Oh, shit. Listen, entomologists. I did a starter pack. I'm down with setae, tarsal formulas, and all that glory, but following me back you're only going to get a mess and maybe some bitterness about how cheap PCR, while it is phenomenal for understanding, sent me into feels I never recovered from.
Oh, shit. Listen, entomologists. I did a starter pack. I'm down with setae, tarsal formulas, and all that glory, but following me back you're only going to get a mess and maybe some bitterness about how cheap PCR, while it is phenomenal for understanding, sent me into feels I never recovered from.
As an autistic parent of an autistic child, 95% of the "support" I've been able to get for my daughter are resources and spaces where she has to do more work. This Tylenol shit has me molting into my Battle Autistic Instar.
September 25, 2025 at 8:56 PM
As an autistic parent of an autistic child, 95% of the "support" I've been able to get for my daughter are resources and spaces where she has to do more work. This Tylenol shit has me molting into my Battle Autistic Instar.
Daughter: Aren't you worried that setting your ringtone to cicadas now in summer means you'll ignore calls? Me: No way! We don't get the ringtone species here where we live. It's a very distinctive sound!
August 7, 2025 at 3:20 PM
Daughter: Aren't you worried that setting your ringtone to cicadas now in summer means you'll ignore calls? Me: No way! We don't get the ringtone species here where we live. It's a very distinctive sound!
I really don't like the feeling of having a thing that i really like that is named with a word that I don't like the sound of. And vice versa. This happens to me alot with common names of insects in English. For example, moths. Love 'em. But that word "moth" sounds terrible and feels yucky to say.
July 29, 2025 at 4:03 AM
I really don't like the feeling of having a thing that i really like that is named with a word that I don't like the sound of. And vice versa. This happens to me alot with common names of insects in English. For example, moths. Love 'em. But that word "moth" sounds terrible and feels yucky to say.
Went to a support group for dads with autistic kids. Only autistic dad in group. It wasn't bad, per se, and I could hear the hurt and struggle and everything, but I'm not sure it's the space for me.
July 24, 2025 at 6:24 PM
Went to a support group for dads with autistic kids. Only autistic dad in group. It wasn't bad, per se, and I could hear the hurt and struggle and everything, but I'm not sure it's the space for me.
Caught up on a bunch of scythe guy discourse. He's great and all but his journey and yours are different. There's no one neat trick to being like him. You've got your hands full figuring out who you are and what being the best version of you looks like.
July 22, 2025 at 8:43 PM
Caught up on a bunch of scythe guy discourse. He's great and all but his journey and yours are different. There's no one neat trick to being like him. You've got your hands full figuring out who you are and what being the best version of you looks like.
Item #1235 of why I'm an apostate. In religion class in a conservative Christian high school the teacher declared that War Pigs glorifies the devil in agreement with the Hell's Bells movie he had us watch.
July 22, 2025 at 8:25 PM
Item #1235 of why I'm an apostate. In religion class in a conservative Christian high school the teacher declared that War Pigs glorifies the devil in agreement with the Hell's Bells movie he had us watch.
Autistic daughter and I are watching Parasyte: The Maxim. There's an episode where the protagonist gets scolded for emotional outburst, scolded for flat facial expressions, and experiences sound sensitivity. I joked to my daughter: "Congrats, Shinichi! Welcome to autism!" She had a good laugh.
July 18, 2025 at 7:28 PM
Autistic daughter and I are watching Parasyte: The Maxim. There's an episode where the protagonist gets scolded for emotional outburst, scolded for flat facial expressions, and experiences sound sensitivity. I joked to my daughter: "Congrats, Shinichi! Welcome to autism!" She had a good laugh.
My head is on a swivel when I'm out walking my dog because she is dog reactive and I don't want a bad encounter. My dog walking nemesis, without her dogs this time thankfully, said "hey!" from behind me. I turned and saw her and she waved at me so I waved back. Then I walked away.
July 17, 2025 at 5:23 AM
My head is on a swivel when I'm out walking my dog because she is dog reactive and I don't want a bad encounter. My dog walking nemesis, without her dogs this time thankfully, said "hey!" from behind me. I turned and saw her and she waved at me so I waved back. Then I walked away.
I'm GenX. I owned a house for 19 years when I was married, purchased on my single income. House prices have skyrocketed since then, much more than my wage increases, and I'll likely never be able to afford a home again.
July 17, 2025 at 3:07 AM
I'm GenX. I owned a house for 19 years when I was married, purchased on my single income. House prices have skyrocketed since then, much more than my wage increases, and I'll likely never be able to afford a home again.
As part of my experience as an autistic person, my factual memory is really good but my episodic memory is often trash. Being late ID'd....the number of times in my life I've been accused of not caring about someone because I don't remember a shared experience is depressing.
July 16, 2025 at 3:49 PM
As part of my experience as an autistic person, my factual memory is really good but my episodic memory is often trash. Being late ID'd....the number of times in my life I've been accused of not caring about someone because I don't remember a shared experience is depressing.
I think it's a Mordellid. I remembered the family name started with an M. But I started my search to jog my memory on a whim with "what beetle has a pointy butt?" Google AI said earwig. Google Lens said this image was a cockroach. Sigh.
July 14, 2025 at 3:10 AM
I think it's a Mordellid. I remembered the family name started with an M. But I started my search to jog my memory on a whim with "what beetle has a pointy butt?" Google AI said earwig. Google Lens said this image was a cockroach. Sigh.
I'm not sure if this sentiment will stick, but at the moment I feel pretty ok as an outer planet; part of a greater whole but mostly doing its own thing, occasionally getting attention in significant alignments.
July 13, 2025 at 9:09 PM
I'm not sure if this sentiment will stick, but at the moment I feel pretty ok as an outer planet; part of a greater whole but mostly doing its own thing, occasionally getting attention in significant alignments.
I don't know how it will happen, but we USians are going to have to find ways that help and support each other that doesn't have to pass through billionaires.
July 11, 2025 at 3:00 PM
I don't know how it will happen, but we USians are going to have to find ways that help and support each other that doesn't have to pass through billionaires.
I need some mulberry leaves and some method to dry them, a mulberry branch. They are RIGHT THERE every time I walk my dog. But the method of acquisition hasn't arrived. "Just take them!" you might say. No. There's a puzzle here I'm absolutely missing. Those who know, know.
July 9, 2025 at 3:52 AM
I need some mulberry leaves and some method to dry them, a mulberry branch. They are RIGHT THERE every time I walk my dog. But the method of acquisition hasn't arrived. "Just take them!" you might say. No. There's a puzzle here I'm absolutely missing. Those who know, know.