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New detrans grifter just dropped in the Daily Mail
December 18, 2024 at 9:25 AM
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In a disturbing case of domestic abuse, 22-year-old Tamour Nawaz has been sentenced to prison for subjecting his own mother to a campaign of coercive control, intimidation, and violence. #CoerciveControl #ElderAbuse
22-Year-Old Jailed for Coercive Control of his own Mother
In a disturbing case of domestic abuse, a 22-year-old Tamour Nawaz has been sentenced to prison for subjecting his mother to coercive control, intimidation, and violence.
shadowsofcontrol.com
December 17, 2024 at 11:07 AM
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Abusers play the victim so well that others believe their lies and join the attack. ⚠️
December 17, 2024 at 7:03 PM
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Abusers often use the festive season to further coerce victim-survivors into debt.

If you are being forced to make transactions that push you into debt or if debts are fraudulently built up in your name, this is known as coerced debt.

Find support: survivingeconomicabuse.org/i-need-help/...
Debt - Surviving Economic Abuse
Forcing or coercing someone into debt is a common form of economic abuse. This information can help you understand coerced debt, your options for dealing with debt and related issues including the imp...
survivingeconomicabuse.org
December 17, 2024 at 9:21 AM
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Application for contact by father, who had previously been convicted for assault and other offences against the mother. Ordered that father should have no contact, barring order made until child reaches 18 and father's parental responsibility restricted. www.bailii.org/ew/cases/EWF...
C (A Child), Re (No Contact) [2024] EWFC 366 (B) (15 November 2024)
www.bailii.org
December 17, 2024 at 2:47 PM
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An abuser’s control thrives on fear and punishment, making even the smallest acts of resistance feel impossible.

##AbuseAwareness ##SurvivorSupport
December 17, 2024 at 11:01 PM
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Instead of placing blame on victims, we should focus on holding abusers accountable for their actions. Shifting the narrative is key to supporting survivors and creating change.

##domesticabuseawareness ##toxicrelationships ##endabuse
December 18, 2024 at 3:02 AM
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Judges love to align with fathers in family court. Even making him an extension of the Court, by appointing him with complete power & control over the mother’s access to her children. This CT mother fought back, representing herself before the Appellate Court.
#divorce
youtube.com/shorts/UdR77...
Connecticut - Fathers Appointed as the Gatekeeper
YouTube video by WeSpoke
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December 18, 2024 at 3:33 AM
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“Everything happens for a reason.”

When people say this to an abuse victim, it diminishes their pain, suffering, and trauma. Survivors need understanding, not spiritual platitudes.

##EmotionalAbuse ##SupportSurvivors
December 18, 2024 at 6:02 AM
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Even in the darkest moments, we’re still fighting—sometimes in ways we don’t even realize. Every time we dream of a different life, take tiny acts of rebellion, or imagine our freedom, we’re planting seeds of hope. Those seeds may take time to grow, but they are proof of the strength we never lost.
December 10, 2024 at 9:51 AM
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Abusers don’t always roar.

Sometimes, they’re quiet manipulators, making you question your reality, your worth, and your sanity—without ever raising their voice.
December 10, 2024 at 7:43 AM
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"You’re useless."
"No one else would put up with you."
"Why can’t you do anything right?"
The words may fade, but the impact stays. Verbal abuse is designed to erode your self-esteem until you believe you’re worthless. You’re not. 💜#DomesticAbuseRecovery
December 10, 2024 at 1:10 PM
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Abusers use economic control to deprive victim-survivors of economic stability and safety, often forcing them into homelessness.

If you’re facing housing insecurity, help is available.

Visit our website to access resources and learn about organisations that can support you 💻
December 10, 2024 at 2:00 PM
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"If you hadn’t upset me, I wouldn’t have reacted that way."
"I can’t believe you’re making me feel like the bad guy again."
They’re the victim, no matter what they’ve done.
Abusers twist the narrative to avoid accountability, making you question everything.
December 10, 2024 at 8:25 PM
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Leaving isn’t the end of the battle—it’s the beginning of a new one. The echoes of their words, the habits of survival, and the fear of what comes next don’t disappear overnight. But with time, we begin to rebuild, to heal, and to reclaim the life that was stolen from us. #HealingJourney
December 11, 2024 at 8:03 AM
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It is really good to see that the new FJC guidance draws on the 3R model formulated by the US National Council of Juvenile and Family Court Judges, and endorsed by our Domestic Abuse Commissioner in her 2023 report
Harmful pseudo-science open.substack.com/pub/rozenber...
Harmful pseudo-science
Parental alienation syndrome is not a thing at all, judges are told
open.substack.com
December 11, 2024 at 8:49 AM
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They twist your words until you don’t trust your memory.

They deny things you know happened, leaving you doubting your reality.

They make you question if you’re too sensitive, too emotional, too much.

Gaslighting isn’t miscommunication—it’s manipulation.

#Gaslighting #DomesticAbuse
November 25, 2024 at 6:36 PM
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On average, abuse victims make seven attempts before successfully leaving abusive relationships. Survivors share their stories to shed light on the barriers faced and how abusers make leaving so difficult. #DomesticAbuse
Survivors Share Why It Is So Hard to Leave an Abusive Relationship
Understanding the complexities of leaving an abusive relationship. Survivors share their stories to shed light on the barriers faced and how abusers make leaving so difficult.
shadowsofcontrol.com
November 24, 2024 at 5:41 PM