SOTO (they/them)
soto63.bsky.social
SOTO (they/them)
@soto63.bsky.social
Wiki person. Writer. Starbound mortal. Autistic fibro-friend, with ME/CFS. Shifter. CLASS WALKER. ADVOCATE. Survivor of homelessness.

You'll find me in the darkest recesses of the Library. Pen in hand. I *do* look like I'm focusing. Am I? Oh dear... 🌠
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But of course, feminism has never been completely consistent in this. The early second wave in particular returned again and again to psychoanalysis to explain how gendered consciousness came into being, and how that "went wrong".
January 6, 2025 at 8:16 AM
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The second wave never escaped the idea of something "natural" underlying the "distortions" of patriarchy which led smoothly into the worst abuses of cultural feminism and smuggled all kinds of gender essentialism into supposedly anti-essentialist work.
January 6, 2025 at 8:16 AM
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For cis feminism, explaining the psychological mechanisms by which cis women are forced to accept their place in patriarchy was a route to helping women liberate themselves from those mechanisms. Explaining queer people within those same mechanisms was explaining us away. Telling us we're not real.
January 6, 2025 at 8:17 AM
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Social constructionism, contrary to reactionary fucks like Pinker, does not collapse if humans aren't perfect blank slates. Even Marx gestured broadly at species being somewhere underneath the mode of production.
January 6, 2025 at 8:19 AM
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"Don't mind me, I'm just happy to be here as me!"
January 10, 2025 at 2:44 AM
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I don't think that's necessarily a contradiction. In theory, ego-death would lead to understanding that all are deserving of dignity and all have worth, including the self.

So if you had low self-worth, deflating the ego would necessarily raise your consciousness of your own self-worth!
January 10, 2025 at 2:44 AM
Yes, I was a TARDIS all along!
January 10, 2025 at 11:52 PM
May as well do an actual face reveal. Hullo! 💙⚙️

(Yes, this is indeed me. Please don't try to find other socials using my face. Thank you.)
January 10, 2025 at 11:52 PM
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January 10, 2025 at 5:24 PM