💜 "To move forward, we must understand that the most fundamental component of the anti-trans movement is not feminism. Rather, it is a fear of change and self-determination - reproducing a core tenant of patriarchy itself." - Alice Bethell

www.wearequeeraf.com/self-determi...

Síoda is noise reactive, so I walk her in the countryside or very early as city still [mostly] sleeps.

While the early walks were hard at the start (Scottish winters are harsh af), it’s become this beautiful way to experience land changing around us.

Like today, we enjoyed a frosty pink sunrise.

🧠 "More and more of us are coming to terms with not only our queer identities, but also our neurodiversity."

https://www.wearequeeraf.com/what-can-we-learn-from-neuroqueer-theory/

I like to have a particular mug for therapy, almost ritualistically.

Last week however, I smashed my usual special mug (dyspraxic life ✌️).

So, I’ve spent this morning pottery painting a new one.

Balance will soon be restored ✨

🏳️‍⚧️ "At this time, nonbinary adults are still waiting for their identity to be legally recognised, meaning we will be misgendered in death as we are in life."

www.wearequeeraf.com/will-i-be-le...

The outrageous restfulness going on while I’m in sessions.

🏳️‍⚧️ Immerse yourself in a new set of Trans+ history lessons

The 2025 @transhistoryweek.bsky.social workbook is packed with stories, tips, and advice on how to create your own content, events, and activities during the week.

You can download it now! 👇

www.wearequeeraf.com/dotheworkbook/

Saw a real life Bob Ross painting today.

I internally exclaimed ‘Scoootland’, in a Scottish accent which I absolutely do not have.

📍 Kirkton Glen, Balquhidder

Hello! I have a new book out with MJ Barker (and another one edited by me as well). Not feeling celebratory to be honest, but I know that gathering will feel good. Order the book early and join me please? Nobody turned away for lack of funds! More info at: www.alexiantaffi.com/book-launch Thank you!

All our events for the first half of 2025 are now available to book!
Link to each of them below...

Been thinking a lot about queer grief in this moment 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈

When we experience profound loss, most often, our grief-culture demands we do something to stop/solve it.

But when it’s the loss of rights+basic acknowledgement, we can’t pathologise our response.

It’s profoundly human to just not feel okay💔

Faith from Buffy was my first ‘oh this definitely doesn’t feel straight’ crush.

Didn’t have the words to describe what that meant for my identity at the time [here’s looking at you 90s rural Ireland 👀], but I’m excited for a big queer rewatch now before the reboot 💖

NEW BLOG POST: Authentically Emily Update - Book Guide, Girl Unmasked Paperback, Giveaway and Talks

www.authenticallyemily.uk/blog/autism-...

We’re running a free Name Change workshop on 3rd March at 6:30pm, via Zoom, for trans over 18s in the UK. Come along to find out how to change your name, how to handle common problems with name changes, and more.

Sign up at: https://form.typeform.com/to/n47vyAzR

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I’m not sure what to share here yet, but in the absence of knowledge or inspiration, maybe the best place to start is walks with my dog Síoda.

Here’s short video of her ears blowing in the wind. Pure joy.

📍 Ballageich Hill, by Whitelee Windfarm.
✨ A fairly short walk with incredible views.