T.
@t-after-dark.bsky.social
A secondary account for musings about sex and its portrayal in fiction from an AFAB nonbinary, ace perspective
are there people who ID as sides who aren't gay men? are there segments of the ace community who talk about this kind of thing? i feel like these convos must be happening, but idk where to find them...
May 17, 2025 at 12:56 AM
are there people who ID as sides who aren't gay men? are there segments of the ace community who talk about this kind of thing? i feel like these convos must be happening, but idk where to find them...
yes but only in the most basic, heteronormative way, and i said "eww, i'm never gonna do that!"
and i never changed my mind lmao
and i never changed my mind lmao
did anyones parents *actually* talk to them about sex?
its been a plot point in like every TV show and movie about raising kids for like centuries at this point but does it actually happen?
i think "the birds and the bees" speech is entirely a ficticious construct
its been a plot point in like every TV show and movie about raising kids for like centuries at this point but does it actually happen?
i think "the birds and the bees" speech is entirely a ficticious construct
May 17, 2025 at 12:53 AM
yes but only in the most basic, heteronormative way, and i said "eww, i'm never gonna do that!"
and i never changed my mind lmao
and i never changed my mind lmao
so, the idea that if you have a vagina you must be a bottom--whether in m/f sex or if you're a trans man or a nonbinary person who's with someone with a penis. if you have a vagina and your sexual partner has a dick, then sex = piv sex. growing up, i thought that was the only kind of sex there was--
April 1, 2025 at 2:09 AM
so, the idea that if you have a vagina you must be a bottom--whether in m/f sex or if you're a trans man or a nonbinary person who's with someone with a penis. if you have a vagina and your sexual partner has a dick, then sex = piv sex. growing up, i thought that was the only kind of sex there was--
me on discord when i discovered the term "side":
March 30, 2025 at 2:55 AM
me on discord when i discovered the term "side":
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good post. i want to make more IF exploring the intersection of transmasc identity, asexuality, and sex, it's just... a bit daunting 😅
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January 9, 2025 at 3:32 AM
good post. i want to make more IF exploring the intersection of transmasc identity, asexuality, and sex, it's just... a bit daunting 😅
www.tofu.rocks/2024/12/27/c...
www.tofu.rocks/2024/12/27/c...
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Kel's First Time With Yaan: A Fantasy by alyshkalia
Erotic trans IF
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March 1, 2025 at 3:12 AM
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i have a lot of thoughts lately related to sex and afab bodies and the portrayal thereof in fiction (and spiraling out into related topics), but i don't feel comfortable talking so openly about that stuff on my main account, so... tada! secondary account. expect rambles soon
March 30, 2025 at 2:43 AM
i have a lot of thoughts lately related to sex and afab bodies and the portrayal thereof in fiction (and spiraling out into related topics), but i don't feel comfortable talking so openly about that stuff on my main account, so... tada! secondary account. expect rambles soon