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Do you want to perform at your best? Get out of your own way. Ego, fear of failure, status anxiety, a focus on the external instead of the internal.
Do you want to perform at your best? Get out of your own way. Ego, fear of failure, status anxiety, a focus on the external instead of the internal.
Work hard
Strive for consistency over perfection
Find joy in the activity itself
Go on the journey with friends
Play the long game, instead of chasing short term results
Do that and you'll end up pretty dang good at whatever it is you are doing.
Work hard
Strive for consistency over perfection
Find joy in the activity itself
Go on the journey with friends
Play the long game, instead of chasing short term results
Do that and you'll end up pretty dang good at whatever it is you are doing.
When you focus on the process, you can find success even if the outcome isn't what you expected.
Do the small things each day & you'll develop better habits that will help you reach your goal in the long run.
When you focus on the process, you can find success even if the outcome isn't what you expected.
Do the small things each day & you'll develop better habits that will help you reach your goal in the long run.
Somehow we have to incentivize & reward the nuanced, rational, and common sense take...
Somehow we have to incentivize & reward the nuanced, rational, and common sense take...
Evidence: Doing 3 random acts of kindness a week is enough to reduce depression, anxiety & loneliness. It's more beneficial than doing nice things for yourself.
Self-care feels good, but generosity builds lasting bonds.
Evidence: Doing 3 random acts of kindness a week is enough to reduce depression, anxiety & loneliness. It's more beneficial than doing nice things for yourself.
Self-care feels good, but generosity builds lasting bonds.
1. Consistency trumps perfection.
2. Be a minimalist to be a maximalist.
3. Have a quiet ego.
4. Focus on the process, not results.
5. Establish a secure but flexible identity.
6. Stress + Rest = Growth
1. Consistency trumps perfection.
2. Be a minimalist to be a maximalist.
3. Have a quiet ego.
4. Focus on the process, not results.
5. Establish a secure but flexible identity.
6. Stress + Rest = Growth
You don’t need to fear the occasional Chick-fil-A sandwich.
You need to show up, even when conditions aren’t perfect.
The myth of perfection is making us weaker, not better.
Perfectionism trains our brains to freak out.
thegrowtheq.com/the-imperfec...
You don’t need to fear the occasional Chick-fil-A sandwich.
You need to show up, even when conditions aren’t perfect.
The myth of perfection is making us weaker, not better.
Perfectionism trains our brains to freak out.
thegrowtheq.com/the-imperfec...
#music #musician #health #wellbeing
#music #musician #health #wellbeing
That's often not the case.
We are our most dedicated when we are having fun and experiencing joy
We often create teams & cultures devoid of joy in the misplaced notion that seriousness means we are more committed. It doesn't
That's often not the case.
We are our most dedicated when we are having fun and experiencing joy
We often create teams & cultures devoid of joy in the misplaced notion that seriousness means we are more committed. It doesn't
But normal is relative.
6 miles once seemed like an eternity. Now it's an easy jog.
A new article on how to shift what you think is possible: thegrowtheq.com/how-to-shift...
But normal is relative.
6 miles once seemed like an eternity. Now it's an easy jog.
A new article on how to shift what you think is possible: thegrowtheq.com/how-to-shift...
The best coaches seek out wisdom from others.
Fiercely guarding your "secrets" backfires. Coaching comes from conversation. The more smart thinkers you're talking to, the clearer your thinking will be.
The best coaches seek out wisdom from others.
Fiercely guarding your "secrets" backfires. Coaching comes from conversation. The more smart thinkers you're talking to, the clearer your thinking will be.
chop wood carry water.
After enlightenment,
chop wood carry water.
What I love most about this Zen aphorism is that it points toward the truth that there is no arriving.
You’ve got to show up and pound the stone. Doing and being go hand in hand. 🪓🪣🪓🪣
chop wood carry water.
After enlightenment,
chop wood carry water.
What I love most about this Zen aphorism is that it points toward the truth that there is no arriving.
You’ve got to show up and pound the stone. Doing and being go hand in hand. 🪓🪣🪓🪣
From ‘Relationship Counselling with Autistic Neurodiverse Couples: A Guide for Professionals’, by Tony Attwood and Maxine Aston.
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From ‘Relationship Counselling with Autistic Neurodiverse Couples: A Guide for Professionals’, by Tony Attwood and Maxine Aston.
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1. Accepting reality even if it's hard.
2. Asking for help.
3. Being patient; knowing what feels like forever in the moment is not.
4. Narrative that you'll grow from struggle.
5. Routine—helps to activate and provides predictability.
1. Accepting reality even if it's hard.
2. Asking for help.
3. Being patient; knowing what feels like forever in the moment is not.
4. Narrative that you'll grow from struggle.
5. Routine—helps to activate and provides predictability.
Be patient
Focus on the process
Pursue meaning not happiness
Surround yourself wisely
Work hard
Rest hard
Ignore “hacks”
Get coaching
Be OK with failure
Practice self-discipline
Practice self-compassion
Know where you’re going
Be where you are
Be patient
Focus on the process
Pursue meaning not happiness
Surround yourself wisely
Work hard
Rest hard
Ignore “hacks”
Get coaching
Be OK with failure
Practice self-discipline
Practice self-compassion
Know where you’re going
Be where you are