I gagged reading that. I would have thought using separate cleaning implements for the toilet and the sink would be common sense... good god

Also congrats to your fiancee I hope the surgery is smooth and successful!!!

I have considered that! But also I'm genuinely quite close to my extended family and I want them to hear it from me lol it's just like. I'm a little daunted by having to explain the nuances or gender to a bunch of cishet people w varying degrees of religious conviction

That's the shit the people WANT

The XX hat is wild because people like that do not understand chromosomes or how they work. Or that intersexness is so much more common and often unnoticeable. Like girl did you have your chromosomes checked 🤨 are you SURE you're an XX??

Okay, well, the grand vizier IS missing, so like. Everyone is a suspect at this point.