Julie Sondra Decker
@juliesondra.bsky.social
Novelist, creativity enthusiast, comic scribbler, singer, cartoon nerd, asexuality activist. Author of THE INVISIBLE ORIENTATION. She/her. Not your babysitter.
https://juliesondradecker.com
https://juliesondradecker.com
Yeah I just spent all the money I was paid to write a book's introduction on toys. How are you other adults doin'.
November 15, 2025 at 4:11 PM
Yeah I just spent all the money I was paid to write a book's introduction on toys. How are you other adults doin'.
I enjoy watching reaction channels but these types are killin' me:
1. Guy who blankly watches, eating pizza, at times remarking "that was fire, bro"
2. Reaction pair pausing every 5 seconds to shriek & digress into anecdotes
3. Person who spends first 7 minutes discussing Patreon & upload schedule
1. Guy who blankly watches, eating pizza, at times remarking "that was fire, bro"
2. Reaction pair pausing every 5 seconds to shriek & digress into anecdotes
3. Person who spends first 7 minutes discussing Patreon & upload schedule
October 19, 2025 at 6:03 PM
I enjoy watching reaction channels but these types are killin' me:
1. Guy who blankly watches, eating pizza, at times remarking "that was fire, bro"
2. Reaction pair pausing every 5 seconds to shriek & digress into anecdotes
3. Person who spends first 7 minutes discussing Patreon & upload schedule
1. Guy who blankly watches, eating pizza, at times remarking "that was fire, bro"
2. Reaction pair pausing every 5 seconds to shriek & digress into anecdotes
3. Person who spends first 7 minutes discussing Patreon & upload schedule
What some of y'all are putting up with!!! Holy Broccoli.
Sexual attraction must be a hell of a drug.
Sexual attraction must be a hell of a drug.
October 17, 2025 at 7:48 PM
What some of y'all are putting up with!!! Holy Broccoli.
Sexual attraction must be a hell of a drug.
Sexual attraction must be a hell of a drug.
Lady: [shares dude behaving badly] ugh why???
3 inevitable male replies:
1. How dare you imply a man would ever talk to women like this, you bitchwhoreslut
2. Yes, but can we talk about what the woman did to deserve it? Women actually suck more in general.
3. THIS NEVER HAPPENED, you want attention
3 inevitable male replies:
1. How dare you imply a man would ever talk to women like this, you bitchwhoreslut
2. Yes, but can we talk about what the woman did to deserve it? Women actually suck more in general.
3. THIS NEVER HAPPENED, you want attention
October 17, 2025 at 4:21 PM
Lady: [shares dude behaving badly] ugh why???
3 inevitable male replies:
1. How dare you imply a man would ever talk to women like this, you bitchwhoreslut
2. Yes, but can we talk about what the woman did to deserve it? Women actually suck more in general.
3. THIS NEVER HAPPENED, you want attention
3 inevitable male replies:
1. How dare you imply a man would ever talk to women like this, you bitchwhoreslut
2. Yes, but can we talk about what the woman did to deserve it? Women actually suck more in general.
3. THIS NEVER HAPPENED, you want attention
Edgy Dudes™ being like "You just don't understand my humor style" but everything "funny" they say is just . . . Racism
October 14, 2025 at 4:38 PM
Edgy Dudes™ being like "You just don't understand my humor style" but everything "funny" they say is just . . . Racism
Sometimes people say I do asexuality awareness to compensate for having an empty or rejection-filled life. (LOL.) But once, some dude saw all my various interests and projects and said THAT was an attempted compensation for a void in my life. Wow! No matter what I do, it's proof that I'm messed up?
October 7, 2025 at 4:23 PM
Sometimes people say I do asexuality awareness to compensate for having an empty or rejection-filled life. (LOL.) But once, some dude saw all my various interests and projects and said THAT was an attempted compensation for a void in my life. Wow! No matter what I do, it's proof that I'm messed up?
OMG. I had a dude say the only reason men overestimate how much women talk in a group setting (i.e., they'll insist women dominated if they speak over 30%) is that "women are more significant to us and their voices are notable and precious."
Really?? Then why the hell don't they ever listen to us?
Really?? Then why the hell don't they ever listen to us?
September 14, 2025 at 4:31 PM
OMG. I had a dude say the only reason men overestimate how much women talk in a group setting (i.e., they'll insist women dominated if they speak over 30%) is that "women are more significant to us and their voices are notable and precious."
Really?? Then why the hell don't they ever listen to us?
Really?? Then why the hell don't they ever listen to us?
Something something "we can't screen for red flags, including mental illness or violent history, with regard to gun ownership! That's against the second amendment! I mean unless it's to get The Transes, who clearly have a mental illness! We can take it away from THEM if ONE trans person did a bad."
Trump DOJ is looking at ways to ban transgender Americans from owning guns, sources say
edition.cnn.com/2025...
#transgender #trans #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA
edition.cnn.com/2025...
#transgender #trans #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA
Trump DOJ is looking at ways to ban transgender Americans from owning guns, sources say | CNN Politics
Senior Justice Department officials are weighing proposals to limit transgender people’s right to possess firearms, according to two officials familiar with the internal discussions.
edition.cnn.com
September 5, 2025 at 5:14 PM
Something something "we can't screen for red flags, including mental illness or violent history, with regard to gun ownership! That's against the second amendment! I mean unless it's to get The Transes, who clearly have a mental illness! We can take it away from THEM if ONE trans person did a bad."
Editing an emotionally difficult chapter tonight. Protagonist has an argument with her grandmother (who also has high status in their community). Those are never fair.
September 3, 2025 at 2:22 AM
Editing an emotionally difficult chapter tonight. Protagonist has an argument with her grandmother (who also has high status in their community). Those are never fair.
Weird how dudes threaten me with future unhappiness if I don't get married and settle down with some guy.
Meanwhile I'm over here thinking "Only one of the two of us is unhappy with my situation."
What evidence suggests *I* should change (for a dude who's salivating for me to regret my choices)?
Meanwhile I'm over here thinking "Only one of the two of us is unhappy with my situation."
What evidence suggests *I* should change (for a dude who's salivating for me to regret my choices)?
August 22, 2025 at 9:50 PM
Weird how dudes threaten me with future unhappiness if I don't get married and settle down with some guy.
Meanwhile I'm over here thinking "Only one of the two of us is unhappy with my situation."
What evidence suggests *I* should change (for a dude who's salivating for me to regret my choices)?
Meanwhile I'm over here thinking "Only one of the two of us is unhappy with my situation."
What evidence suggests *I* should change (for a dude who's salivating for me to regret my choices)?
Right? They always act like they're delivering a devastating zinger but they're describing something really cool!
August 18, 2025 at 11:25 PM
Right? They always act like they're delivering a devastating zinger but they're describing something really cool!
Guy: Are you interested in a poly relationship with a couple? I'm looking for a sub
Me: No. Reading profiles will help you find people who want what you want.
Guy: You should change your profile from bisexual to straight then
OBVIOUSLY IF I DON'T WANT A POLY RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU I BECOME STRAIGHT
Me: No. Reading profiles will help you find people who want what you want.
Guy: You should change your profile from bisexual to straight then
OBVIOUSLY IF I DON'T WANT A POLY RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU I BECOME STRAIGHT
August 11, 2025 at 6:40 PM
Guy: Are you interested in a poly relationship with a couple? I'm looking for a sub
Me: No. Reading profiles will help you find people who want what you want.
Guy: You should change your profile from bisexual to straight then
OBVIOUSLY IF I DON'T WANT A POLY RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU I BECOME STRAIGHT
Me: No. Reading profiles will help you find people who want what you want.
Guy: You should change your profile from bisexual to straight then
OBVIOUSLY IF I DON'T WANT A POLY RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU I BECOME STRAIGHT
Every photo of me looks like it was taken by a giant. I am so freaking short.
July 28, 2025 at 6:34 PM
Every photo of me looks like it was taken by a giant. I am so freaking short.
As the Bert in most relationships, I have to say, our Ernies may make us pull our hair out, but we wouldn't give them up for the world.
July 20, 2025 at 9:01 PM
As the Bert in most relationships, I have to say, our Ernies may make us pull our hair out, but we wouldn't give them up for the world.
The solution to someone screaming for help next door isn't to soundproof the room.
July 17, 2025 at 4:38 PM
The solution to someone screaming for help next door isn't to soundproof the room.
I once saw this dude on the Former Bird App going hard on the "why don't women just make me a list?" angle. He was arguing it SO aggressively. Responding to woman after woman. Essentially saying "If it's something ONLY YOU care about, then YOU need to make me a DAMN LIST. Why not just accept that?"
July 16, 2025 at 1:14 AM
I once saw this dude on the Former Bird App going hard on the "why don't women just make me a list?" angle. He was arguing it SO aggressively. Responding to woman after woman. Essentially saying "If it's something ONLY YOU care about, then YOU need to make me a DAMN LIST. Why not just accept that?"
Aw, cuuute, I got my YouTooz Steven Universe Steven-n-Lion today.
July 1, 2025 at 8:49 PM
Aw, cuuute, I got my YouTooz Steven Universe Steven-n-Lion today.
Quit treating every space that women exist in as if it is a dating site. It really is that simple.
June 21, 2025 at 7:48 PM
Quit treating every space that women exist in as if it is a dating site. It really is that simple.
I can't believe my favorite show is coming back ;_;
Fun fact: At one time whoever edits my Wikipedia page altered it to say that I am a Steven Universe fan. (They weren't wrong, but it's funny that they found it significant enough that it should be part of my bio. In fairness, it IS that important.)
Fun fact: At one time whoever edits my Wikipedia page altered it to say that I am a Steven Universe fan. (They weren't wrong, but it's funny that they found it significant enough that it should be part of my bio. In fairness, it IS that important.)
June 11, 2025 at 6:47 PM
I can't believe my favorite show is coming back ;_;
Fun fact: At one time whoever edits my Wikipedia page altered it to say that I am a Steven Universe fan. (They weren't wrong, but it's funny that they found it significant enough that it should be part of my bio. In fairness, it IS that important.)
Fun fact: At one time whoever edits my Wikipedia page altered it to say that I am a Steven Universe fan. (They weren't wrong, but it's funny that they found it significant enough that it should be part of my bio. In fairness, it IS that important.)
Not answering a random dude who sent me a message without reading my profile and now I am existing as Schrödinger's Ugly Bitch
I was "the hottest woman on the internet" when he wrote his message! Now let's wait and see if I was simultaneously actually hideous the whole time.
I was "the hottest woman on the internet" when he wrote his message! Now let's wait and see if I was simultaneously actually hideous the whole time.
June 3, 2025 at 3:47 PM
Not answering a random dude who sent me a message without reading my profile and now I am existing as Schrödinger's Ugly Bitch
I was "the hottest woman on the internet" when he wrote his message! Now let's wait and see if I was simultaneously actually hideous the whole time.
I was "the hottest woman on the internet" when he wrote his message! Now let's wait and see if I was simultaneously actually hideous the whole time.
You know, even though straight culture has aggressive and abusive indoctrination, harassment and threats by parents toward kids who are even suspected of being gay, de-gaying camps that traumatize people, and constant casual representation in everyday life and media . . . somehow Pride is "too far."
June 2, 2025 at 4:24 PM
You know, even though straight culture has aggressive and abusive indoctrination, harassment and threats by parents toward kids who are even suspected of being gay, de-gaying camps that traumatize people, and constant casual representation in everyday life and media . . . somehow Pride is "too far."
What they say: "I just don't want the ell bee gee tee shoving it in my face. I just don't see why it's important."
What they mean: "I am not gay and don't want to be forced to be gay or have anyone gay interact with me and I find it horrifying that I have to share my world with The Gays."
What they mean: "I am not gay and don't want to be forced to be gay or have anyone gay interact with me and I find it horrifying that I have to share my world with The Gays."
June 2, 2025 at 4:19 PM
What they say: "I just don't want the ell bee gee tee shoving it in my face. I just don't see why it's important."
What they mean: "I am not gay and don't want to be forced to be gay or have anyone gay interact with me and I find it horrifying that I have to share my world with The Gays."
What they mean: "I am not gay and don't want to be forced to be gay or have anyone gay interact with me and I find it horrifying that I have to share my world with The Gays."
US Politician: [Implies being Christian is the only way to be moral and people are Not American if they aren't Christian]
Reasonable people: "Yeah you shouldn't use your platform to proselytize or shame"
Politician: "WELL apparently no one's allowed to be proudly Christian in this country anymore"
Reasonable people: "Yeah you shouldn't use your platform to proselytize or shame"
Politician: "WELL apparently no one's allowed to be proudly Christian in this country anymore"
June 1, 2025 at 10:13 PM
US Politician: [Implies being Christian is the only way to be moral and people are Not American if they aren't Christian]
Reasonable people: "Yeah you shouldn't use your platform to proselytize or shame"
Politician: "WELL apparently no one's allowed to be proudly Christian in this country anymore"
Reasonable people: "Yeah you shouldn't use your platform to proselytize or shame"
Politician: "WELL apparently no one's allowed to be proudly Christian in this country anymore"
Anti-trans rhetoric often goes like "We need to misgender trans people, use their dead names, assign them disorders/perversions, and harass them in restrooms without being labeled hateful/transphobic!" Seriously. Watch the way they pair their bigotry with "And my words should NEVER reflect on ME!"
May 31, 2025 at 10:42 PM
Anti-trans rhetoric often goes like "We need to misgender trans people, use their dead names, assign them disorders/perversions, and harass them in restrooms without being labeled hateful/transphobic!" Seriously. Watch the way they pair their bigotry with "And my words should NEVER reflect on ME!"
Me: [cracks knuckles] Okay, this book needs to lose like HALF its words. Editing time.
Me: [ten minutes later] One of the most important places in the book never even got a description! [type type type]
Me: [ten minutes later] One of the most important places in the book never even got a description! [type type type]
May 27, 2025 at 5:19 AM
Me: [cracks knuckles] Okay, this book needs to lose like HALF its words. Editing time.
Me: [ten minutes later] One of the most important places in the book never even got a description! [type type type]
Me: [ten minutes later] One of the most important places in the book never even got a description! [type type type]