definitely depends on context and use and how well I knew the person, all that

but, I agree ... still pondering what other words might make more sense

WHAT

ok this one is v cute www.etsy.com/listing/4392...

mostly I'm seeing "book boyfriend" or "shadow daddy emotional support calendars" with AI generated images (pretty sure) of men in dark romance books, which I assume is also not what you're looking for

oh I want to know the options!

I saw a black leatherdyke calendar on IG but I'm not sure that's what y'all are looking for www.instagram.com/blackleather...

what book(s) are so, so good that you wish you'd written them?

When I hear "there's no gay romance" "m/m was created by women" "romance is for women" I think of the number of author bios in the back of "Best Gay Romance" books, or magazines, especially the 90s, ending with notations of when those authors died and I get so fucking angry I cannot even tell you.

it is reminding me of my someday-goal of attending GWW tho! maybe 2027!

maybe everybody gets a certain allotment of xmas music listening in their lifetime + I've exceeded mine

omgggg I love that first film! I had it on dvd too

ooh an outlier vote!

I would LOVE to do all 3, but I'm not sure that's realistic by the end of the year tbh. but I do want to try! hopefully will post in january if not in december.

ok obviously *I'm* excited about this, but haven't heard much from you all. that's ok! I just like talking about straps ☺️

suppose I should also add
* best for blowjobs
* best dual-ended (sometimes called "strapless")
* best accessories - particularly for the wearer, to enhance sensation

might separate out the harnesses into:
* leather
* machine washable
* underwear
* femme / fancy

it seems like the cock awards are the winner ☺️

(of course now that means I gotta put the post together!! working on it!)

good point! I've definitely seen some large enough eggs in general, but they don't have vibration

I was thinking that one of these vibes might work really well with the g-squeeze plug tho! www.squarepegtoys.com/product/g-sq...

ooh thank you! I've never seen these!

I am also looking for it to be, ahem, quite a bit girthier, though I'm not sure I'm expecting the whole thing to vibrate ... that seems like a lot! both mechanically and sensation-wise

I'm actually v excited about that one!