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Jem with an E
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…and put it in a pretty font

🏳️‍⚧️ / she/her / 💖🤍🧡

an aging book, her pages softened by time
Today, I:
- Worked a while
- Made lunch
- Took a shower
- Took parents to airport
- Worked some more
- Went to therapy
- Finished work
- Started taxes
- Broke for dinner and to make daughter do homework
- Finished and filed taxes
- Put daughter to bed

Some days there’s zero time to just be a girl 😫
April 16, 2025 at 3:23 AM
If Form W was so great, how come there’s no F— oh.
April 16, 2025 at 1:49 AM
The current administration in the U.S. is basically a performance/load test (one could even argue a fuzz test) of our country’s basic systems. We are rapidly filing bug reports, and while some of them are being fixed, the terrifying part is seeing so many of them being resolved as Works As Designed.
April 15, 2025 at 5:46 PM
My incredibly talented friend Mary Kate’s new single is out today! She’s a singer/songwriter out of SLC. She has a kickstarter for the EP up as well (link in replies) if you’d like to support her!

song.link/i/1807626980
Words That Rhyme by Mary Kate Walton
Listen now on your favorite streaming service. Powered by Songlink/Odesli, an on-demand, customizable smart link service to help you share songs, albums, podcasts and more.
song.link
April 10, 2025 at 6:13 PM
I should start asking people I meet if they’re trans. Because if they’re cis, their reaction to that question will speak volumes.
April 10, 2025 at 4:58 PM
My new friend has texted me every night this week since the game night 😄 which is awesome, I love attention. But how much of a mess am I to think “what does she want from me?” 😕
April 10, 2025 at 3:19 AM
Sometimes I wish you could give people preprompts like ChatGPT, to tell them how you liked to be spoken to and treated. And then I realized fuck, that’s just expressing boundaries 🤦🏻‍♀️
April 9, 2025 at 12:33 PM
I get to meet my new friend tomorrow! 🥰 I am picking her up to ride to game night. She lives about an hour away, and then it’s another 40 minute drive to the place. We’re meeting like 10 other girls, everyone’s bringing games, and literally no one has met anyone else before 🙃 I can’t wait 😁
April 5, 2025 at 4:24 AM
Not me joining my daily standup a couple minutes late on purpose just to hear someone say “there she is” 😆
April 4, 2025 at 6:29 PM
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You know what fucking rules? Transitioning. Yes, even now. Every single day, I love my body and mind more.
April 4, 2025 at 12:06 AM
I’m invited to a girls’ game night on Saturday! It’s all people I’ve never met, so I’m terrified, but also excited bc this is such a dream! I’ve wanted to be invited to something like this forever 🥹 I have to decide what to wear and what game to bring 🥲 and remember to be myself, but not too much 😅
April 3, 2025 at 3:33 PM
Alright, who has a good recap of all the things not to get lied to about this year?

I love the fun ones, like Pokémon GO making poke balls appear on the screen, and that year when Google Maps went 8-bit. Those are fun.

But fake news stories at this day and age is not it.
April 1, 2025 at 1:35 PM
If you ever wanna know if there are any millennials around, just yell out “SET IT…” and then listen.
March 31, 2025 at 11:39 PM
Getting talked over during meetings now is my favorite form of ewphoria. It's almost weirdly kind of freeing not to have people paying so much attention to me. So my superpower is invisiblity, she realizes, on Trans Day of Visibility...
March 31, 2025 at 2:47 PM
That’s so real, Pencil Sharpener.
March 30, 2025 at 6:27 PM
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*b*r*a*i*d*
March 30, 2025 at 2:44 AM
The vet took our dog back and said “I’ll bring you back to your moms in just a few minutes” and I needed that 🥲
March 29, 2025 at 5:22 PM
This digital game cartridge stuff Nintendo is doing is not only convoluted, it’s even less usable than the current way licensing works. If I hadn’t gotten a Steam Deck recently, I’d be more annoyed by it. My Switch is getting dusty, and tbh the Switch 2 is probably gonna be a Zelda/Mario box for me.
March 28, 2025 at 2:43 PM
Actual convo with my wife:

Me: We’re trying to think of a new team name at work so it’s TBD rn and I go “Does anyone else kinda like TBD? Like, The Bug Destroyers!”

Wife: JEM!

Me: ?

Wife: The Butt Destroyers?! 🤨

Me: What? No! BUG! The Bug Destroyers! Why would you… why would I… what?!
March 28, 2025 at 2:28 PM
I can’t articulate why, but I really love when the speaker in songs is in denial, expressing something they’re not going to do, when it’s clear they are going to or even probably already did.
March 28, 2025 at 2:11 PM
Puppy
March 28, 2025 at 4:49 AM
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THIS IS HUGE! Researchers at Scripps Research Institute have developed a groundbreaking UNIVERSAL coronavirus vaccine that triggers STONG immune responses AND shows promise in neutralizing MULTIPLE coronaviruses, including those responsible for causing COVID-19, MERS, AND even the “common cold.” 🧪🧵⬇️
March 27, 2025 at 4:00 PM
My daughter just sat and talked to me about her day at school for over an HOUR. It was lovely. She went through everything she did in every class. She hasn’t done that in ages. I thought she was reaching the age (like I did) in middle school where you just clammed up and won’t talk to your parents.🥹
March 28, 2025 at 12:45 AM
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Day… (I wanna say) 7 of wearing every top in my closet to see if I still like it. Still love this. Very springy. I think it came from Temu last year when I was in my get-everything-with-keyholes! phase 😆
March 26, 2025 at 2:57 PM
The other day I came across and dusted off what I am told was my paternal grandfather’s old safety razor. I never met the man. I bought some blades for it and now I’m watching videos on how to use it. I’ve never been taught or used anything but an electric coil razor before, so this is interesting!
March 26, 2025 at 1:26 AM