Matus Hanidziar
@matushanidziar.bsky.social
Love Leader. Love Coach.
Secure love is a skill. I’ll show you how.
We don’t heal patterns. We rewire them.
From anxious to secure — in love and life.
Join Love Leaders here: https://loveleaders.life/
Secure love is a skill. I’ll show you how.
We don’t heal patterns. We rewire them.
From anxious to secure — in love and life.
Join Love Leaders here: https://loveleaders.life/
These two videos are twins.
Same views.
Same likes.
But they revealed one uncomfortable truth:
People don’t want to "heal".
They want to feel secure.
Same views.
Same likes.
But they revealed one uncomfortable truth:
People don’t want to "heal".
They want to feel secure.
May 6, 2025 at 3:00 PM
These two videos are twins.
Same views.
Same likes.
But they revealed one uncomfortable truth:
People don’t want to "heal".
They want to feel secure.
Same views.
Same likes.
But they revealed one uncomfortable truth:
People don’t want to "heal".
They want to feel secure.
Thinking isn’t what you think it is.
It’s not overanalyzing, stressing, or obsessing.
Here’s the real definition—and how it secretly shapes your life.
It’s not overanalyzing, stressing, or obsessing.
Here’s the real definition—and how it secretly shapes your life.
April 8, 2025 at 3:30 PM
Thinking isn’t what you think it is.
It’s not overanalyzing, stressing, or obsessing.
Here’s the real definition—and how it secretly shapes your life.
It’s not overanalyzing, stressing, or obsessing.
Here’s the real definition—and how it secretly shapes your life.
They pull away.
You chase.
You both feel worse.
Avoidants aren’t your enemy.
But if you don’t understand them, you’ll keep getting hurt.
Here’s the truth no one tells you:
You chase.
You both feel worse.
Avoidants aren’t your enemy.
But if you don’t understand them, you’ll keep getting hurt.
Here’s the truth no one tells you:
April 4, 2025 at 3:30 PM
They pull away.
You chase.
You both feel worse.
Avoidants aren’t your enemy.
But if you don’t understand them, you’ll keep getting hurt.
Here’s the truth no one tells you:
You chase.
You both feel worse.
Avoidants aren’t your enemy.
But if you don’t understand them, you’ll keep getting hurt.
Here’s the truth no one tells you:
Relationships are a dance.
Do you want a new dynamic?
Change your steps.
Here's how:
Do you want a new dynamic?
Change your steps.
Here's how:
February 21, 2025 at 4:50 PM
Relationships are a dance.
Do you want a new dynamic?
Change your steps.
Here's how:
Do you want a new dynamic?
Change your steps.
Here's how:
The thing you hate most about your partner?
It might just be a reflection of your own inner world.
What you see in your partner is your mirror.
Here’s how to use this to transform your love life:
It might just be a reflection of your own inner world.
What you see in your partner is your mirror.
Here’s how to use this to transform your love life:
February 20, 2025 at 4:18 PM
The thing you hate most about your partner?
It might just be a reflection of your own inner world.
What you see in your partner is your mirror.
Here’s how to use this to transform your love life:
It might just be a reflection of your own inner world.
What you see in your partner is your mirror.
Here’s how to use this to transform your love life:
2 AM. You can’t sleep.
The thoughts won’t stop:.
"Why did they leave?"
"Did I do something wrong?"
But what if you’re seeing it all wrong?
Here’s the truth about abandonment. 🧵
The thoughts won’t stop:.
"Why did they leave?"
"Did I do something wrong?"
But what if you’re seeing it all wrong?
Here’s the truth about abandonment. 🧵
February 19, 2025 at 10:07 AM
2 AM. You can’t sleep.
The thoughts won’t stop:.
"Why did they leave?"
"Did I do something wrong?"
But what if you’re seeing it all wrong?
Here’s the truth about abandonment. 🧵
The thoughts won’t stop:.
"Why did they leave?"
"Did I do something wrong?"
But what if you’re seeing it all wrong?
Here’s the truth about abandonment. 🧵
2021:
My marriage of 11 years is over.
I am drowning in regret.
I don't see the light...
2025:
My marriage is better than ever before. (yes, the same one)
I welcome my 2nd child into the world.
I am looking ahead to my bright future.
What changed?
My marriage of 11 years is over.
I am drowning in regret.
I don't see the light...
2025:
My marriage is better than ever before. (yes, the same one)
I welcome my 2nd child into the world.
I am looking ahead to my bright future.
What changed?
February 14, 2025 at 3:44 PM
2021:
My marriage of 11 years is over.
I am drowning in regret.
I don't see the light...
2025:
My marriage is better than ever before. (yes, the same one)
I welcome my 2nd child into the world.
I am looking ahead to my bright future.
What changed?
My marriage of 11 years is over.
I am drowning in regret.
I don't see the light...
2025:
My marriage is better than ever before. (yes, the same one)
I welcome my 2nd child into the world.
I am looking ahead to my bright future.
What changed?
So we talk:
We start with the weather
(you gotta start somewhere😜)
Career.
Family.
Kids.
I share that my son Martin has just been born.
The guy from Denmark has got 2 sons, so I turn to him and ask:
"What's your biggest takeaway from being a father to a son?"
I'm curious what comes up...
We start with the weather
(you gotta start somewhere😜)
Career.
Family.
Kids.
I share that my son Martin has just been born.
The guy from Denmark has got 2 sons, so I turn to him and ask:
"What's your biggest takeaway from being a father to a son?"
I'm curious what comes up...
February 11, 2025 at 1:12 PM
So we talk:
We start with the weather
(you gotta start somewhere😜)
Career.
Family.
Kids.
I share that my son Martin has just been born.
The guy from Denmark has got 2 sons, so I turn to him and ask:
"What's your biggest takeaway from being a father to a son?"
I'm curious what comes up...
We start with the weather
(you gotta start somewhere😜)
Career.
Family.
Kids.
I share that my son Martin has just been born.
The guy from Denmark has got 2 sons, so I turn to him and ask:
"What's your biggest takeaway from being a father to a son?"
I'm curious what comes up...
Here's the story from yesterday:
We go to a birthday party of my daughter's classmate.
Most parents speak Spanish, so I'm looking for "the international corner".
And I find it - a lady from Ukraine and a guy from Denmark.
Great!
It's time to get to know each other.
We go to a birthday party of my daughter's classmate.
Most parents speak Spanish, so I'm looking for "the international corner".
And I find it - a lady from Ukraine and a guy from Denmark.
Great!
It's time to get to know each other.
February 11, 2025 at 1:12 PM
Here's the story from yesterday:
We go to a birthday party of my daughter's classmate.
Most parents speak Spanish, so I'm looking for "the international corner".
And I find it - a lady from Ukraine and a guy from Denmark.
Great!
It's time to get to know each other.
We go to a birthday party of my daughter's classmate.
Most parents speak Spanish, so I'm looking for "the international corner".
And I find it - a lady from Ukraine and a guy from Denmark.
Great!
It's time to get to know each other.
I promised myself I'd stop coaching people in my free time...
But sometimes it's very difficult NOT to do it...
Especially in a situation like this:
But sometimes it's very difficult NOT to do it...
Especially in a situation like this:
February 11, 2025 at 1:12 PM
I promised myself I'd stop coaching people in my free time...
But sometimes it's very difficult NOT to do it...
Especially in a situation like this:
But sometimes it's very difficult NOT to do it...
Especially in a situation like this:
So we talk:
We start with the weather
(you gotta start somewhere😜)
Career.
Family.
Kids.
I share that my son Martin has just been born.
The guy from Denmark has got 2 sons, so I turn to him and ask:
"What's your biggest takeaway from being a father to a son?"
I'm curious what comes up...
We start with the weather
(you gotta start somewhere😜)
Career.
Family.
Kids.
I share that my son Martin has just been born.
The guy from Denmark has got 2 sons, so I turn to him and ask:
"What's your biggest takeaway from being a father to a son?"
I'm curious what comes up...
February 10, 2025 at 11:30 AM
So we talk:
We start with the weather
(you gotta start somewhere😜)
Career.
Family.
Kids.
I share that my son Martin has just been born.
The guy from Denmark has got 2 sons, so I turn to him and ask:
"What's your biggest takeaway from being a father to a son?"
I'm curious what comes up...
We start with the weather
(you gotta start somewhere😜)
Career.
Family.
Kids.
I share that my son Martin has just been born.
The guy from Denmark has got 2 sons, so I turn to him and ask:
"What's your biggest takeaway from being a father to a son?"
I'm curious what comes up...
Here's the story from yesterday:
We go to a birthday party of my daughter's classmate.
Most parents speak Spanish, so I'm looking for "the international corner".
And I find it - a lady from Ukraine and a guy from Denmark.
Great!
It's time to get to know each other.
We go to a birthday party of my daughter's classmate.
Most parents speak Spanish, so I'm looking for "the international corner".
And I find it - a lady from Ukraine and a guy from Denmark.
Great!
It's time to get to know each other.
February 10, 2025 at 11:30 AM
Here's the story from yesterday:
We go to a birthday party of my daughter's classmate.
Most parents speak Spanish, so I'm looking for "the international corner".
And I find it - a lady from Ukraine and a guy from Denmark.
Great!
It's time to get to know each other.
We go to a birthday party of my daughter's classmate.
Most parents speak Spanish, so I'm looking for "the international corner".
And I find it - a lady from Ukraine and a guy from Denmark.
Great!
It's time to get to know each other.
I promised myself I'd stop coaching people in my free time...
But sometimes it's very difficult NOT to do it...
Especially in a situation like this:
But sometimes it's very difficult NOT to do it...
Especially in a situation like this:
February 10, 2025 at 11:30 AM
I promised myself I'd stop coaching people in my free time...
But sometimes it's very difficult NOT to do it...
Especially in a situation like this:
But sometimes it's very difficult NOT to do it...
Especially in a situation like this:
Learn how to make this shift in my upcoming masterclass:
https://tidycal.com/matushanidziar/masterclass
https://tidycal.com/matushanidziar/masterclass
February 5, 2025 at 11:30 AM
Learn how to make this shift in my upcoming masterclass:
https://tidycal.com/matushanidziar/masterclass
https://tidycal.com/matushanidziar/masterclass
STEP #2 -
Join my live Masterclass this Friday.
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Thanks for reading!
Follow @MatusHanidziar for more on love & psychology.
Join my live Masterclass this Friday.
Spots are limited—sign up now!
https://buff.ly/3WOsyzF
Thanks for reading!
Follow @MatusHanidziar for more on love & psychology.
February 4, 2025 at 8:30 PM
STEP #2 -
Join my live Masterclass this Friday.
Spots are limited—sign up now!
https://buff.ly/3WOsyzF
Thanks for reading!
Follow @MatusHanidziar for more on love & psychology.
Join my live Masterclass this Friday.
Spots are limited—sign up now!
https://buff.ly/3WOsyzF
Thanks for reading!
Follow @MatusHanidziar for more on love & psychology.
Want to become a secure partner and stop the cycle of anxious or avoidant relationships?
You can take these 2 steps:
STEP #1:
Become aware of your attachment style today.
Watch the video here: https://buff.ly/3CxHfQU
You can take these 2 steps:
STEP #1:
Become aware of your attachment style today.
Watch the video here: https://buff.ly/3CxHfQU
February 4, 2025 at 8:30 PM
Want to become a secure partner and stop the cycle of anxious or avoidant relationships?
You can take these 2 steps:
STEP #1:
Become aware of your attachment style today.
Watch the video here: https://buff.ly/3CxHfQU
You can take these 2 steps:
STEP #1:
Become aware of your attachment style today.
Watch the video here: https://buff.ly/3CxHfQU
Have you ever been told you're “too much” in relationships?
Or maybe you’ve been accused of being cold or distant?
Your attachment style is shaping your love life in ways you don’t even realize.
Let’s dive in. 🧵👇
Or maybe you’ve been accused of being cold or distant?
Your attachment style is shaping your love life in ways you don’t even realize.
Let’s dive in. 🧵👇
February 4, 2025 at 8:30 PM
Have you ever been told you're “too much” in relationships?
Or maybe you’ve been accused of being cold or distant?
Your attachment style is shaping your love life in ways you don’t even realize.
Let’s dive in. 🧵👇
Or maybe you’ve been accused of being cold or distant?
Your attachment style is shaping your love life in ways you don’t even realize.
Let’s dive in. 🧵👇
Self-sabotage is a myth.
Your subconscious isn’t against you.
It’s trying to help.
This is why you feel stuck and how hypnosis helps you break free. 🧵
Your subconscious isn’t against you.
It’s trying to help.
This is why you feel stuck and how hypnosis helps you break free. 🧵
January 18, 2025 at 2:30 PM
Self-sabotage is a myth.
Your subconscious isn’t against you.
It’s trying to help.
This is why you feel stuck and how hypnosis helps you break free. 🧵
Your subconscious isn’t against you.
It’s trying to help.
This is why you feel stuck and how hypnosis helps you break free. 🧵
Are you stuck in an endless loop of therapy?
If you’re not moving, you’re not healing—you’re coping.
Here’s how to break free and move forward for good:
If you’re not moving, you’re not healing—you’re coping.
Here’s how to break free and move forward for good:
January 16, 2025 at 2:30 PM
Are you stuck in an endless loop of therapy?
If you’re not moving, you’re not healing—you’re coping.
Here’s how to break free and move forward for good:
If you’re not moving, you’re not healing—you’re coping.
Here’s how to break free and move forward for good:
Ever felt like anxiety had total control over you?
It doesn’t have to.
These 3 steps can set you free.
🧵
It doesn’t have to.
These 3 steps can set you free.
🧵
January 15, 2025 at 2:30 PM
Ever felt like anxiety had total control over you?
It doesn’t have to.
These 3 steps can set you free.
🧵
It doesn’t have to.
These 3 steps can set you free.
🧵