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Nat LaJune
@natlajune.bsky.social
Lover, Mother, Writer, Poet
I talk about sex, love, and psychic shit
bio.site/natlajune
Christians are abusing and terrorizing each other in their homes and churches every day, but sure, let’s talk about how meditation is of the devil
October 17, 2025 at 11:22 AM
I was 33 the first time he told me it must be early menopause. I said no it couldn’t be. He said his sister said it could be. I never asked myself why he was talking to his sister about us. I only apologized and said I would try harder. And I did. I tried and tried and tried.

#maritalcoercion
October 14, 2025 at 2:54 AM
Swifties are lowercase maga.
October 13, 2025 at 3:26 PM
Before you try HRT, try divorce. I didn’t have menopause. I had symptoms of menopause because I was being traumatized by my husband.
October 13, 2025 at 12:25 PM
If you divorced an abusive husband I hope you’re talking to people about what he did. There are women going through the same thing and don’t know it’s abuse.
October 13, 2025 at 9:09 AM
All I got out of my marriage was out.
October 12, 2025 at 10:35 PM
An abusive man’s favorite word is but.

But you said no last time.
But women do it too.
But men need sex.
But you’re my wife.
But if you don’t, I’ll cheat.
But I did the dishes.
But what did you do?
But what was she wearing?
But she was 18.
October 12, 2025 at 3:22 PM
Telling a woman she can give a baby up for adoption as an alternative to abortion is like telling a rape victim, “what are you crying about, he’s not raping you anymore?“ 

She still has to live with the trauma.
October 12, 2025 at 1:09 PM
“But that’s not legal.”

The law is a love poem without someone to enforce it.
October 7, 2025 at 4:21 PM
Men who prey on women wouldn’t be caught dead dressed as one.
October 5, 2025 at 7:20 PM
I don’t have the energy to spare for Taylor Swift’s music but I will say, from what others are sharing of her lyrics, I’m pretty sure men are not a good muse for her.
October 5, 2025 at 7:17 PM
I know I’m early
But I had no reason to wait
We said we’d meet at nine
But lover take your time
A lot can happen before a date

I don’t mind being early
Time is only a farthing
The table is dressed
The coffee is pressed
And I’m busy watching the starlings
October 5, 2025 at 2:51 PM
Much like the onion, SNL isn’t funny anymore because it’s real now.
October 5, 2025 at 11:51 AM
Talking about what “over them” means. open.substack.com/pub/natlajun...
How Long Does it Take to Get Over Someone?
What does it really mean to get over someone? Is it about time, distance, or something more?
open.substack.com
October 4, 2025 at 2:25 PM
Apparently this is a hot take, but I don’t believe you’re a girls girl if you have conditions on what makes someone a girl, or whether or not you support them
September 29, 2025 at 11:35 AM
Everyone is deleting tiktok accounts. Be kind to us for awhile. It’s not an easy thing to do. Some of us have made over 20,000 videos on that app.
September 29, 2025 at 1:19 AM
Either he’s a liar and a jackass or he’s an idiot and a dingbat. In 30+ years using the internet I’ve managed to get my birth date right every time.
September 29, 2025 at 12:28 AM
When I use voice-to-text, Neurotypical is capitalized and neurodivergent is not.
September 24, 2025 at 2:59 AM
The ONLY reason this man is still president is because everyone with the power to remove him wants him there.
September 22, 2025 at 1:32 AM
People don’t recognize abuse in their relationships because their family abused them first and they thought it was normal
September 11, 2025 at 2:23 AM
Charlie Kirk has asked that no one have empathy. I think it’s the least we can do for him.
September 11, 2025 at 2:23 AM
A chess piece was just moved and there are a few more turns.
September 11, 2025 at 2:14 AM
A list of “he didn’t force me but” notes. I’m working on compiling them for a guided journal about sexual coercion for women healing from this particular abuse.
#maritalcoercion
September 9, 2025 at 1:40 AM
Sometimes when I see somebody being a real tool in the comments, I think it’s a nice courtesy to remind him, “this is the kind of thing that gets you handcuffed to a roof in the walking dead.”
September 9, 2025 at 1:38 AM
I’ve been shifting away from TikTok all year, but it has been my “home” online for 5 years. It’s sad to let it go, but it’s not safe there anymore. I’m putting my energy into Substack and Patreon now (lots of free content still), and will be posting a little less on social media.
August 16, 2025 at 3:18 PM