Belinda Jokinen
@realitysoldhere.bsky.social
Divorce Mediator & Conflict Specialist.
Yes, you can. So, be certain you want to.
Yes, you can. So, be certain you want to.
Remember: “let them” does not mean protect them, encourage them, or give them permission. 1. There’s a time to stand your ground, and a time when standing your ground means you aren’t going anywhere.
2. Let them experience your boundaries. #YouDecide #Boundaries #Wisdom #LetThem #RealitySoldHere 
2. Let them experience your boundaries. #YouDecide #Boundaries #Wisdom #LetThem #RealitySoldHere 
March 19, 2025 at 6:38 PM
Remember: “let them” does not mean protect them, encourage them, or give them permission. 1. There’s a time to stand your ground, and a time when standing your ground means you aren’t going anywhere.
2. Let them experience your boundaries. #YouDecide #Boundaries #Wisdom #LetThem #RealitySoldHere 
2. Let them experience your boundaries. #YouDecide #Boundaries #Wisdom #LetThem #RealitySoldHere 
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"One reason cats are happier than people is that they have no newspapers."
-Gwendolyn Brooks
Sony a7iv - 35mm 1.8
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-Gwendolyn Brooks
Sony a7iv - 35mm 1.8
Www.instagram.com/@rogue_artwork
Www.rogueartwork.com
Www.facebook.com/RogueArtworkandPhotography
March 3, 2025 at 2:47 PM
"One reason cats are happier than people is that they have no newspapers."
-Gwendolyn Brooks
Sony a7iv - 35mm 1.8
Www.instagram.com/@rogue_artwork
Www.rogueartwork.com
Www.facebook.com/RogueArtworkandPhotography
-Gwendolyn Brooks
Sony a7iv - 35mm 1.8
Www.instagram.com/@rogue_artwork
Www.rogueartwork.com
Www.facebook.com/RogueArtworkandPhotography
It is not a justice system. It is just a system.
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What Is The Hungry Judge Effect?
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February 24, 2025 at 11:59 PM
It is not a justice system. It is just a system.
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Transition phases feel sticky and messy. Give yourself grace. And keep going.
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Transitions are messy and difficult. Keep going. #realitysoldhere
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February 20, 2025 at 5:15 PM
Transition phases feel sticky and messy. Give yourself grace. And keep going.
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Spooky Lake Month therapy. She’s posting current ones! The Earth is so incredibly cool!🌊
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Hormuz Island 🩸 #spookylakes
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February 17, 2025 at 2:43 AM
Spooky Lake Month therapy. She’s posting current ones! The Earth is so incredibly cool!🌊
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Happy Valentine’s Day🖤
February 14, 2025 at 4:25 PM
Happy Valentine’s Day🖤
Please join me.
We really are amazing.
We really are amazing.
February 13, 2025 at 4:00 PM
Please join me.
We really are amazing.
We really are amazing.
🤷🏻♀️🦈 we are all in this together
Oh you don’t have a valentine for Valentine’s Day?
Lots of people don’t have a shark for Shark Week.
Lots of people don’t have a shark for Shark Week.
February 11, 2025 at 2:04 AM
🤷🏻♀️🦈 we are all in this together
🙋🏻♀️
FRIEND: you wanna go out Friday?
ME: I totally would but I already have my pajamas on and everything
FRIEND: but it's only Monday
ME: yes
ME: I totally would but I already have my pajamas on and everything
FRIEND: but it's only Monday
ME: yes
February 10, 2025 at 9:52 PM
🙋🏻♀️
Hope means you’ve got work to do. It’s time to weather the possibility of happiness.
#RealitySoldHere
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#RealitySoldHere
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Hope means you’ve got work to do It’s time to weather the possibility of happiness #realitysoldhere
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February 9, 2025 at 12:08 AM
Hope means you’ve got work to do. It’s time to weather the possibility of happiness.
#RealitySoldHere
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#RealitySoldHere
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The more you project yourself to be a victim to the process, the less safe, your children feel they are, throughout it.
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February 7, 2025 at 4:39 PM
The more you project yourself to be a victim to the process, the less safe, your children feel they are, throughout it.
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youtube.com/watch?v=7rI6...
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Tomorrow!
The Committee for Spokane's Streetcar will have its monthly meeting at Wonder Market (835 N. Post Street) at 6 PM.
Whether you have ideas to share with the group or just want to listen and socialize with other streetcar enthusiasts, we'd love to see you there!
The Committee for Spokane's Streetcar will have its monthly meeting at Wonder Market (835 N. Post Street) at 6 PM.
Whether you have ideas to share with the group or just want to listen and socialize with other streetcar enthusiasts, we'd love to see you there!
February 5, 2025 at 5:50 PM
Tomorrow!
The Committee for Spokane's Streetcar will have its monthly meeting at Wonder Market (835 N. Post Street) at 6 PM.
Whether you have ideas to share with the group or just want to listen and socialize with other streetcar enthusiasts, we'd love to see you there!
The Committee for Spokane's Streetcar will have its monthly meeting at Wonder Market (835 N. Post Street) at 6 PM.
Whether you have ideas to share with the group or just want to listen and socialize with other streetcar enthusiasts, we'd love to see you there!
The comfort zone can be a danger zone.
Adjust accordingly.
#RealitySoldHere #Trauma
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Adjust accordingly.
#RealitySoldHere #Trauma
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The comfort zone can be a danger zone. Adjust accordingly. #RealitySoldHere #Trauma #KeepGoing
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February 5, 2025 at 3:17 PM
The comfort zone can be a danger zone.
Adjust accordingly.
#RealitySoldHere #Trauma
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Adjust accordingly.
#RealitySoldHere #Trauma
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Today is Rosa Parks’ birthday. Her bravery, resilience, and determination to stand against oppression have been guiding lights for activists through generations.
Let us continue to fight for justice in her memory.
Let us continue to fight for justice in her memory.
February 4, 2025 at 2:53 PM
Today is Rosa Parks’ birthday. Her bravery, resilience, and determination to stand against oppression have been guiding lights for activists through generations.
Let us continue to fight for justice in her memory.
Let us continue to fight for justice in her memory.
February 3, 2025 at 3:26 PM
Knee-jerk reactions are so last year. 
We breathe, and reflect before answering now.
#RealitySoldHere 
We breathe, and reflect before answering now.
#RealitySoldHere 
February 2, 2025 at 4:46 PM
Knee-jerk reactions are so last year. 
We breathe, and reflect before answering now.
#RealitySoldHere 
We breathe, and reflect before answering now.
#RealitySoldHere 
A lot can happen in a moment ✨🌬️🪐
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Since The Start of This Video…
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February 2, 2025 at 9:51 AM
A lot can happen in a moment ✨🌬️🪐
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