Nat LaJune
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Nat LaJune
@natlajune.bsky.social
Lover, Mother, Writer, Poet
I talk about sex, love, and psychic shit
bio.site/natlajune
I was 33 the first time he told me it must be early menopause. I said no it couldn’t be. He said his sister said it could be. I never asked myself why he was talking to his sister about us. I only apologized and said I would try harder. And I did. I tried and tried and tried.

#maritalcoercion
October 14, 2025 at 2:54 AM
I know I’m early
But I had no reason to wait
We said we’d meet at nine
But lover take your time
A lot can happen before a date

I don’t mind being early
Time is only a farthing
The table is dressed
The coffee is pressed
And I’m busy watching the starlings
October 5, 2025 at 2:51 PM
Either he’s a liar and a jackass or he’s an idiot and a dingbat. In 30+ years using the internet I’ve managed to get my birth date right every time.
September 29, 2025 at 12:28 AM
A list of “he didn’t force me but” notes. I’m working on compiling them for a guided journal about sexual coercion for women healing from this particular abuse.
#maritalcoercion
September 9, 2025 at 1:40 AM
I’ve been shifting away from TikTok all year, but it has been my “home” online for 5 years. It’s sad to let it go, but it’s not safe there anymore. I’m putting my energy into Substack and Patreon now (lots of free content still), and will be posting a little less on social media.
August 16, 2025 at 3:18 PM
The moon is an 🍊 tonight
August 10, 2025 at 3:06 AM
Men who objectify women always comment on appearances. So the best defense is to get real comfy in your body. Nothing anyone says can hurt me unless it’s an insecurity I have already. 😘
July 8, 2025 at 9:57 AM
I don’t argue with men anymore, I just tell them I’m embarrassed 
March 31, 2025 at 11:18 AM
Controlled burns protect wildlife and humans
March 8, 2025 at 6:32 PM
On threads. In a conversation about men raping women, he’s insistent that we stop talking about men as rapists and say it’s women. www.threads.net/@natlajune/p...
February 18, 2025 at 4:12 PM
Find your bird and set it free
February 10, 2025 at 3:42 PM
Corporations are driven by fear. Many of them won’t stand up to this president, nor will many government officials for the same reason. We can’t depend on them to stop anything. We have to look to ourselves. What can we do?
February 9, 2025 at 3:13 PM
It’s already a meme 😂
February 5, 2025 at 3:33 AM
@aaronparnas.bsky.social makes me have to take these walks more often 😭
February 3, 2025 at 7:29 PM
I went back to Instagram this week. I didn’t anticipate all the women on the app who don’t use any other apps. Several asked me how they can share my videos. I tried to suggest text messaging, but decided I might as well just go back. www.instagram.com/reel/DFlTo5W...
February 2, 2025 at 8:01 PM
A man who cares more about the law than his wife is the most dangerous.
#maritalcoercion
January 31, 2025 at 10:17 PM
It’s interesting to me how people rationalize separating groups of people but they never want to talk about it.
January 30, 2025 at 9:50 PM
#mynewhusband is doing some crazy shit. I can’t stop him, but I can talk about it.
January 30, 2025 at 6:23 PM
I went back to threads. I’m not happy about it, but even less happy about coercive men speaking in spaces I’m not in. #maritalcoercion
This conversation started with me saying that coerced wives often wonder if they’re asexual (often accused by their husbands).

www.threads.net/@natlajune/p...
January 30, 2025 at 3:50 PM
Been thinking about this 14th amendment threat anew since my birth father was undocumented. It’s not really about “illegals”—it’s pure racism. I’m safe only because I ended up with fair skin and freckles, adopted by a white European couple, and married a German. That shouldn’t make me feel lucky.
January 29, 2025 at 11:11 PM
January 29, 2025 at 4:15 PM
Lunch break reset.
January 28, 2025 at 7:57 PM
Do you have control of yourself? Or does #mynewhusband and his new regime have control over you?
www.tiktok.com/t/ZT2YANfBu/
January 28, 2025 at 6:32 PM
Talking to my kid about some of the feelings behind avoidant attachment

www.tiktok.com/t/ZT2YJjjkq/
January 28, 2025 at 7:20 AM
Reposting outside of tiktok. It’s not fair the rest of the world doesn’t get to see this. 😁

www.tiktok.com/t/ZT2Fq95Xg/
January 27, 2025 at 9:02 PM