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luxelifehaze.bsky.social
@luxelifehaze.bsky.social
I’m just a (Black, millennial) girl.
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One thing I’ve repeated to myself over the last few weeks is “the opposite of love isn’t hate, it’s indifference”. That saying has served as a gentle reminder to come back to myself and not engage with the bullshit.
Was I the only person unaware that you have to put the stickers and decals on kids’ toys??
December 26, 2025 at 4:46 AM
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whatever is beautiful. whatever is meaningful. whatever brings you happiness. may it be yours this holiday season & throughout the coming year
December 25, 2025 at 6:38 PM
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LET US BEGIN THE AIRING OF GRIEVANCES. HAPPY FESTIVUS TO ALL!
two men standing in front of an american video store
ALT: two men standing in front of an american video store
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December 23, 2025 at 2:00 PM
I stopped using Instacart when I saw them advertise “in store pricing!” for some stores. Why wouldn’t all your prices be in store prices??
December 22, 2025 at 10:38 PM
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i meeeeean.. at least they’re finally being honest about what we BEEN sayin: they wanna be the bad bitch so bad.

gross.
He deleted this video and is now pretending he never made it 😭😭
December 22, 2025 at 6:15 PM
Saw what appeared to be an ex notice me in the grocery store. I have never gotten ghost quicker in my life 😅😅😅
December 20, 2025 at 8:52 PM
2 weeks from tomorrow I get to get dressed up and experience an orchestra scoring a classic film.

Whew buddy. I cannot wait.
December 18, 2025 at 5:17 PM
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absolutely nobody:

baptists:
December 18, 2025 at 3:17 AM
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Yes, also long covid and Covid in general quite literally altered peoples brains.
Did society as a whole lose critical thinking skills during the pandemic?
December 16, 2025 at 10:54 PM
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🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
August 7, 2025 at 2:55 PM
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Do men know the absolutely stunning about of good good they could get if they weren’t weird ?

I think that’s why I’ve gotten along best at least schematically with bi/ pan sexual men

I need a man who understands what’s it’s like to put up with men
December 13, 2025 at 5:51 AM
This little couch/fort kit I got for my niece is so comfy
December 8, 2025 at 1:47 AM
A sweater I bought last winter matches the shoes I bought a few weeks ago which match the coat I bought 2-3 winters ago. This is why the elders say building a wardrobe is a lifetime adventure.
December 4, 2025 at 5:37 PM
A very 30+ thought:

I want a national day of rest from posting TikTok’s and IG reels. I want y’all to just turn the front facing cameras off for a second and breathe.
December 2, 2025 at 8:48 PM
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This is me politely asking you all to review this skeet and, as a result, think twice before engaging in "smell-this 'activism.'"

DID YOU SEE THIS AWFUL THING THIS AWFUL MAN SAID

HOW ABOUT THIS TERRIBLE GUY, ISN'T IT HE TERRIBLE

OK, so... why are you his street team? Why are you signal-boosting?
The most precious commodity you have is your attention. You don’t have to waste it on poor-faith debates or arguments with strangers if you don’t think they’ll be productive. You can prioritize the things that matter to you and make your life richer.
November 30, 2025 at 9:57 PM
Getting cute and leaving the house to go work in a coffee shop after a snow storm? 10/10. Would do again lol
November 30, 2025 at 9:29 PM
I saw a white woman on IG like “here’s the top 10 places to buy Black Santa Claus gear”

A WHITE WOMAN.
November 30, 2025 at 2:36 AM
This data is from a single analytics firm and it counts items added to carts not dollars actually spent/transactions completed.

I added a lot of shit to carts over the last week, I haven’t checked out any of them. I suspect I’m not the only person doing that.
November 30, 2025 at 2:29 AM
Done working. For better or for worse.
November 28, 2025 at 6:19 PM
So I’m rewatching season 3 of the Gilded Age and I just want to know if Jack left an envelope for Peggy.
November 28, 2025 at 12:45 AM
I’m drunk. Yay.
November 28, 2025 at 12:44 AM
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Call me big Whoopi cuz I don't want no man in my house
a man will air dry on your velvet sofa, crown royal meat bag facing the world, and people will STILL ask why you believe in love but not cohabitation.
a woman is sitting in a crowd of people in a dark room and making a face .
ALT: a woman is sitting in a crowd of people in a dark room and making a face .
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November 27, 2025 at 4:16 AM
Fine! And moisturized. I love this show
Bel-Air is back and what a beautiful cast of Black people
November 26, 2025 at 4:20 AM
Bel-Air is back and what a beautiful cast of Black people
November 26, 2025 at 3:34 AM
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Zohran flip your hair again we need healthcare get him to give us healthcare.
November 21, 2025 at 9:26 PM