Moss
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Helping you build sustainable relationships within and without
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I do all my best thinking/creating in my home. I need my space. I need my little cave.
Going outside is good for my overall mental health, but, creatively, being out there makes my brain feel like:
Going outside is good for my overall mental health, but, creatively, being out there makes my brain feel like:
January 23, 2026 at 6:59 AM
I do all my best thinking/creating in my home. I need my space. I need my little cave.
Going outside is good for my overall mental health, but, creatively, being out there makes my brain feel like:
Going outside is good for my overall mental health, but, creatively, being out there makes my brain feel like:
At some point you do need to stop collecting data and make some decisions even if you don't feel like you have ALL the data.
You have enough
New post up on substonk!
You have enough
New post up on substonk!
January 18, 2026 at 12:30 AM
At some point you do need to stop collecting data and make some decisions even if you don't feel like you have ALL the data.
You have enough
New post up on substonk!
You have enough
New post up on substonk!
Manipulating my friends by invoking little guy privilege whenever I want something
January 12, 2026 at 7:29 PM
Manipulating my friends by invoking little guy privilege whenever I want something
Leaving and cutting someone out entirely after a breakup isn't always possible, so what does it look like to de-escalate a personal relationship instead?
Let's talk about it. I'll go first, in my new post on substonk. You know where to find 🔗 ❤️🩹
Let's talk about it. I'll go first, in my new post on substonk. You know where to find 🔗 ❤️🩹
January 11, 2026 at 8:59 AM
Leaving and cutting someone out entirely after a breakup isn't always possible, so what does it look like to de-escalate a personal relationship instead?
Let's talk about it. I'll go first, in my new post on substonk. You know where to find 🔗 ❤️🩹
Let's talk about it. I'll go first, in my new post on substonk. You know where to find 🔗 ❤️🩹
🫶🏻 New blog post just dropped 🫶🏻
The Ballad of Don't Do Invisible Labor in Your Relationships is live on substonk!
👁👄👁
#mentalhealth #invisiblelabor #relationships
The Ballad of Don't Do Invisible Labor in Your Relationships is live on substonk!
👁👄👁
#mentalhealth #invisiblelabor #relationships
December 30, 2025 at 7:54 AM
🫶🏻 New blog post just dropped 🫶🏻
The Ballad of Don't Do Invisible Labor in Your Relationships is live on substonk!
👁👄👁
#mentalhealth #invisiblelabor #relationships
The Ballad of Don't Do Invisible Labor in Your Relationships is live on substonk!
👁👄👁
#mentalhealth #invisiblelabor #relationships
Me to my long distance besties on a random Tuesday:
December 4, 2025 at 1:56 AM
Me to my long distance besties on a random Tuesday:
First post on new platform (sub stack) is UP
Happy 1am to those who celebrate ❤️
The link is exactly where you'd think it is
It took me a full week to come back to this draft and polish it up, but we got there. Honestly, I think it's forgive-able considering the topic that brought us here.
Happy 1am to those who celebrate ❤️
The link is exactly where you'd think it is
It took me a full week to come back to this draft and polish it up, but we got there. Honestly, I think it's forgive-able considering the topic that brought us here.
November 28, 2025 at 9:33 AM
First post on new platform (sub stack) is UP
Happy 1am to those who celebrate ❤️
The link is exactly where you'd think it is
It took me a full week to come back to this draft and polish it up, but we got there. Honestly, I think it's forgive-able considering the topic that brought us here.
Happy 1am to those who celebrate ❤️
The link is exactly where you'd think it is
It took me a full week to come back to this draft and polish it up, but we got there. Honestly, I think it's forgive-able considering the topic that brought us here.
Implementing a "wait and see" strategy with some of the personal relationships I feel like I'm carrying alone. I want to see if they reach for me or if the friendship really only existed because I kept reaching for them.
November 24, 2025 at 10:33 PM
Implementing a "wait and see" strategy with some of the personal relationships I feel like I'm carrying alone. I want to see if they reach for me or if the friendship really only existed because I kept reaching for them.
Persimmons both look and taste like they have warming winter spices in them???
November 18, 2025 at 8:23 PM
Persimmons both look and taste like they have warming winter spices in them???
Are you under the impression that I allow everyone to treat me this way, or are you asking me to make an exception for you?
November 7, 2025 at 1:27 AM
Are you under the impression that I allow everyone to treat me this way, or are you asking me to make an exception for you?
How it feels to love an avoidant attacher
September 24, 2025 at 3:55 PM
How it feels to love an avoidant attacher
Let's get pickled with mama
September 9, 2025 at 5:20 AM
Let's get pickled with mama
The wait is over. The time is now. You are ready. Right now.
You can choose who you want to be and how you will show up in every moment. You are not bound by your past choices or where you grew up.
Today belongs to you ❤️
You can choose who you want to be and how you will show up in every moment. You are not bound by your past choices or where you grew up.
Today belongs to you ❤️
August 31, 2025 at 11:46 PM
The wait is over. The time is now. You are ready. Right now.
You can choose who you want to be and how you will show up in every moment. You are not bound by your past choices or where you grew up.
Today belongs to you ❤️
You can choose who you want to be and how you will show up in every moment. You are not bound by your past choices or where you grew up.
Today belongs to you ❤️
Excerpts from this week's blog post
August 16, 2025 at 4:58 AM
Excerpts from this week's blog post
Nobody:
Literally Nobody:
Me when I receive a good gift:
Literally Nobody:
Me when I receive a good gift:
February 5, 2025 at 6:52 PM
Nobody:
Literally Nobody:
Me when I receive a good gift:
Literally Nobody:
Me when I receive a good gift:
