwhelmingly targeting women, and New Zealand demonstrably employs misogyny as a tool in every sphere of life with zero qualms whatsoever, including our media, our politicians, and as evidenced here, our policy.
It’s a dumb, small thing, but I’m annoyed that I feel I need to change the route I drive to Kmart so I don’t have to drive past his apartment. Obviously I could still drive past his apartment, but I I just don’t want to risk seeing or being seen by him. 😡
January 13, 2026 at 2:23 AM
It’s a dumb, small thing, but I’m annoyed that I feel I need to change the route I drive to Kmart so I don’t have to drive past his apartment. Obviously I could still drive past his apartment, but I I just don’t want to risk seeing or being seen by him. 😡
He’s all friendly and chatty and happy as if he thinks we’re friends. Shouldn’t be surprised but he seems oblivious to the hurt/harm he’s caused.
January 8, 2026 at 4:23 AM
He’s all friendly and chatty and happy as if he thinks we’re friends. Shouldn’t be surprised but he seems oblivious to the hurt/harm he’s caused.
Is there actually any point in creating a new life when the world is crumbling?!
January 8, 2026 at 3:56 AM
Is there actually any point in creating a new life when the world is crumbling?!
Love how when he was setting up his new apartment he just went and bought new everything (which I’m guessing included a new tv)….and left me with our existing tv that crashes all the time and doesn’t support some of the new apps (like neon). Yes (I think) he paid using his half of our savings but it
January 6, 2026 at 7:28 AM
Love how when he was setting up his new apartment he just went and bought new everything (which I’m guessing included a new tv)….and left me with our existing tv that crashes all the time and doesn’t support some of the new apps (like neon). Yes (I think) he paid using his half of our savings but it
Went to a temple because I’d seen cute photos of bunnies….saw some ppl do a thing where they poured water over a marble bunny and rubbed it….just looked up the meaning of it, and it’s supposed to be a wish for a smooth birth or a good marriage, & other fertility related things. A bit fucking late 😕
December 30, 2025 at 10:52 AM
Went to a temple because I’d seen cute photos of bunnies….saw some ppl do a thing where they poured water over a marble bunny and rubbed it….just looked up the meaning of it, and it’s supposed to be a wish for a smooth birth or a good marriage, & other fertility related things. A bit fucking late 😕
Thought I was doing well at not thinking about him/the situation much but keep getting hit with the reality of it every so often. Take photos of things he’d be interested in and then suddenly remember I’m not likely to share them with him.
The waves of sads seem to keep finding me too.
The waves of sads seem to keep finding me too.
December 29, 2025 at 4:11 AM
Thought I was doing well at not thinking about him/the situation much but keep getting hit with the reality of it every so often. Take photos of things he’d be interested in and then suddenly remember I’m not likely to share them with him.
The waves of sads seem to keep finding me too.
The waves of sads seem to keep finding me too.
I’m really not sure how to navigate how or whether to stay being an involved aunty in the lives of his sisters kids. I’ve been part of their lives since they were born, though had less to do with them in the past few years since I e had less energy and gone to less family events. They don’t initiate
December 26, 2025 at 3:01 AM
I’m really not sure how to navigate how or whether to stay being an involved aunty in the lives of his sisters kids. I’ve been part of their lives since they were born, though had less to do with them in the past few years since I e had less energy and gone to less family events. They don’t initiate
I saw him yesterday when he picked the dogs up, he wished me a safe/good trip then….why did he need to text me today too?!
December 21, 2025 at 8:18 PM
I saw him yesterday when he picked the dogs up, he wished me a safe/good trip then….why did he need to text me today too?!
I know she means well but getting a text from his sister wishing me a nice trip, feels a bit odd ….when we haven’t had any other communication other than her acknowledging him leaving…& I never told them I was going to Japan 🥴
December 20, 2025 at 6:43 AM
I know she means well but getting a text from his sister wishing me a nice trip, feels a bit odd ….when we haven’t had any other communication other than her acknowledging him leaving…& I never told them I was going to Japan 🥴
He just turned up to walk the dogs and put a gift down next to me saying “I got you a wee Christmas travel gift” I haven’t opened it yet, but why the fuck is he giving me gifts
December 18, 2025 at 4:10 AM
He just turned up to walk the dogs and put a gift down next to me saying “I got you a wee Christmas travel gift” I haven’t opened it yet, but why the fuck is he giving me gifts
Had a dream last night that he admitted he was seeing someone else. Thanks brain, just what I need 🤦♀️
December 15, 2025 at 7:06 PM
Had a dream last night that he admitted he was seeing someone else. Thanks brain, just what I need 🤦♀️