Art3mis
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A traumatized person often shares their story because they’re scared. They’re living with tension, confusion, & pain that they don’t know what to do with. Validating them allows them to believe they are safe. Shaming them increases their pain & gives them more to heal from.
January 29, 2025 at 8:46 PM
A traumatized person often shares their story because they’re scared. They’re living with tension, confusion, & pain that they don’t know what to do with. Validating them allows them to believe they are safe. Shaming them increases their pain & gives them more to heal from.
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Abandoning ourselves to gain someone else's approval is very often an old survival pattern. It's not our fault that that's our default setting-- but no "relationship" based on us pretending to be someone we're not is gonna be a realistic long term support in our trauma recovery.
January 30, 2025 at 2:23 AM
Abandoning ourselves to gain someone else's approval is very often an old survival pattern. It's not our fault that that's our default setting-- but no "relationship" based on us pretending to be someone we're not is gonna be a realistic long term support in our trauma recovery.
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This is your gentle reminder to stop sharing stuff that is important to you with people who do not show an interest in your wellbeing.
January 27, 2025 at 10:57 PM
This is your gentle reminder to stop sharing stuff that is important to you with people who do not show an interest in your wellbeing.
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Brainwashing is always traumatic, & trauma always brainwashes us-- but it can be hard to know or acknowledge when we've been brainwashed OR traumatized, because they both hide behind denial, fear, & shame.
But once you see one, it's almost impossible to not see the other.
But once you see one, it's almost impossible to not see the other.
January 22, 2025 at 6:14 PM
Brainwashing is always traumatic, & trauma always brainwashes us-- but it can be hard to know or acknowledge when we've been brainwashed OR traumatized, because they both hide behind denial, fear, & shame.
But once you see one, it's almost impossible to not see the other.
But once you see one, it's almost impossible to not see the other.
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He’s so ethereal, I just want to run my hand through his hair and shower him in love. ☀️🤍
#Castlevania #CastlevaniaNocturne #Alucard
#Castlevania #CastlevaniaNocturne #Alucard
January 18, 2025 at 8:07 PM
He’s so ethereal, I just want to run my hand through his hair and shower him in love. ☀️🤍
#Castlevania #CastlevaniaNocturne #Alucard
#Castlevania #CastlevaniaNocturne #Alucard
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he is so 🤏
January 14, 2025 at 7:04 PM
he is so 🤏
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Since we’re talking about how much billionaires suck again, here’s a reminder that your local indie bookstore deserves your business this holiday season. They have gift cards and are happy to mail stuff out. Same goes for @bookshop-org.bsky.social. Buy books. Give books. Support bookstores.
December 15, 2024 at 4:05 PM
Since we’re talking about how much billionaires suck again, here’s a reminder that your local indie bookstore deserves your business this holiday season. They have gift cards and are happy to mail stuff out. Same goes for @bookshop-org.bsky.social. Buy books. Give books. Support bookstores.
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Remember today that your playlists, your books, your comics, your movies, your poems, your historical figures, your fictional characters-- these are all trauma recovery tools that are as real & important as anything a trauma "expert" has to say. Use 'em. Use the hell out of 'em.
December 16, 2024 at 3:37 PM
Remember today that your playlists, your books, your comics, your movies, your poems, your historical figures, your fictional characters-- these are all trauma recovery tools that are as real & important as anything a trauma "expert" has to say. Use 'em. Use the hell out of 'em.
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I’m really tired of the honest people being held to a higher standard than the dishonest malignant narcissists who seemed to be allowed just get away with anything.
December 3, 2024 at 1:12 AM
I’m really tired of the honest people being held to a higher standard than the dishonest malignant narcissists who seemed to be allowed just get away with anything.
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It’s beginning to look a lot like Christmas…
December 2, 2024 at 1:33 AM
It’s beginning to look a lot like Christmas…
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I wish hibernation was socially acceptable :(
November 24, 2024 at 10:30 PM
I wish hibernation was socially acceptable :(
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Life comes at you fast ✨
November 22, 2024 at 12:54 PM
Life comes at you fast ✨
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Survivors of verbal & physical abuse especially can recoil from anger, & I get it. But reclaiming our right to be angry & affirming our ability to be angry without lashing out can be a crucial step in recovery-- especially when it comes to setting & respecting our boundaries.
November 19, 2024 at 3:35 PM
Survivors of verbal & physical abuse especially can recoil from anger, & I get it. But reclaiming our right to be angry & affirming our ability to be angry without lashing out can be a crucial step in recovery-- especially when it comes to setting & respecting our boundaries.
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Share this if trans people are welcome and safe with you #TransAwarenessWeek #NOH8
November 20, 2024 at 2:07 AM
Share this if trans people are welcome and safe with you #TransAwarenessWeek #NOH8
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I need to finish my other games first.
I need to finish my other games first.
I need to finish my other games first.
Oh look new game 😍
I need to finish my other games first.
I need to finish my other games first.
Oh look new game 😍
November 16, 2024 at 3:57 PM
I need to finish my other games first.
I need to finish my other games first.
I need to finish my other games first.
Oh look new game 😍
I need to finish my other games first.
I need to finish my other games first.
Oh look new game 😍
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Welcome to Blue Sky.
November 15, 2024 at 5:24 AM
Welcome to Blue Sky.
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i can’t explain how much this would fix me
November 13, 2024 at 12:01 AM
i can’t explain how much this would fix me
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