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K, She/They
@thereisnowithout.bsky.social
Mom, Queer, Clinical Therapist, Breast Cancer Survivor. Lover of all things spooky and scary. Avid board game player.

Trans Lives Matter, Black Lives Matter

All views and opinions are my own.

Support trans kids: www.CampLilac.org
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Support trans kids' joy!

Donate to Camp Lilac! We have made an Amazon Wishlist to make it easy!

Every donation ensures that every camper gets to attend, regardless of their financial situation!

www.camplilac.org/wishlist

#transgender #summercamp #trans #resist #camp #protecttranskids
The real Blair Witch is the friends we made along the way.

#HorrorSky #FilmSky
August 13, 2025 at 3:50 AM
Time to adjust my profile and handle so it isn't quite as easy to find me! Maybe someday I'll be able to make this private!
July 10, 2025 at 1:02 AM
Tomorrow is my birthday! The best way to celebrate is to support Camp Lilac

Since I started volunteering in 2019, it has been a source of joy to see the campers get a chance to be themselves!

We rely on donations to make this experience happen.

www.camplilac.org/wishlist

#transgender
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May 21, 2025 at 1:04 AM
It is Wishlist Wednesday!

Help support trans joy!

Camp Lilac is fast approaching, and we need your support. One way you can do this is by purchasing something from our Amazon Wishlist!

www.camplilac.org/wishlist

Can't purchase anything? Please share this link!

#transgender #summercamp
Check out my list on Amazon
www.camplilac.org
May 14, 2025 at 4:33 PM
Support trans kids' joy!

Donate to Camp Lilac! We have made an Amazon Wishlist to make it easy!

Every donation ensures that every camper gets to attend, regardless of their financial situation!

www.camplilac.org/wishlist

#transgender #summercamp #trans #resist #camp #protecttranskids
May 6, 2025 at 5:48 PM
Where are the people that will pay me to put together Lego sets? I don't want to own them or anything, I just love putting them together

#Lego #Hobby
April 29, 2025 at 2:34 PM
The world is a difficult and scary place. Looking for a way to help?

Every donation ensures that every camper gets to attend, regardless of their financial situation!

Please make sure to share this link!

www.camplilac.org/wishlist

#transgender #summercamp #trans #resist #camp #protecttranskids
April 25, 2025 at 7:12 PM
My dog has Resting Sad Face™.

#Dog #Puppy
April 20, 2025 at 2:33 PM
5 years since my doctor called to tell me that my biopsy was positive for breast cancer.

Sometimes it feels like it was yesterday, sometimes like forever.

Spending time tonight with some of my family reminded me of just how lucky I am. Key lime cheesecake was also helpful.

#CanSky #Cancer
March 21, 2025 at 3:28 AM
March 17, 2025 at 5:08 PM
March 13, 2025 at 9:15 PM
Another amazing bit of ink! Tattoo therapy has been greatly needed over the past few months!

#theshining #horrorsky #filmsky
March 12, 2025 at 3:24 PM
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my therapist: ok so, like, I understand the country is falling apart and you are scared and actually I’m kind of scared too and idk, have you found any good coping strategies? anything that helps?

me: mostly just playing the HGT song

my therapist: what song?

me: omg I’m about to win therapy
I do appreciate how creative humans are and how they can make songs about the fall of democracy that really slap
February 26, 2025 at 9:49 PM
Love this article!

#FilmSky #HorrorSky
Wrote about why The Substance is trans and Emilia Perez isn't for Vanity Fair. Also argued that Woodworking (a novel by Emily St. James, out Tuesday) is basically The Substance.

Who is my Substance shadow self? It's Sabrina Carpenter. Thanks for asking.

www.vanityfair.com/hollywood/st...
February 26, 2025 at 9:50 PM
There are so many tattoos that I want to get and I'm having a hell of a time deciding which one to get first.
February 26, 2025 at 6:19 PM
I wish I had enough money and power to force my favorite actors/voice artists/etc to record audiobooks for me.

#BookSky
February 25, 2025 at 6:58 PM
Reposted by K, She/They
On that note:

Trans authors (I mean authors who are trans, NOT cis people who write about trans people), drop your book links here and I'll try to repost as many as I can throughout the day.

Cis people: Repost trans authors' book links.

Cis people who want to complain about being excluded: gtfo
Being a trans author is fucking weird right now. Hell is actively unfolding all around us but I still need to be like, "hey, everyone, wanna buy my silly little queer book? It won't make anything better, but it's kinda fun?"

So....hey, everyone, wanna buy my silly little queer book?
Looking for a supernatural queer read?

🏳️‍🌈 F/F friends to lovers
💀 Evil cult serving a fallen god
🦅 Weird birds
👼 Queers with wings and claws
🌲 Cursed forest
🌎 Lesbians vs god for the fate of reality

Ghost Flower by Jessica Conwell
Available here:

a.co/d/bufFU4f
February 22, 2024 at 4:15 PM
This is gorgeous and I can't wait to get my grubby hands on it!

#HorrorSky
This spring, FANGORIA pays tribute to one of the most visionary filmmakers of all time - David Lynch.

Though Lynch’s film work spanned (and defied) genres, his dark visions over the years – from ERASERHEAD to BLUE VELVET to LOST HIGHWAY and beyond – have left an indelible imprint on our readers.
February 25, 2025 at 6:42 PM
Happy Twin Peaks Day!
February 24, 2025 at 4:33 PM
It is ridiculous and I had to have it!

#FilmSky #HorrorSky
February 23, 2025 at 3:41 AM
Love getting to see a classic on the big screen with a sold out crowd!

#FilmSky #HorrorSky
February 22, 2025 at 3:59 AM
Showed my 10 yr old Slotherhouse. They loved it. We love a cute animal puppet! A good chance to discuss you don't always need to pick apart movie logic, enjoy for what it is.

"Mom, how does Alpha know how to drive?"
"I don't know, how does she manage to text or post selfies?"

#HorrorSky #FilmSky
February 19, 2025 at 7:38 PM
(Content Warning)

The Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network has apparently also removed references to trans people and trans survivors of rape from their webpages.

The quoted webpage had stories of trans survivors of sexual assault

web.archive.org/web/20241121...
February 18, 2025 at 1:02 AM
I really wish I had an entire day that I could devote just to watching new media and/or reading new books.
February 17, 2025 at 6:35 PM