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Care-e
@theoutregirl.bsky.social
Elder goth, Spicy GenX outlier. Writer & Booklover. Art & Music enthusiast. Traveler. Home chef. Amateur potter and hobbyist photographer. Woods witch.

Death Nerd ‪@goodgriefrelief.bsky.social‬

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Oh hello👋 Updated intro because of my revised status as a shiftless layabout...

Twitter Expat, Married LGBTQ+ spook and aging goth-industrial goblin.

Retired Serial Startup Tech Content Wizard.

Current Deathcare & the Logistics of Loss Startup Founder

🖤☠️🖤☠️🖤. 1/
This morning's brain jukebox

youtu.be/LCKwN8UXzW0?...

He says "brain paralysis" (para lie sis) huh...

See also realm (reelm) @arcsecant.bsky.social
Antidote
YouTube video by Project Pitchfork - Topic
youtu.be
December 3, 2025 at 1:46 PM
I hate this timeline 😒 #FuckAi
December 2, 2025 at 2:18 PM
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Yo resisters!
Listen up for an #altCitizen #altPride history lesson about Brent Nicholson Earle (b.1951).

In the early AIDS years, long before the internets, before cell phones, before most of you were born, Earle did larger than life things you never heard of to raise awareness and #Pride. #1
June 15, 2025 at 4:37 AM
Aww man I miss #26.
December 1, 2025 at 7:11 PM
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Great list. Ordering some of the fiction he recommends, as I've never heard of them and his descriptions of the thrill of reading them is the dragon I'm constantly chasing...
I hope if you're shopping today, you stop by a local indie bookstore. Here's my list of my favorite 25 books from this past year, some old, some new, fiction, history, and current events — something for almost anyone on your list (and, of course, yourself!): www.doomsdayscenario.co/p/my-favorit...
My favorite books of 2025
25 books that changed the way I look at the world this year
www.doomsdayscenario.co
December 1, 2025 at 5:31 PM
The image in this photo makes me feel personally attacked 🤣.

But also I'm not so foolish as to expect my tastes to appeal to normal sheeple.
December 1, 2025 at 1:28 PM
Introduce yourself with five concerts you've seen multiple times. (Does all of Cold Waves count ?)

Skinny Puppy
New Model Army
Gojira
Killing Joke
Cold Cave
But I think this one, the multiple times, is the really truth-teller.

Introduce yourself with five concerts you've seen multiple times.

Slayer
The War on Drugs
Front 242
Greyhounds (Amazing and if they are near you, I don't care what you listen to, GO.)
KMFDM (they were, in fact, doing it again.)
Introduce yourself with five concerts you've seen multiple times

R.E.M.
OutKast
Radiohead
Beastie Boys
The Roots
December 1, 2025 at 1:24 PM
So the WV house has now experienced its 2025 plague of flies. With an added bonus of a live bird trapped in the living room when we arrived. 😒
November 29, 2025 at 11:08 PM
It's more like Black Week for me over here. Relentless digital deluge. #CONSUME #OBEY
November 28, 2025 at 2:59 PM
Thanksgiving as an American holiday is ridiculous shite that I don't really "celebrate" but FWIW I'm super grateful for my friends and family. 🖤
November 28, 2025 at 2:20 AM
I'd like to resign as the poster gal for the woes of perimenopause. It's really not a great job.

Endless periods, frozen shoulder, UTI. Fatigue, moodiness, brain fog....
November 25, 2025 at 3:06 PM
Herd immunity is a thing. Go get your flu shot!!!

'Flu activity is low, but experts worry about a new strain and vaccination rates"

ground.news/article/new-...
Flu activity is low, but experts worry about a new strain and vaccination rates
The U.S. flu season is starting slowly, and it’s unclear if it will be as bad as last winter’s, but some health experts are worried as U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention data posted Frida...
ground.news
November 24, 2025 at 1:22 PM
It seemed like the only thing I liked and was good at and technology paid well and had more weirdos. The end.
What’s the lore behind choosing your career path ?
November 23, 2025 at 3:37 AM
WTAF. I thought Catholic Ecstasy was just the spiritual kind 🤣
He said "Amen" straight into the drop

Lmao Pope Leo threw a rave for an archbishop's 75th birthday this is kind of incredible
November 22, 2025 at 11:24 PM
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Well that was fucking incredible. He cast a charm spell on the most odious man alive.
November 21, 2025 at 9:13 PM
Gold's gym front desk guy comments on the badass Youth Code hoodie I'm wearing.

I informed him that if he ever needed to rage he should look them up on YouTube. 🤘
November 21, 2025 at 9:34 PM
Today at least it's making me feel better. Wednesday was a ride on the struggle bus all the way through.
Doing the thing. In spite of not wanting to do the thing. Lifting heavy things up and putting them down again 💪.
November 21, 2025 at 9:21 PM
Doing the thing. In spite of not wanting to do the thing. Lifting heavy things up and putting them down again 💪.
November 21, 2025 at 9:20 PM
Please go forth and read responses for a bit of joy.
Man, everything is so bleak, anyone got a fun fact or little bit of trivia they want to share
November 21, 2025 at 3:41 AM
Also the truth of all Dr's office appointments is that they ask you to be early and they are always late. 😑
November 20, 2025 at 3:49 PM
At the Ortho to beg for robot upgrades
November 20, 2025 at 3:47 PM
Yes, exactly.
Why yes, @microsoft.com, I will HAPPILY provide you feedback on how exactly I feel about Word right now.
November 20, 2025 at 2:02 PM
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I will never forget having to edit Jamal’s final, posthumous piece for the Washington Post, after he was murdered.

He was calling for free expression in the Arab world. You can read it here :

www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/glo...
Opinion | Jamal Khashoggi: What the Arab world needs most is free expression
The Arab world needs a modern version of the old transnational media so citizens can be informed about global events.
www.washingtonpost.com
November 18, 2025 at 6:48 PM
If you have never heard of Frozen shoulder consider yourself lucky.

While supposedly temporary (12 - 36 months). I've been dealing with this for over a year and have spent the last several months in what I think of as the chronic pain stage and it is wearing me the fuck out.

🫤🫠
November 17, 2025 at 2:35 PM
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Powerful.
NEW: Epstein survivors release the most powerful PSA I have ever seen.

Make this go viral so every member of the House of Representatives sees it.
November 16, 2025 at 11:46 PM