I, Bex 🏳️⚧️ 🏳️🌈
@i-bex-1996.bsky.social
🏳️⚧️ 🏳️🌈 she/they. Writer and activist. Anti-AI.
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Men keep accusing me of being a "troll" just for calling out their bullshit. And yet, it's funny how the guys who accuse me of being a troll are never able to articulate what they actually disagree with me about.
Reminder that literally the only reason any man struggles at dating is because he's a piece of shit. If you're lonely, shut the fuck up and understand that the reason is that you suck as a human being.
December 8, 2025 at 6:20 PM
Reminder that literally the only reason any man struggles at dating is because he's a piece of shit. If you're lonely, shut the fuck up and understand that the reason is that you suck as a human being.
November 19, 2025 at 9:53 PM
This is exactly what I've been saying. If a man is afraid of being judged by other people, this should be taken as a sign that he is an abuser until proven otherwise.
Or that 33% of men say they’re afraid of being accused of rape Becuase of me too.
Meanwhile no study has ever found that men have any fear of being falsely accused of grand theft auto.
But hey yeah ignore facts. Focus on a weird fringe theory
Meanwhile no study has ever found that men have any fear of being falsely accused of grand theft auto.
But hey yeah ignore facts. Focus on a weird fringe theory
November 3, 2025 at 2:51 AM
This is exactly what I've been saying. If a man is afraid of being judged by other people, this should be taken as a sign that he is an abuser until proven otherwise.
Is it possible his neck just did that randomly and we're all overreacting to what was actually just a freak accident?
September 13, 2025 at 9:08 PM
Is it possible his neck just did that randomly and we're all overreacting to what was actually just a freak accident?
Apparently it's now "reactionary" to hold men accountable.
Seriously, the mental gymnastics people will do just to defend incels...
Seriously, the mental gymnastics people will do just to defend incels...
This is literally just redpill sexology but with a veneer of lib values, sorry I have to be the one to tell you this but you’re just another reactionary
So holding men accountable is suddenly a conservative position?
There's a reason we use words like "virgin" and "incel" as an insult for men, and why we correctly deduce that any guy who can't get laid is a piece of shit.
There's a reason we use words like "virgin" and "incel" as an insult for men, and why we correctly deduce that any guy who can't get laid is a piece of shit.
August 11, 2025 at 12:28 AM
Apparently it's now "reactionary" to hold men accountable.
Seriously, the mental gymnastics people will do just to defend incels...
Seriously, the mental gymnastics people will do just to defend incels...
Lol. Lmao, even.
Looks like natural selection is doing its job.
Looks like natural selection is doing its job.
Wait, can this actually be real? Half of US men under 30 are virgins? We need to stop dating apps and bring back drinking in bars.
August 11, 2025 at 12:00 AM
Lol. Lmao, even.
Looks like natural selection is doing its job.
Looks like natural selection is doing its job.
I always read "imho" as "I'm ho". It's a lot more sex-positive and more interesting than the actual meaning, imho.
August 9, 2025 at 10:01 PM
I always read "imho" as "I'm ho". It's a lot more sex-positive and more interesting than the actual meaning, imho.
Reposted because she blocked me like the coward she is.
AI is evil, and if you use it, you are evil.
Funny how whenever someone like Parker Molloy praises AI, it suddenly makes everyone else in the thread feel free to admit they've been using it too. It's a real "mask-off" moment.
AI is evil, and if you use it, you are evil.
Funny how whenever someone like Parker Molloy praises AI, it suddenly makes everyone else in the thread feel free to admit they've been using it too. It's a real "mask-off" moment.
August 6, 2025 at 10:02 PM
Reposted because she blocked me like the coward she is.
AI is evil, and if you use it, you are evil.
Funny how whenever someone like Parker Molloy praises AI, it suddenly makes everyone else in the thread feel free to admit they've been using it too. It's a real "mask-off" moment.
AI is evil, and if you use it, you are evil.
Funny how whenever someone like Parker Molloy praises AI, it suddenly makes everyone else in the thread feel free to admit they've been using it too. It's a real "mask-off" moment.
AI is evil, and if you use it, you are evil.
Funny how whenever someone like Parker Molloy praises AI, it suddenly makes everyone else in the thread feel free to admit they've been using it too. It's a real "mask-off" moment.
Funny how whenever someone like Parker Molloy praises AI, it suddenly makes everyone else in the thread feel free to admit they've been using it too. It's a real "mask-off" moment.
August 6, 2025 at 8:53 PM
AI is evil, and if you use it, you are evil.
Funny how whenever someone like Parker Molloy praises AI, it suddenly makes everyone else in the thread feel free to admit they've been using it too. It's a real "mask-off" moment.
Funny how whenever someone like Parker Molloy praises AI, it suddenly makes everyone else in the thread feel free to admit they've been using it too. It's a real "mask-off" moment.
The person I was replying to blocked me for calling out incels on their bullshit. Reposting for posterity.
Nope. There are plenty of socially awkward, non-conventionally attractive, introverted guys who have successful love lives. The only reason any guy is lonely is because he sucks.
August 3, 2025 at 7:48 PM
The person I was replying to blocked me for calling out incels on their bullshit. Reposting for posterity.
Men keep accusing me of being a "troll" just for calling out their bullshit. And yet, it's funny how the guys who accuse me of being a troll are never able to articulate what they actually disagree with me about.
August 2, 2025 at 4:34 AM
Men keep accusing me of being a "troll" just for calling out their bullshit. And yet, it's funny how the guys who accuse me of being a troll are never able to articulate what they actually disagree with me about.
Since apparently it needs to be repeated:
Exactly. Getting laid is easy for men. The only reason any man might be struggling with it is because he is a deeply, irredeemably shitty human being.
August 2, 2025 at 1:06 AM
Since apparently it needs to be repeated:
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Honestly, in my book, anyone who has ever used an LLM, even out of morbid curiosity, is permanently tainted as a human being and not worth engaging with.
July 31, 2025 at 11:48 PM
Honestly, in my book, anyone who has ever used an LLM, even out of morbid curiosity, is permanently tainted as a human being and not worth engaging with.
A thread:
If a cis man has a small penis, that is a moral failing for which he deserves to be ridiculed and ostracized.
Women, queer folks, etc. all have to deal with societal expectations that they spend money to alter themselves to please society. It's ridiculous not to expect the same from cis men.
Women, queer folks, etc. all have to deal with societal expectations that they spend money to alter themselves to please society. It's ridiculous not to expect the same from cis men.
July 31, 2025 at 5:57 PM
A thread:
Say it louder for the people in the back: if you're a man who struggles with relationships or friendships, it is because you are a shitty person and people are correctly choosing to avoid you. The truth hurts.
July 27, 2025 at 9:27 PM
Say it louder for the people in the back: if you're a man who struggles with relationships or friendships, it is because you are a shitty person and people are correctly choosing to avoid you. The truth hurts.
100%. When a man expresses left/progressive positions, or expresses his emotions, or "goes to therapy", it's just a matter of time until he weaponizes that against you.
''leftist'' males are THE WORST, especially ''feminist'' ones. They're dishonest, and they don't want to change. (yes, I can give MULTIPLE personal examples)
June 24, 2025 at 4:37 AM
100%. When a man expresses left/progressive positions, or expresses his emotions, or "goes to therapy", it's just a matter of time until he weaponizes that against you.
Just to repeat it louder for the cishet men in the back: Misandry isn't real. Not systemically, and not on an individual level. If you've ever experienced difficulties with how people treat you as man, shut up, no you haven't.
*in case someone gets confused, let me be clear: transmisandry isn't fake because trans men "don't face oppression". that'd be absurd to allege. no, it's because "misandry" is fake, and oppression on the basis of transmasculinity is NOTABLY distinct from alleged oppression on a basis of cis manhood
June 3, 2025 at 12:48 AM
Just to repeat it louder for the cishet men in the back: Misandry isn't real. Not systemically, and not on an individual level. If you've ever experienced difficulties with how people treat you as man, shut up, no you haven't.
Correct. Any bro complaining about not having enough, whether he's whining about not being able to afford rent or groceries, or not having a government-issued Lambo, is just revealing that the market has correctly identified him as worthless. Better luck in the next life, I guess?
May 26, 2025 at 7:25 PM
Correct. Any bro complaining about not having enough, whether he's whining about not being able to afford rent or groceries, or not having a government-issued Lambo, is just revealing that the market has correctly identified him as worthless. Better luck in the next life, I guess?
In short: If you're a man and your therapist is telling you to be gentler with yourself, but the voice in your head tells you you are deeply awful and don't deserve to be gentle with yourself? Do society a favour and err on the side of trusting the voice.
Telling men to "get therapy" is well-intentioned but not really useful under capitalism. Neoliberal paradigms of therapy treat the client as a customer and are predisposed to telling men that their emotions are valid and that they deserve happiness, even when they aren't and they don't.
May 8, 2025 at 3:59 PM
In short: If you're a man and your therapist is telling you to be gentler with yourself, but the voice in your head tells you you are deeply awful and don't deserve to be gentle with yourself? Do society a favour and err on the side of trusting the voice.
Telling men to "get therapy" is well-intentioned but not really useful under capitalism. Neoliberal paradigms of therapy treat the client as a customer and are predisposed to telling men that their emotions are valid and that they deserve happiness, even when they aren't and they don't.
May 8, 2025 at 3:57 PM
Telling men to "get therapy" is well-intentioned but not really useful under capitalism. Neoliberal paradigms of therapy treat the client as a customer and are predisposed to telling men that their emotions are valid and that they deserve happiness, even when they aren't and they don't.
Wow, that's a lot of words to say "I'm entitled to women's affection!"
If you're a man and experiencing loneliness, it's because the people around you have correctly noticed that you are a bad person and they are rightly avoiding you. Maybe try not being the worst?
If you're a man and experiencing loneliness, it's because the people around you have correctly noticed that you are a bad person and they are rightly avoiding you. Maybe try not being the worst?
This and
May 8, 2025 at 8:37 AM
Wow, that's a lot of words to say "I'm entitled to women's affection!"
If you're a man and experiencing loneliness, it's because the people around you have correctly noticed that you are a bad person and they are rightly avoiding you. Maybe try not being the worst?
If you're a man and experiencing loneliness, it's because the people around you have correctly noticed that you are a bad person and they are rightly avoiding you. Maybe try not being the worst?
This is why my bullshit detectors go up whenever a man claims to be "neurodivergent". If you're a man who's ever told someone that you're neurodivergent or autistic, you're not being slick -- everyone knows you're just trying to get away with being creepy and abusive, and that is why they avoid you.
there is an enormous difference between "I have a hard time picking up social cues" and "I am just deliberately being a straight up asshole" and it does an enormous disservice to the former group when people in the latter group pretend that's their problem
At a certain point you have to ask yourself if being the edgy, brave, no bullshit type worth missing a dear friend’s wedding because you cannot be trusted to not make strangers wildly uncomfortable
May 7, 2025 at 11:29 PM
This is why my bullshit detectors go up whenever a man claims to be "neurodivergent". If you're a man who's ever told someone that you're neurodivergent or autistic, you're not being slick -- everyone knows you're just trying to get away with being creepy and abusive, and that is why they avoid you.
It's hilarious when men try to point to the "heightened male suicide rate" as an example to demonstrate that we should care about male mental health.
Even if it were true, what's wrong with the garbage taking itself out?
Even if it were true, what's wrong with the garbage taking itself out?
May 6, 2025 at 6:56 PM
It's hilarious when men try to point to the "heightened male suicide rate" as an example to demonstrate that we should care about male mental health.
Even if it were true, what's wrong with the garbage taking itself out?
Even if it were true, what's wrong with the garbage taking itself out?
This whole "short king" thing is so cringey and needs to end. Apparently society now has to bend the knee (to so speak) to give insecure men the delusion of being valued.
May 6, 2025 at 6:55 PM
This whole "short king" thing is so cringey and needs to end. Apparently society now has to bend the knee (to so speak) to give insecure men the delusion of being valued.