✨ happy international month of jay! ✨
@jaythenerdkid.bsky.social
☪️🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈 | 🇦🇺🇵🇰🇹🇷 | not your lawyer | living on occupied wulgurukaba/bindal country | they/them | fabricati diem, pvnc
and my family is *good* at rage
November 14, 2025 at 7:34 AM
and my family is *good* at rage
that and the shape of my nose, I guess. genetic heritability is weird.
November 14, 2025 at 7:33 AM
that and the shape of my nose, I guess. genetic heritability is weird.
it's more like...sometimes the moments when I feel the strongest connection to a heritage that has felt frustratingly remote for most of my life are moments of anger. and that isn't great, but also, it feels a little bittersweet? didn't grow up there, don't speak the language, still got the temper.
November 14, 2025 at 7:32 AM
it's more like...sometimes the moments when I feel the strongest connection to a heritage that has felt frustratingly remote for most of my life are moments of anger. and that isn't great, but also, it feels a little bittersweet? didn't grow up there, don't speak the language, still got the temper.
this sounds like I'm saying I'm not responsible for my behaviour when I'm angry. that's not it at all. I know the choices I make are ultimately my own.
November 14, 2025 at 7:13 AM
this sounds like I'm saying I'm not responsible for my behaviour when I'm angry. that's not it at all. I know the choices I make are ultimately my own.
happy birthday! I'm glad it was a good one and I hope the year ahead is as good 💜
November 14, 2025 at 5:30 AM
happy birthday! I'm glad it was a good one and I hope the year ahead is as good 💜
we shall never see his like again (relieved), but also, we shall never see his like again (regretful)
November 14, 2025 at 12:10 AM
we shall never see his like again (relieved), but also, we shall never see his like again (regretful)
oh, I never bother with root touch-ups or anything, I just get it done and then let it grow out however it's going to - but you can do a root stretch or something similar so that it grows out in a more natural way!
November 14, 2025 at 12:01 AM
oh, I never bother with root touch-ups or anything, I just get it done and then let it grow out however it's going to - but you can do a root stretch or something similar so that it grows out in a more natural way!
four hours in the chair but SO worth it
November 13, 2025 at 11:06 PM
four hours in the chair but SO worth it
I like my natural hair colour just fine, but I have to say I do feel a bit more myself when I have blue hair to match the pronouns
November 13, 2025 at 10:44 PM
I like my natural hair colour just fine, but I have to say I do feel a bit more myself when I have blue hair to match the pronouns
big if true
November 13, 2025 at 7:16 PM
big if true
HEARTBREAKING:
November 13, 2025 at 7:13 PM
HEARTBREAKING:
he blocked me, so I guess I'll never have the pleasure lmao
November 13, 2025 at 7:12 PM
he blocked me, so I guess I'll never have the pleasure lmao
like one really cool transition discovery for me was that I love pretty and feminine things! I just don't love being a woman 🤷🏽
November 13, 2025 at 6:11 AM
like one really cool transition discovery for me was that I love pretty and feminine things! I just don't love being a woman 🤷🏽
for me, makeup was really tied up in the whole charade of passing as a girl for a long time, but now that I've transitioned, I can enjoy being pretty and feminine just because I want to be rather than feeling forced to do it to prove to myself and the world that I'm not a failure at gender
November 13, 2025 at 6:10 AM
for me, makeup was really tied up in the whole charade of passing as a girl for a long time, but now that I've transitioned, I can enjoy being pretty and feminine just because I want to be rather than feeling forced to do it to prove to myself and the world that I'm not a failure at gender
I'm slowly emerging from an extended period of being too fatigued to do fun things with my appearance and it has been so nice just having the energy to do a skincare routine, wear makeup for fun and not because I've got to be in work photos, etc
November 13, 2025 at 5:48 AM
I'm slowly emerging from an extended period of being too fatigued to do fun things with my appearance and it has been so nice just having the energy to do a skincare routine, wear makeup for fun and not because I've got to be in work photos, etc
doing the hobbit birthday thing and giving you all gifts
November 13, 2025 at 5:22 AM
doing the hobbit birthday thing and giving you all gifts
we're so back etc etc
November 13, 2025 at 5:16 AM
we're so back etc etc
💜💜💜 bestie, idk if you also saw the photos I posted last night, but bsky.app/profile/jayt...
it's been literally years since I posted one of these to the public TL in primetime, so: enjoy I guess
November 13, 2025 at 5:15 AM
💜💜💜 bestie, idk if you also saw the photos I posted last night, but bsky.app/profile/jayt...
this is what "boys will be boys" should mean
November 13, 2025 at 5:12 AM
this is what "boys will be boys" should mean
I started at 32 and figured I wasn't going to get much in the way of changes, and it was absolutely fucking wild how much had already changed after just a month on a very low starter dose
November 13, 2025 at 4:26 AM
I started at 32 and figured I wasn't going to get much in the way of changes, and it was absolutely fucking wild how much had already changed after just a month on a very low starter dose