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He/They/She 31 Pan

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I am a survivor of narcissistic abuse. Let's talk about it.
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Hello, *beep boop noises* FELLOW HUMAN. I am certainly a normal fellow human and would love to supply exactly what it is you need to produce this PRODUCT. I am certainly not here to steal your IP, I am a fannnnn of you dear incredible....*types your full @*
(Fuck yeah, works every time)
November 21, 2025 at 7:07 PM
I have a working theory that multiple injuries like carpal tunnel are just fatigue and overworking of specific muscles within a section of the body, but they want to charge you money to fix it so they gave it a medical name and told you it's your fault. This is not rooted in any research, yet. xD
November 20, 2025 at 11:56 PM
Corporate profit margins
a cartoon of a duck wearing a red shirt and a red hat .
ALT: a cartoon of a duck wearing a red shirt and a red hat .
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November 20, 2025 at 10:17 PM
People willing to compromise their own beliefs and morals to fit in *are emotionally stunted* 'N because of the way that state of mind works they are almost staring at all the worst versions of themselves while pretending they don't have egg on their face...they definitely have egg on their face. xD
November 20, 2025 at 7:50 PM
Happy Birthday!
November 20, 2025 at 7:44 PM
In a case like that I would also recommend setting an energetic boundary for yourself that you should not go and accept that drain on your system unless you have enough of your own cup filled up to pour into that other person's cup. These things can be difficult to handle, and you are okay to feel.💜
November 20, 2025 at 6:58 PM
We fear that unknown, we fear finding out we were wrong, we fear finding out we were douped, we fear feeling mistreated. All of these feelings are valid and understandable. If the connection is still valued to you even when considering the extra drain of dissonance, it's okay to still hang out.-
November 20, 2025 at 6:58 PM
CNS and mental state, this can be picked up on as well. Conflict resolution is a wonderful way to resolve these differences, but it is also the thing that will resolve the dissonance and that makes it scary because with it can carry 'consequence' or 'conclusion' but it can also carry 'Safety'...-
November 20, 2025 at 6:57 PM
a potential threat hiding behind that discrepancy. It is an acknoledgement that something is wrong, something is off.
Your feelings are important, we know this internally. Generally choosing to participate in a system knowing your feelings will be invalidated is guaranteed to cause a drain on your-
November 20, 2025 at 6:57 PM
Cognitive Dissonance describes the feeling of being unable to reconcile the different versions of someone or something in your head between what you previously believe that they/it was/were and what you are currently seeing in front of you knowing that there is difference and understanding there is-
November 20, 2025 at 6:57 PM
Wouldn't this same argument apply to sex addics in the community? They aren't ready for that convo tho. 🤔
a group of police officers are standing around a man asking him what is the charge eating a meal
ALT: a group of police officers are standing around a man asking him what is the charge eating a meal
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November 20, 2025 at 3:01 AM
Do not be ashamed of who you were. Do not be ashamed of who you are. The two are intimately connected thru your unique lived experience, and that is what makes you uniquely you. We are all imperfect, even the most proper. Learning to love the blemishes is when survival opens up into thriving.
November 19, 2025 at 6:41 PM
You are not beholden to guilt projected at you by others who are stuck quite literally living in the past. People are very quick to offload their own responsibility onto others, and when they see you have continued to grow like they feared, they want to remind you that you are imperfect. We all are.
November 19, 2025 at 6:41 PM
Photoshop is way cheaper than her appearance fee, and I betcha she doesn't give af about his need for validation right about now. xD
November 19, 2025 at 6:19 PM