Sofia Elizabella Wyciślik-Wilson🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈
@sofiaww.bsky.social
Queer-affirmative psychotherapist in the making.
GSRD. LGBTQIA+. Trans woman. Queer. She/her.
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GSRD. LGBTQIA+. Trans woman. Queer. She/her.
🏳️⚧️
Seeking advice re traveling to Mexico as a trans woman
Having been invited to a wedding in Mexico, the issue of traveling as a trans woman to a new part of the world looms large. The main issue, I think, is my passport. While the photo reflects me, the name and gender do not. Is Mexico safe for me?
Having been invited to a wedding in Mexico, the issue of traveling as a trans woman to a new part of the world looms large. The main issue, I think, is my passport. While the photo reflects me, the name and gender do not. Is Mexico safe for me?
March 23, 2025 at 8:09 AM
Seeking advice re traveling to Mexico as a trans woman
Having been invited to a wedding in Mexico, the issue of traveling as a trans woman to a new part of the world looms large. The main issue, I think, is my passport. While the photo reflects me, the name and gender do not. Is Mexico safe for me?
Having been invited to a wedding in Mexico, the issue of traveling as a trans woman to a new part of the world looms large. The main issue, I think, is my passport. While the photo reflects me, the name and gender do not. Is Mexico safe for me?
Scrolling through Facebook, some 'suggested friends' are recommended to me. Included among them is a man who groomed me, gave me drugs, and tried to rape me over 20 years ago. Not a memory I needed.
December 5, 2024 at 11:08 AM
Scrolling through Facebook, some 'suggested friends' are recommended to me. Included among them is a man who groomed me, gave me drugs, and tried to rape me over 20 years ago. Not a memory I needed.
Reposted by Sofia Elizabella Wyciślik-Wilson🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈
Getting more and more set in the belief that as long as heteronormative patriarchy and capitalism exists trans people will never get our liberation. Our very existence is antithetical to the hegemony and it Has To eradicate us to maintain power
November 27, 2024 at 4:13 PM
Getting more and more set in the belief that as long as heteronormative patriarchy and capitalism exists trans people will never get our liberation. Our very existence is antithetical to the hegemony and it Has To eradicate us to maintain power
Reposted by Sofia Elizabella Wyciślik-Wilson🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈
Anyway…
Here’s a visualization of all the curse words being used on Bluesky in real time.
Each word is a cute fluffy little profane cloud.
It’s oddly soothing.
H/t @bagpuss.org
#SwearSky
swearsky.bagpuss.org
Here’s a visualization of all the curse words being used on Bluesky in real time.
Each word is a cute fluffy little profane cloud.
It’s oddly soothing.
H/t @bagpuss.org
#SwearSky
swearsky.bagpuss.org
SwearSky
Bluesky profanity, as it happens
swearsky.bagpuss.org
November 22, 2024 at 12:23 AM
Anyway…
Here’s a visualization of all the curse words being used on Bluesky in real time.
Each word is a cute fluffy little profane cloud.
It’s oddly soothing.
H/t @bagpuss.org
#SwearSky
swearsky.bagpuss.org
Here’s a visualization of all the curse words being used on Bluesky in real time.
Each word is a cute fluffy little profane cloud.
It’s oddly soothing.
H/t @bagpuss.org
#SwearSky
swearsky.bagpuss.org
Slightly reeling from having learned that the essay I wrote as part of my LGBTQ+ affirmative psychotherapy diploma passed! I always expect the worst when it comes to being analyzed / tested / scrutinized, so the fact that the pass was accompanied with some really positive feedback is astonishing
November 21, 2024 at 8:19 AM
Slightly reeling from having learned that the essay I wrote as part of my LGBTQ+ affirmative psychotherapy diploma passed! I always expect the worst when it comes to being analyzed / tested / scrutinized, so the fact that the pass was accompanied with some really positive feedback is astonishing
Currently feel as though I've dipped my face lava after a massively brutal laser treatment. Must have been a higher setting today because... ooowwww!
November 19, 2024 at 12:13 PM
Currently feel as though I've dipped my face lava after a massively brutal laser treatment. Must have been a higher setting today because... ooowwww!
Reposted by Sofia Elizabella Wyciślik-Wilson🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈
Do people who get upset at the idea of an echo chamber go out of their way to hang out with people they find stupid and annoying in real life
November 17, 2024 at 9:44 PM
Do people who get upset at the idea of an echo chamber go out of their way to hang out with people they find stupid and annoying in real life
Reposted by Sofia Elizabella Wyciślik-Wilson🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈
I wish I got the savant type of autism instead of the can’t touch microfibre type of autism.
November 18, 2024 at 2:43 AM
I wish I got the savant type of autism instead of the can’t touch microfibre type of autism.
I was a very early adopter of Bluesky (user number 52k or so) but haven't really used the account a huge amount. Having hung doggedly on at the other place for far too long (out of nostalgia, FOMO, etc) I've finally cut the cancerous Musk-owned filth from my life completely.
November 17, 2024 at 10:54 PM
I was a very early adopter of Bluesky (user number 52k or so) but haven't really used the account a huge amount. Having hung doggedly on at the other place for far too long (out of nostalgia, FOMO, etc) I've finally cut the cancerous Musk-owned filth from my life completely.
Reposted by Sofia Elizabella Wyciślik-Wilson🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈
Fuck all this echo chamber horseshit. I don’t come here to have my worldview challenged, I come here to have some fucking fun
November 17, 2024 at 7:00 AM
Fuck all this echo chamber horseshit. I don’t come here to have my worldview challenged, I come here to have some fucking fun
No Nut November is easy post-orchi 🙂🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️🌷
November 14, 2024 at 3:38 AM
No Nut November is easy post-orchi 🙂🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️🌷
Want to get a sense of how gender dysphoria feels? Imagine hating parts of your body so much that you wished cancer on them so there was a societally acceptable, unavoidable reason to remove them; I found myself here some years ago but was thankfully supported through proper gender-affirming surgery
October 26, 2024 at 11:56 AM
Want to get a sense of how gender dysphoria feels? Imagine hating parts of your body so much that you wished cancer on them so there was a societally acceptable, unavoidable reason to remove them; I found myself here some years ago but was thankfully supported through proper gender-affirming surgery
As a pansexual, transgender woman who is also asexual, I feel like a walking paradox. A paradox that is complicated by the competing symptoms of autism and ADHD.
October 25, 2024 at 7:44 AM
As a pansexual, transgender woman who is also asexual, I feel like a walking paradox. A paradox that is complicated by the competing symptoms of autism and ADHD.
Bluesky now has over 10 million users, and I was #52,327!
October 3, 2024 at 8:29 AM
Bluesky now has over 10 million users, and I was #52,327!
As stress, expectation and self-doubt build, I find myself falling into old coping mechanisms of self-abuse in various forms. The fact I notice this is a good thing, and that neither alcohol nor drugs are involved is also good. But my sadomasochistic self-relationship remains.
September 15, 2024 at 8:39 AM
As stress, expectation and self-doubt build, I find myself falling into old coping mechanisms of self-abuse in various forms. The fact I notice this is a good thing, and that neither alcohol nor drugs are involved is also good. But my sadomasochistic self-relationship remains.
After an introductory Zoom meeting, I'm certain I'm starting my journey to being a therapist in September; one with a firm LGBTQIA+ focus. Time to do something meaningful & helpful for the queer community. Foundation, diploma, placements, maybe a masters. Next few years sorted!
June 24, 2024 at 6:32 PM
After an introductory Zoom meeting, I'm certain I'm starting my journey to being a therapist in September; one with a firm LGBTQIA+ focus. Time to do something meaningful & helpful for the queer community. Foundation, diploma, placements, maybe a masters. Next few years sorted!
If I talk about being sexually abused, being sexually assaulted, being sexually harassed, being sexually molested, about someone drugging and attempting to rape me, it's not because I want sympathy/ pity; I want you to understand the prism through which I experience the world now
June 10, 2024 at 9:55 AM
If I talk about being sexually abused, being sexually assaulted, being sexually harassed, being sexually molested, about someone drugging and attempting to rape me, it's not because I want sympathy/ pity; I want you to understand the prism through which I experience the world now
I was officially diagnosed with autism yesterday... so that's a thing. Probable ADHD too, although that has not (yet) been specifically screened for. So that's another thing. Unsure what to make of it all so far, even though it is hardly a surprise.
May 1, 2024 at 5:56 AM
I was officially diagnosed with autism yesterday... so that's a thing. Probable ADHD too, although that has not (yet) been specifically screened for. So that's another thing. Unsure what to make of it all so far, even though it is hardly a surprise.
It has become something of a familiar routine... It's the day after a facial hair removal session, so I can now look forward to several days looking like I have been huffing glue out of a crisp packet in the park
March 5, 2024 at 5:55 PM
It has become something of a familiar routine... It's the day after a facial hair removal session, so I can now look forward to several days looking like I have been huffing glue out of a crisp packet in the park
Such a sense of displacement, awkwardness and not fitting in at the moment. I'm not sure if I'm not right for this world, or if this world is not right for me. (Nothing sinister is implied by that)
March 4, 2024 at 8:21 AM
Such a sense of displacement, awkwardness and not fitting in at the moment. I'm not sure if I'm not right for this world, or if this world is not right for me. (Nothing sinister is implied by that)
Euphoria experienced yesterday at the realisation I needed to buy bigger bras.... followed by further euphoria at buying said bras! Go, HRT, go!
February 28, 2024 at 9:43 AM
Euphoria experienced yesterday at the realisation I needed to buy bigger bras.... followed by further euphoria at buying said bras! Go, HRT, go!
Is there any part of the autism assessment process that doesn't feel like you're just presenting a professional with a big list of the reasons you're a bit fucked up, things so obviously that even you notice them? It's so exposing and emotional. Incredibly painful.
January 28, 2024 at 7:22 AM
Is there any part of the autism assessment process that doesn't feel like you're just presenting a professional with a big list of the reasons you're a bit fucked up, things so obviously that even you notice them? It's so exposing and emotional. Incredibly painful.
My feeling of being overwhelmed is enormous at the moment, and impossible to explain. Is this burnout? Can't point to anything specific that is particularly problematic: just everything. Also have a huge awareness of my intolerance right now, and sense of injustice about the past
January 7, 2024 at 9:28 AM
My feeling of being overwhelmed is enormous at the moment, and impossible to explain. Is this burnout? Can't point to anything specific that is particularly problematic: just everything. Also have a huge awareness of my intolerance right now, and sense of injustice about the past
A painless lump developed behind my lower lip recently. A trip to the doctor yesterday proved somewhat panic-inducing; the word 'tumour' uttered by a doctor is scary, even with the caveat of 'probably benign'. The word 'nowotwór' (cancer) on my referral does little to calm me.
December 16, 2023 at 3:40 AM
A painless lump developed behind my lower lip recently. A trip to the doctor yesterday proved somewhat panic-inducing; the word 'tumour' uttered by a doctor is scary, even with the caveat of 'probably benign'. The word 'nowotwór' (cancer) on my referral does little to calm me.
I was moved to tears watching this. It brought waves of sadness, hurt and painful memories from the past. Having experienced emotionally immature parents first-hand, I know how confusing, traumatic, scary and damaging it is.
www.youtube.com/watch?v=PaYS...
www.youtube.com/watch?v=PaYS...
Traits of an Emotionally Immature Parent
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December 6, 2023 at 12:47 PM
I was moved to tears watching this. It brought waves of sadness, hurt and painful memories from the past. Having experienced emotionally immature parents first-hand, I know how confusing, traumatic, scary and damaging it is.
www.youtube.com/watch?v=PaYS...
www.youtube.com/watch?v=PaYS...