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Belinda Jokinen
@realitysoldhere.bsky.social
Divorce Mediator & Conflict Specialist.
Yes, you can. So, be certain you want to.
Remember: “let them” does not mean protect them, encourage them, or give them permission. 1. There’s a time to stand your ground, and a time when standing your ground means you aren’t going anywhere.
2. Let them experience your boundaries. #YouDecide #Boundaries #Wisdom #LetThem #RealitySoldHere
March 19, 2025 at 6:38 PM
March 17, 2025 at 10:26 PM
March 17, 2025 at 2:53 PM
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"One reason cats are happier than people is that they have no newspapers."

-Gwendolyn Brooks

Sony a7iv - 35mm 1.8

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March 3, 2025 at 2:47 PM
February 26, 2025 at 4:56 PM
It is not a justice system. It is just a system.
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What Is The Hungry Judge Effect?
YouTube video by StarTalk
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February 24, 2025 at 11:59 PM
Transition phases feel sticky and messy. Give yourself grace. And keep going.
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Transitions are messy and difficult. Keep going. #realitysoldhere
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February 20, 2025 at 5:15 PM
Spooky Lake Month therapy. She’s posting current ones! The Earth is so incredibly cool!🌊
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Hormuz Island 🩸 #spookylakes
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February 17, 2025 at 2:43 AM
Happy Valentine’s Day🖤
February 14, 2025 at 4:25 PM
Please join me.
We really are amazing.
February 13, 2025 at 4:00 PM
🤷🏻‍♀️🦈 we are all in this together
Oh you don’t have a valentine for Valentine’s Day?

Lots of people don’t have a shark for Shark Week.
February 11, 2025 at 2:04 AM
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FRIEND: you wanna go out Friday?

ME: I totally would but I already have my pajamas on and everything

FRIEND: but it's only Monday

ME: yes
February 10, 2025 at 9:52 PM
Hope means you’ve got work to do. It’s time to weather the possibility of happiness.
#RealitySoldHere
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Hope means you’ve got work to do It’s time to weather the possibility of happiness #realitysoldhere
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February 9, 2025 at 12:08 AM
The more you project yourself to be a victim to the process, the less safe, your children feel they are, throughout it.
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February 7, 2025 at 4:39 PM
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Tomorrow!

The Committee for Spokane's Streetcar will have its monthly meeting at Wonder Market (835 N. Post Street) at 6 PM.

Whether you have ideas to share with the group or just want to listen and socialize with other streetcar enthusiasts, we'd love to see you there!
February 5, 2025 at 5:50 PM
The comfort zone can be a danger zone.
Adjust accordingly.
#RealitySoldHere #Trauma

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The comfort zone can be a danger zone. Adjust accordingly. #RealitySoldHere #Trauma #KeepGoing
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February 5, 2025 at 3:17 PM
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Today is Rosa Parks’ birthday. Her bravery, resilience, and determination to stand against oppression have been guiding lights for activists through generations.

Let us continue to fight for justice in her memory.
February 4, 2025 at 2:53 PM
At any point, you have the power to say-
This Is Not How My Story Ends.
#RealitySoldHere
February 3, 2025 at 3:26 PM
Knee-jerk reactions are so last year. 
We breathe, and reflect before answering now.
#RealitySoldHere
February 2, 2025 at 4:46 PM
A lot can happen in a moment ✨🌬️🪐
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Since The Start of This Video…
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February 2, 2025 at 9:51 AM