Egan
@eganspotop.bsky.social
Autistic
Non binary
Spot op
Horror fan
Casual gamer
Non binary
Spot op
Horror fan
Casual gamer
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Autistic life is why oh why do people assume I can't do anything for myself just because I am autistic.
Yes I'm fortunate I can do some things myself but seriously this attitude needs to stop.
Yes I'm fortunate I can do some things myself but seriously this attitude needs to stop.
January 25, 2026 at 10:00 PM
Autistic life is why oh why do people assume I can't do anything for myself just because I am autistic.
Yes I'm fortunate I can do some things myself but seriously this attitude needs to stop.
Yes I'm fortunate I can do some things myself but seriously this attitude needs to stop.
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Heated Rivalry but it’s Jurassic Park
January 21, 2026 at 8:12 AM
Heated Rivalry but it’s Jurassic Park
Natasha calls Clint "My idiot" as a pet name and he likes it.
Clint will do sweet things for Natasha with the best of intentions but will often mess up on them. She appreciates the considerate thoughts behind them.
Clint will do sweet things for Natasha with the best of intentions but will often mess up on them. She appreciates the considerate thoughts behind them.
January 2, 2026 at 11:24 AM
Natasha calls Clint "My idiot" as a pet name and he likes it.
Clint will do sweet things for Natasha with the best of intentions but will often mess up on them. She appreciates the considerate thoughts behind them.
Clint will do sweet things for Natasha with the best of intentions but will often mess up on them. She appreciates the considerate thoughts behind them.
Clintasha forever
🏹🎯💜🦻🏻/🕷️❤️🖤🩰
🏹🎯💜🦻🏻/🕷️❤️🖤🩰
December 27, 2025 at 5:16 AM
Clintasha forever
🏹🎯💜🦻🏻/🕷️❤️🖤🩰
🏹🎯💜🦻🏻/🕷️❤️🖤🩰
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PSA 📢
Emotional dysregulation (meltdowns, shutdowns, irritability, outbursts, depression, anxiety...) is NOT a behavior issue.
And if you treat it like one, instead of solving the problem (whatever is actually causing the behavior), you'll end up making it a LOT worse.
Emotional dysregulation (meltdowns, shutdowns, irritability, outbursts, depression, anxiety...) is NOT a behavior issue.
And if you treat it like one, instead of solving the problem (whatever is actually causing the behavior), you'll end up making it a LOT worse.
November 29, 2025 at 1:14 AM
PSA 📢
Emotional dysregulation (meltdowns, shutdowns, irritability, outbursts, depression, anxiety...) is NOT a behavior issue.
And if you treat it like one, instead of solving the problem (whatever is actually causing the behavior), you'll end up making it a LOT worse.
Emotional dysregulation (meltdowns, shutdowns, irritability, outbursts, depression, anxiety...) is NOT a behavior issue.
And if you treat it like one, instead of solving the problem (whatever is actually causing the behavior), you'll end up making it a LOT worse.
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On December 4, 2007, in the Usenet group “Friends of the Friendless,” someone wrote:
“Happy Friendsgiving Y’all!”
And that is the first recorded use of ‘Friendsgiving’ in print.
“Happy Friendsgiving Y’all!”
And that is the first recorded use of ‘Friendsgiving’ in print.
November 25, 2025 at 7:36 PM
On December 4, 2007, in the Usenet group “Friends of the Friendless,” someone wrote:
“Happy Friendsgiving Y’all!”
And that is the first recorded use of ‘Friendsgiving’ in print.
“Happy Friendsgiving Y’all!”
And that is the first recorded use of ‘Friendsgiving’ in print.
Clint Barton playlist:
Would you come home (Tyler Blackburn)
Simple Man (Jason Mann, Jensen Ackles)
Lucky Man (Jeremy Renner)
House of the Rising Sun (Jeremy Renner)
Fair (The Amazing Devil)
Fallen Angel (Three Days Grace)
Enemies (Shinedown)
Natural (Imagine Dragons)
{Continues in comments}
Would you come home (Tyler Blackburn)
Simple Man (Jason Mann, Jensen Ackles)
Lucky Man (Jeremy Renner)
House of the Rising Sun (Jeremy Renner)
Fair (The Amazing Devil)
Fallen Angel (Three Days Grace)
Enemies (Shinedown)
Natural (Imagine Dragons)
{Continues in comments}
November 26, 2025 at 9:25 PM
Clint Barton playlist:
Would you come home (Tyler Blackburn)
Simple Man (Jason Mann, Jensen Ackles)
Lucky Man (Jeremy Renner)
House of the Rising Sun (Jeremy Renner)
Fair (The Amazing Devil)
Fallen Angel (Three Days Grace)
Enemies (Shinedown)
Natural (Imagine Dragons)
{Continues in comments}
Would you come home (Tyler Blackburn)
Simple Man (Jason Mann, Jensen Ackles)
Lucky Man (Jeremy Renner)
House of the Rising Sun (Jeremy Renner)
Fair (The Amazing Devil)
Fallen Angel (Three Days Grace)
Enemies (Shinedown)
Natural (Imagine Dragons)
{Continues in comments}
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Autistics are told to be grateful.
Grateful for crumbs.
Grateful to be tolerated.
Grateful just to exist quietly.
But you don’t owe gratitude for survival.
You owe yourself rest, dignity, and truth.
Gratitude without justice is gaslighting.
Grateful for crumbs.
Grateful to be tolerated.
Grateful just to exist quietly.
But you don’t owe gratitude for survival.
You owe yourself rest, dignity, and truth.
Gratitude without justice is gaslighting.
October 23, 2025 at 3:23 PM
Autistics are told to be grateful.
Grateful for crumbs.
Grateful to be tolerated.
Grateful just to exist quietly.
But you don’t owe gratitude for survival.
You owe yourself rest, dignity, and truth.
Gratitude without justice is gaslighting.
Grateful for crumbs.
Grateful to be tolerated.
Grateful just to exist quietly.
But you don’t owe gratitude for survival.
You owe yourself rest, dignity, and truth.
Gratitude without justice is gaslighting.
Horror movies I've seen so far this month:
The Evil Dead
The Thing
Dracula
Lake Mungo
Annihilation
Nightbreed (The Director's Cut)
(All first time watches)
The Evil Dead
The Thing
Dracula
Lake Mungo
Annihilation
Nightbreed (The Director's Cut)
(All first time watches)
October 22, 2025 at 5:45 AM
Horror movies I've seen so far this month:
The Evil Dead
The Thing
Dracula
Lake Mungo
Annihilation
Nightbreed (The Director's Cut)
(All first time watches)
The Evil Dead
The Thing
Dracula
Lake Mungo
Annihilation
Nightbreed (The Director's Cut)
(All first time watches)
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There is a tendency to believe that we as autistics don’t need friends.
It’s not true.
We don’t need loads of them, we don’t need them to be next to us, but we need them.
We don’t have the luxury of being “out there” all the time.
Value the relationships you have, here.
It’s not true.
We don’t need loads of them, we don’t need them to be next to us, but we need them.
We don’t have the luxury of being “out there” all the time.
Value the relationships you have, here.
September 28, 2025 at 10:08 AM
There is a tendency to believe that we as autistics don’t need friends.
It’s not true.
We don’t need loads of them, we don’t need them to be next to us, but we need them.
We don’t have the luxury of being “out there” all the time.
Value the relationships you have, here.
It’s not true.
We don’t need loads of them, we don’t need them to be next to us, but we need them.
We don’t have the luxury of being “out there” all the time.
Value the relationships you have, here.
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September 28, 2025 at 2:18 PM
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Autistic humans aren’t broken.
But we live in a world that treats us like we are.
And the result is systemic harm that gets blamed on us instead of the systems.
Thread 🧵
But we live in a world that treats us like we are.
And the result is systemic harm that gets blamed on us instead of the systems.
Thread 🧵
September 28, 2025 at 3:54 PM
Autistic humans aren’t broken.
But we live in a world that treats us like we are.
And the result is systemic harm that gets blamed on us instead of the systems.
Thread 🧵
But we live in a world that treats us like we are.
And the result is systemic harm that gets blamed on us instead of the systems.
Thread 🧵
Going to watch these after.
September 22, 2025 at 1:53 AM
Going to watch these after.
Not sure what to make of this yet after one episode but I like it 👍🏻
September 22, 2025 at 1:51 AM
Not sure what to make of this yet after one episode but I like it 👍🏻
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The more we need help, the quieter we get.
We fall silent when we most need support.
Because asking feels dangerous.
Because masking taught us to minimize.
It’s a brutal cycle: the greater the need, the less we’re heard.
And it breaks us.
Let’s stop the cycle.
We fall silent when we most need support.
Because asking feels dangerous.
Because masking taught us to minimize.
It’s a brutal cycle: the greater the need, the less we’re heard.
And it breaks us.
Let’s stop the cycle.
September 20, 2025 at 10:12 PM
The more we need help, the quieter we get.
We fall silent when we most need support.
Because asking feels dangerous.
Because masking taught us to minimize.
It’s a brutal cycle: the greater the need, the less we’re heard.
And it breaks us.
Let’s stop the cycle.
We fall silent when we most need support.
Because asking feels dangerous.
Because masking taught us to minimize.
It’s a brutal cycle: the greater the need, the less we’re heard.
And it breaks us.
Let’s stop the cycle.