I got they’d by a stranger after being misgendered by someone who knows it’s he or they and it was for sure because I seem like a they to anyone cool. In spaces where trans and queer people are a norm, I am always gendered correctly.

I do love to sing and am also now in a baritone range that I do not know how to use at all. I want to take some voice lessons again, just to get some more understanding so singing feels more fun again. It’s funny to no longer be an actor so I have not had as much opportunity to learn this voice.

I have always had a very tiny range so this kind of song is not one I could ever swing but I keep making new little dance phrases to it!

It really is.

Yesss

Literally thought, Sandy will get it, when I wrote this post. 😂

A tale as old as time, I know.

It’s like taking a stack of hateful flyers you find in a neighborhood and then walking around and handing them out and adding, “Wow, did you see this? This is awful.” …But then they are still left holding the flyers YOU gave them.

I'm an unemployed, disabled trans woman surviving off donations and now without SNAP like so many people.

Needing $300 for a grocery order as priority atm.
Amz: shorturl.at/FaojU
Kofi: shorturl.at/Z3mfJ
CA: $LuciNevins
Vnmo: @ Harland-Nevins
PP: shorturl.at/S694j

Thank you for this tonight!

Ugh! It’s a little easier with my step kids being older to help them think about this because it showed up later for them but their college professor father uses it all the time now so. I hate it so much!

Glad you also got to see some pushback to temper it some. What a brutal time. I appreciate you talking about it in a place I got to see! 💜

I know my own versions of this - it is just everywhere and endless and when it is right in a thing you love, how much more painful!