Sabrina the Middle-Aged Butch™ (aka Rivet)
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Sabrina the Middle-Aged Butch™ (aka Rivet)
@snarkytomboy.bsky.social
Middle Aged (47) AuDHD plus size trans sapphic gearhead lumberjane gamer. Tomboy butch. She/They ⚧ I like tinkering with radios, electronics, and cars. I have degrees in CompSci & Film. PNW based. I like pews & drive for a living. Fan of all things Spoopy
Pinned
I don't normally talk much outside my boring life, but just to be clear:

I believe in things like all people deserve food, water, healthcare and housing, nobody's illegal, black lives matter, acab, queer and trans people are valid, and punching nazis is good.

So yeah.
Quite good day today. Played some Tarkov, went to Video Game store, got a new joycon & switch game, worked on a friend's car, had good food, watched fun youtube and TV.. Sometimes ya just need to have a nice slow day and embrace simple joys in life while you can.
November 9, 2025 at 7:06 AM
Growing up were there any moments in movies that traumatized you?

The Lollipop Dragon - Bad Guy "Baron Bad Blood" literally gets magically turned into a tree. Forgive the bad pun, but I've been twigged out by that idea ever since. The live action Cowboy Bebop episode was a bad PTSD trip for me.
November 7, 2025 at 4:01 AM
Because my job falls under the purview of the federal DOT, I have to have a physical every year; part of that physical is getting an arbitrarily 'nominal' blood pressure reading. Except that like BMI, getting accurate BP readings on fat people is notoriously difficult & inaccurate & journal backed.
November 7, 2025 at 2:55 AM
Reposted by Sabrina the Middle-Aged Butch™ (aka Rivet)
Remember, remember, the 5th of November. Gunpowder, treason and plot. I see no reason. Why gunpowder treason. Should ever be forgot.
November 5, 2025 at 1:32 PM
Reposted by Sabrina the Middle-Aged Butch™ (aka Rivet)
i love space heater
space heater is life
November 4, 2025 at 3:16 AM
Me: turns on a DC tv show: "Alan Tudyk as.." Turns on another DC show, "Alan Tudyk as.." another, "Alan Tudyk as.." dang, boy. Wash gets around. Not complaining, cos we stan Alan on this account (Also Doug Jones) but just amused.. XD
November 1, 2025 at 7:26 PM
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This is the future liberals want.
Timeline cleanse- NYC Halloween Parade and Thriller.
November 1, 2025 at 3:57 AM
Finally got a good full body picture of me in my Ghostbuster uniform today at work for Halloween. <3
November 1, 2025 at 2:19 AM
I also grew up on paper booklet stamps. I was on snap just a few short years ago. I still have my card even though it has zero balance on it.

Read this thread, it's important.
I grew up on food stamps--not SNAP, physical paper stamps that came in a little book that Mom kept in her purse.
October 31, 2025 at 9:14 PM
This city and the universe are full on bonkers today. Tomorrow is either gonna be boring AF or it's gonna be full-on nightmare fuel berzerk.
October 31, 2025 at 1:50 AM
Change one letter, ruin a candy:

KNICKERS
Change one letter, ruin a candy:

SPITTLES
Change one letter, ruin a candy:

SARS
October 30, 2025 at 2:41 AM
I regret my life choices. Got my covid and flu shot yesterday. Should've waited to a Friday.

I am dragging today. Exhausted and sore. And unfortunately not able to take off work to recover.
October 28, 2025 at 6:07 PM
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Okay, this may not be as ridiculous a goal as I thought it was. Please, pre-order, encourage your friends to pre-order, and spread the word! We can actually get there!
If we can sell between 5,000 and 10,000 copies of OMENS OF CHAOS, we will debut comfortably on the New York Times Bestseller list, which is a very normal thing for a book to want (and will send a very clear message about what we want as a community). We won't, but a girl can dream.
October 28, 2025 at 12:22 AM
Something I've realized over the years of trying to write is that I seem to be decent at coming up with world building ideas and characters pretty well, but get stumped on plots for those characters to work through. Need to think on this more.
October 27, 2025 at 6:20 PM
What's it like inside your head?
October 26, 2025 at 10:31 PM
As I begin to contemplate trying to sit down to write seriously, I pondered writing essentially fanfic, and if that was a good place to start, and then I remembered the number of author friends I have who started out in franfic or are writing franchise tie-in novels is >0, so..
October 25, 2025 at 2:01 AM
I have had sushi. The world may be a total dumpster fire, but there is still sushi, and that's definitely something.
October 25, 2025 at 12:59 AM
Working this year's OryCon somehow made me realize that somehow, as I'm nearing 50, giving zero fucks about masking, about presenting any way except how I want to, and existing as a person with disabilities, has somehow made me more confident and more attractive than I ever thought possible. Neat.
October 23, 2025 at 7:04 AM
Picked up a notebook to start writing down story ideas and bits into. Maybe I can finally put something together.
October 22, 2025 at 5:09 PM
Hey. Hey. Me. REMEMBER THESE IDEAS AND WRITE THEM DOWN AND JUST START WRITING ALREADY.
Been watching some spooky movies with bestie this last week or so, and sparked conversations about queer tropes, horror tropes, bad writing, etc. which sparked a discussion of "You could / should write something better than what we watched." So now I'm up to two different story ideas in a month.
October 20, 2025 at 3:57 AM
Welcome to my church.

I make magic happen. Music is life.
October 19, 2025 at 2:40 AM
People recognized my cosplay and took pictures of me. I am pleased. :D
October 18, 2025 at 3:53 AM
First pics of my Knights of Guinevere Frankie cosplay!
October 18, 2025 at 2:15 AM
My last piece for my Frankie cosplay (the white turtleneck) arrived and fits great. I don't think I've ever been this excited to cosplay a character before, and I don't think I've ever felt as represented and seen as a person before as I do with Frankie. Thank you so much @danaterrace.bsky.social !!
October 17, 2025 at 4:16 PM
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this did not get nearly enough appreciation for how funny it was when i posted it as a youtube video so i’m uploading it directly. “I AM DYING FROM YOUR STINKY TOUCH” 🐍
October 14, 2025 at 6:15 PM