Lau
@incidentale.bsky.social
Facing the consequences of letting hockey teams take over my life from across the Atlantic. With a sprinkle of F1 in the mix.
From sociology in hockey to sustainability in fashion, attempting to make sense of my dysfunctional brain.
From sociology in hockey to sustainability in fashion, attempting to make sense of my dysfunctional brain.
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Howdy! I’ve got a new @slate.com story, about some really fascinating work researcher @cantonwiner.bsky.social is doing around asexuality and a concept he coined called “gender detachment”
A Researcher Was Studying How to Classify Gender—and Found a Startling New Answer
Turns out there’s more to the gender spectrum than we’d imagined.
slate.com
September 5, 2025 at 5:40 PM
Howdy! I’ve got a new @slate.com story, about some really fascinating work researcher @cantonwiner.bsky.social is doing around asexuality and a concept he coined called “gender detachment”
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April 27, 2025 at 7:15 PM
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In other words, neglecting asexuality can lead sex positive researchers and activists to inadvertently lean into sex negative ideas such as compulsory sexuality (aka the idea that everyone does and should experience sexual attraction).
Read more here: cantonwiner.substack.com/p/the-freedo...
Read more here: cantonwiner.substack.com/p/the-freedo...
The Freedom Not To Be Sexual
Why sex positive frameworks need asexuality
cantonwiner.substack.com
April 23, 2025 at 5:52 PM
In other words, neglecting asexuality can lead sex positive researchers and activists to inadvertently lean into sex negative ideas such as compulsory sexuality (aka the idea that everyone does and should experience sexual attraction).
Read more here: cantonwiner.substack.com/p/the-freedo...
Read more here: cantonwiner.substack.com/p/the-freedo...
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THE HABS ARE GOING TO THE PLAYOFFS 🔥
April 17, 2025 at 2:26 AM
THE HABS ARE GOING TO THE PLAYOFFS 🔥
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April 17, 2025 at 3:36 AM
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April 17, 2025 at 4:25 AM
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This #InternationalAsexualityDay , I urge you to listen to an ace person. Find the answer to one of your questions. Read a blog or a book or a pamphlet. Check out a thread. Read our poetry. Watch our videos. Learn about our experience instead of insisting that it is nothing.
You'll be glad you did.
You'll be glad you did.
April 6, 2025 at 8:12 PM
This #InternationalAsexualityDay , I urge you to listen to an ace person. Find the answer to one of your questions. Read a blog or a book or a pamphlet. Check out a thread. Read our poetry. Watch our videos. Learn about our experience instead of insisting that it is nothing.
You'll be glad you did.
You'll be glad you did.
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SUPER PROUD OF THIS EXTENSIVE INTERVIEW IN ART TRIBUNE 🩵 grazie Margherita Cuccia www.artribune.com/progettazion...
Intervista all’icona della moda e attivista Orsola de Castro
Mentore, docente, direttrice creativa, autrice: Orsola de Castro si racconta sul nuovo Focus Moda di Artribune
www.artribune.com
March 20, 2025 at 7:50 AM
SUPER PROUD OF THIS EXTENSIVE INTERVIEW IN ART TRIBUNE 🩵 grazie Margherita Cuccia www.artribune.com/progettazion...
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The Habs power of friendship is stronger than ever folks ♥️
March 19, 2025 at 1:54 AM
The Habs power of friendship is stronger than ever folks ♥️
is this relief because it was the right choice or is my avoidance having a field day 🫠
February 25, 2025 at 9:44 AM
is this relief because it was the right choice or is my avoidance having a field day 🫠
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i’ve gotten a lot of messages from baby queers being like “will we get through this” and the answer is yes. i don’t know how it’ll all go down and it will suck for a while but your human spirit is 10000x stronger than their hatred. it’s the only reason you’ve gotten this far
January 23, 2025 at 12:38 AM
i’ve gotten a lot of messages from baby queers being like “will we get through this” and the answer is yes. i don’t know how it’ll all go down and it will suck for a while but your human spirit is 10000x stronger than their hatred. it’s the only reason you’ve gotten this far
alienating experience of the day:
at the cinema watching a movie with people laughing at a scene that has you in tears
at the cinema watching a movie with people laughing at a scene that has you in tears
January 18, 2025 at 7:43 PM
alienating experience of the day:
at the cinema watching a movie with people laughing at a scene that has you in tears
at the cinema watching a movie with people laughing at a scene that has you in tears
Would be appreciated if conversations I had more than two years ago stopped tormenting me in my dreams.
January 2, 2025 at 11:00 PM
Would be appreciated if conversations I had more than two years ago stopped tormenting me in my dreams.
talking to myself here as a reminder, but when a friend says they enjoy spending time with you, it's true. trust them. it's your brain that's lying.
December 23, 2024 at 1:14 PM
talking to myself here as a reminder, but when a friend says they enjoy spending time with you, it's true. trust them. it's your brain that's lying.
opening new accounts is always awkward... should just begin in medias res as if it was an ongoing conversation I was having with myself, I guess
November 27, 2024 at 11:04 PM
opening new accounts is always awkward... should just begin in medias res as if it was an ongoing conversation I was having with myself, I guess