When I say that male/female socialization is a bad framework to reach for to explain gendered differences, I say it because there is a better way to do a more accurate analysis of those differences, and that trying to paint childhood experiences with that brush leads you to wrong conclusions. /1

If you call yourself our ally then make your disgust at us the punchline of your fucking jokes, then I'll be honest and say I'd rather have spat in your face then to ever have heard you call yourself my ally at all. Earnestly fuck every one of you disingenuous pieces of shit.

The best thing trans men and all other people can do in the face of trans women being attacked for using women’s rooms is to explicitly stand up for trans women against the attack.

Cis people need to learn about transmisogyny if they want to be allies with trans women.

I love it. I love that our danger can only be secondary to the danger posed to cis women by attacks on us. That our medications only need protection because cis women use them more. That banning us from bathrooms only matters because of cis women getting caught in it. I love mattering this much.

THERE IS SISTERHOOD EVERYWHERE FOR THOSE WITH EYES TO SEE.

@wylr4z0rbl4d3.bsky.social 😘