I’ve been shifting away from TikTok all year, but it has been my “home” online for 5 years. It’s sad to let it go, but it’s not safe there anymore. I’m putting my energy into Substack and Patreon now (lots of free content still), and will be posting a little less on social media.

Men who objectify women always comment on appearances. So the best defense is to get real comfy in your body. Nothing anyone says can hurt me unless it’s an insecurity I have already. 😘

I don’t argue with men anymore, I just tell them I’m embarrassed 

Find your bird and set it free

Corporations are driven by fear. Many of them won’t stand up to this president, nor will many government officials for the same reason. We can’t depend on them to stop anything. We have to look to ourselves. What can we do?

@aaronparnas.bsky.social makes me have to take these walks more often 😭

I went back to Instagram this week. I didn’t anticipate all the women on the app who don’t use any other apps. Several asked me how they can share my videos. I tried to suggest text messaging, but decided I might as well just go back. www.instagram.com/reel/DFlTo5W...

A man who cares more about the law than his wife is the most dangerous.
#maritalcoercion

It’s interesting to me how people rationalize separating groups of people but they never want to talk about it.

#mynewhusband is doing some crazy shit. I can’t stop him, but I can talk about it.

Lunch break reset.

Do you have control of yourself? Or does #mynewhusband and his new regime have control over you?
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Talking to my kid about some of the feelings behind avoidant attachment

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Reposting outside of tiktok. It’s not fair the rest of the world doesn’t get to see this. 😁

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