Belinda Jokinen
@realitysoldhere.bsky.social
Divorce Mediator & Conflict Specialist.
Yes, you can. So, be certain you want to.
Yes, you can. So, be certain you want to.
Remember: “let them” does not mean protect them, encourage them, or give them permission. 1. There’s a time to stand your ground, and a time when standing your ground means you aren’t going anywhere.
2. Let them experience your boundaries. #YouDecide #Boundaries #Wisdom #LetThem #RealitySoldHere 
2. Let them experience your boundaries. #YouDecide #Boundaries #Wisdom #LetThem #RealitySoldHere 
March 19, 2025 at 6:38 PM
Remember: “let them” does not mean protect them, encourage them, or give them permission. 1. There’s a time to stand your ground, and a time when standing your ground means you aren’t going anywhere.
2. Let them experience your boundaries. #YouDecide #Boundaries #Wisdom #LetThem #RealitySoldHere 
2. Let them experience your boundaries. #YouDecide #Boundaries #Wisdom #LetThem #RealitySoldHere 
Happy Valentine’s Day🖤
February 14, 2025 at 4:25 PM
Happy Valentine’s Day🖤
Please join me.
We really are amazing.
We really are amazing.
February 13, 2025 at 4:00 PM
Please join me.
We really are amazing.
We really are amazing.
February 3, 2025 at 3:26 PM
Knee-jerk reactions are so last year. 
We breathe, and reflect before answering now.
#RealitySoldHere 
We breathe, and reflect before answering now.
#RealitySoldHere 
February 2, 2025 at 4:46 PM
Knee-jerk reactions are so last year. 
We breathe, and reflect before answering now.
#RealitySoldHere 
We breathe, and reflect before answering now.
#RealitySoldHere 
The times I genuinely need my own advice.
In order to begin kicking ass, you must first lift your foot 🥾🦶🏼👠
In order to begin kicking ass, you must first lift your foot 🥾🦶🏼👠
January 31, 2025 at 2:06 PM
The times I genuinely need my own advice.
In order to begin kicking ass, you must first lift your foot 🥾🦶🏼👠
In order to begin kicking ass, you must first lift your foot 🥾🦶🏼👠
Exposing yourself to intentional discomfort is a great way to teach your brain and nervous system that not only can you handle the discomfort, you can smile and thrive in it!
It was 25° outside and the water was 31°! I stayed in for 7 minutes🥶💃🏻♾️
It was 25° outside and the water was 31°! I stayed in for 7 minutes🥶💃🏻♾️
January 20, 2025 at 5:05 PM
Exposing yourself to intentional discomfort is a great way to teach your brain and nervous system that not only can you handle the discomfort, you can smile and thrive in it!
It was 25° outside and the water was 31°! I stayed in for 7 minutes🥶💃🏻♾️
It was 25° outside and the water was 31°! I stayed in for 7 minutes🥶💃🏻♾️
Meme cred: @other98.bsky.social #RealitySoldHere
January 19, 2025 at 4:56 PM
Meme cred: @other98.bsky.social #RealitySoldHere
You can get rid of the toxic people. Also let go of the parts of you that let them be around in the first place.
January 10, 2025 at 7:06 PM
You can get rid of the toxic people. Also let go of the parts of you that let them be around in the first place.
January 10, 2025 at 3:58 PM
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