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@t-after-dark.bsky.social
A secondary account for musings about sex and its portrayal in fiction from an AFAB nonbinary, ace perspective
weirdly personal and important to me because it depicts something i don't see much in fiction--person with vagina having sex with person with penis, with no penetration involved.
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(...i had to type the word "penetration" so many times in that, oh my god)
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(...i had to type the word "penetration" so many times in that, oh my god)
April 1, 2025 at 2:09 AM
weirdly personal and important to me because it depicts something i don't see much in fiction--person with vagina having sex with person with penis, with no penetration involved.
/end thread
(...i had to type the word "penetration" so many times in that, oh my god)
/end thread
(...i had to type the word "penetration" so many times in that, oh my god)
the character arcs, because i was averse to the idea of using my characters to make people horny. but, in the interest of representing non-penetrative trans sex, i recently wrote a piece of IF about Kel and Yaan for a horny game jam. it is the most explicit thing i've ever written, and it's
April 1, 2025 at 2:09 AM
the character arcs, because i was averse to the idea of using my characters to make people horny. but, in the interest of representing non-penetrative trans sex, i recently wrote a piece of IF about Kel and Yaan for a horny game jam. it is the most explicit thing i've ever written, and it's
into the top/bottom dichotomy--penetration supremacy isn't just a problem for people with vaginas! so yeah, at this point, writing characters who do sex in non-penetrative ways is important to me. i wrote the sex scenes in SI and SS kind of vaguely on purpose, and only included them when they served
April 1, 2025 at 2:09 AM
into the top/bottom dichotomy--penetration supremacy isn't just a problem for people with vaginas! so yeah, at this point, writing characters who do sex in non-penetrative ways is important to me. i wrote the sex scenes in SI and SS kind of vaguely on purpose, and only included them when they served
i didn't know the term "side" existed when i published those two books; i wasn't trying to represent anyone except myself. but when i did discover the term, i was blown away--like omg, a word exists for my characters... and for me. and it was fascinating to read about how many cis gay men don't fit
April 1, 2025 at 2:09 AM
i didn't know the term "side" existed when i published those two books; i wasn't trying to represent anyone except myself. but when i did discover the term, i was blown away--like omg, a word exists for my characters... and for me. and it was fascinating to read about how many cis gay men don't fit
thinking about that now!) and ended up throwing out the penetration. i made it a point in that book and the sequel, even through the implicit, gestural sex scenes i chose to write, to show that they never had penetrative sex--and that it was still sexy and satisfying for them both.
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April 1, 2025 at 2:09 AM
thinking about that now!) and ended up throwing out the penetration. i made it a point in that book and the sequel, even through the implicit, gestural sex scenes i chose to write, to show that they never had penetrative sex--and that it was still sexy and satisfying for them both.
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bc that's like, the ultimate sex or whatever.
when i first started writing sex scenes, i was still in a "sex = penetration" mindset, and thought that was what i had to write. fortunately, through various drafts of SI, i discovered Kel was trans (rather than a cis man as i first wrote him--weird
when i first started writing sex scenes, i was still in a "sex = penetration" mindset, and thought that was what i had to write. fortunately, through various drafts of SI, i discovered Kel was trans (rather than a cis man as i first wrote him--weird
April 1, 2025 at 2:09 AM
bc that's like, the ultimate sex or whatever.
when i first started writing sex scenes, i was still in a "sex = penetration" mindset, and thought that was what i had to write. fortunately, through various drafts of SI, i discovered Kel was trans (rather than a cis man as i first wrote him--weird
when i first started writing sex scenes, i was still in a "sex = penetration" mindset, and thought that was what i had to write. fortunately, through various drafts of SI, i discovered Kel was trans (rather than a cis man as i first wrote him--weird
and now i know there are plenty of other ways to do sex, BUT penetration is still the main one depicted in fiction when at least one of the people involved has a dick. whenever a romance book depicts a couple starting out with non-penetrative sex acts, it's usually a build-up to penetration,
April 1, 2025 at 2:09 AM
and now i know there are plenty of other ways to do sex, BUT penetration is still the main one depicted in fiction when at least one of the people involved has a dick. whenever a romance book depicts a couple starting out with non-penetrative sex acts, it's usually a build-up to penetration,
(idk why i censored my name 😂)
March 30, 2025 at 3:17 AM
(idk why i censored my name 😂)