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StrawHatPap
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Just figuring this app out
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Everything we do to fight fascism will be seen as too extreme, and too early. In reality, history shows that things were usually too late and too moderate.
December 1, 2024 at 9:22 PM
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And like...i get it. You were raised to believe that protecting yourself was disrespect. I'm not trying to change your belief. I just happen to believe that letting anyone hit me is disrespect, too.
December 3, 2024 at 3:14 AM
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I'm laughing because every time i tell that story people go "uh oh! I know she tore that ass up after that!"

And no. I would never hit my mother. But i also decided she would never hit me again, either. And she hasn't. Nobody on earth is hitting me and i just LET them.
December 3, 2024 at 3:12 AM
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Ass whippings teach the child not to tear up the store from fear of you and getting their ass whipped. I would like the child to learn not tear up the store because there are more appropriate ways of dealing with their emotions and…
December 3, 2024 at 2:31 AM
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Proactive and preventive parenting instead of reactive parenting 🖤🖤🖤
December 3, 2024 at 2:27 AM
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That ain’t taught with ass whippings. That’s the problem, we want easy solutions. It’s taught with time, modeling, and work of incorporating and enforcing structure and discipline
December 3, 2024 at 2:25 AM
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That child doesn’t need an ass whipping but that may need some firm limits, boundaries, and consequences along with love and connection. That child may need lessons in respect, consideration, and community.
December 3, 2024 at 2:23 AM
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However, I need us to sit with the truth that unmet needs can come in the form of lack of limits, boundaries, and consequences too. 🖤🖤🖤
December 3, 2024 at 2:22 AM
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Misbehavior (acting out and acting is is communicating unmet needs, BioPsychoSocial.
December 3, 2024 at 2:20 AM