Joel 🌀∞
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Joel 🌀∞
@didmentor.eu
After navigating life with DID (dissociative identity disorder) for half a century myself, I now actively support others dealing with trauma-based dissociative disorders.

I provide special (safe!) support for OEA/RAMCOA victims.

See https://didmentor.eu/
This is how my middle alter Julia (on the right) and her 'sister' (a similarly aged alter of my wife, inspired by a young Viking character) liked to see themselves.

For a little visual story about my alters, see didmentor.eu/joel/#visual...

#DID #OSDD #didsystem #alters #plural #trauma
November 24, 2025 at 10:41 AM
This picture shows the strange, distorted view my animal alter Beast (cat) has of my wife.

For a little visual story about my alters, see didmentor.eu/joel/#visual...

#DID #OSDD #didsystem #alters #plural #trauma
November 21, 2025 at 1:35 PM
Regretfully, I felt the need to increase my rates somewhat (you know, inflation and stuff)…

To make up for this and make it easy to get started with me, introduction/assessment *and* the first hour of (online!) support are free now - without any obligations.

#DID #OSDD #trauma #therapy #didsystem
September 30, 2025 at 11:38 AM
This is how I perceived my inner world after final fusion: a tiny close-knit family consisting of the former fronting alters Reinoud, Julia, and Beast (the cat, always close to Julia). Their separate thoughts and feelings were still recognizable, but they were present within a single identity - me…
May 14, 2025 at 1:44 PM
Another day of hard work 😎, this time including a walk to the river flowing around the village here, in beautiful Galicia, Spain
May 7, 2025 at 5:48 PM
It was hard work today, discovering a nice route to walk with clients for the resilience coaching we offer now 😂

This is in Galicia, Spain, right from our front door 😎
April 23, 2025 at 3:27 PM
The news makes me doubt mankind sometimes… but then comments like this make up for it 😁
April 22, 2025 at 3:52 PM
Project PLUREAL: the Reality of Plurality

Are you navigating life with OSDD/DID and wish for more specialized support than therapy has been able to offer? Preferably at no cost to you? Then consider the following - you won't even need insurance for this:

didmentor.eu/plureal/

#DID #OSDD #plural
April 20, 2025 at 4:45 PM
This made me cry. It's exactly the kind of encouragement I needed as a child, but instead I was constantly shamed - and worse, way way worse…

Lots of love for that wonderful coach dad from my Julia side 💜

#parenting #childhood #trauma #CPTSD
April 11, 2025 at 7:12 AM
Yes, I'm an older guy, but sometimes I just feel like this, OK? For real. Like when I'm triggered. Even though I'm supposedly healed. The memories are all still there, and they hurt.

Boy, was I triggered yesterday. Twice.

Take care, all of you.

#did #didsystem #osdd #plural #trauma #cptsd
April 7, 2025 at 9:45 PM
Bonded pairs of cats can be so wonderful 💜

Sometimes cats can give you the love you really need... I sure needed it as a child. Forever grateful.

(Another one in a series of posts appreciating loving cats. Picture not mine, feel free to claim)

#cats #love #caturday
April 5, 2025 at 12:24 PM
How about this? 🧘🏼‍♂️

#did #osdd #plural #trauma
April 4, 2025 at 5:34 PM
Too true 😂
April 1, 2025 at 4:29 PM
… In situations where Julia would seem to become overly trusting, this EP would warn for this by starting to scream in the background, and frighten Julia that way. This dynamic between Julia and Reinoud's EP is the closest to a conflict between any of my previous alters that I'm aware of."
April 1, 2025 at 1:05 PM
My inner world nowadays: a tiny close-knit family consisting of the former fronting #alters Reinoud, Julia, and Beast (the cat, always close to Julia). Their thoughts and feelings are still recognizable, but they are simultaneously present now within a single #fused identity - me. #did #osdd #plural
April 1, 2025 at 10:33 AM
Sometimes a cat can give you the love you really need... I sure needed it as a child. Forever grateful.

(Another one in a series of posts appreciating loving cats 🥰. Picture not mine, feel free to claim)

#cats #love #caturday
March 29, 2025 at 4:57 PM
Wikipedia: "At age five, she was molested by a family friend; as a teenager she endured years of sexual harassment from her peers. She would eventually turn to alcohol, drugs and promiscuous sex to try to numb the pain. Blige dropped out of high school"

She has become stronger now 💪

#trauma #cptsd
March 28, 2025 at 2:22 PM
Picture isn't mine - but so true...

#trauma #ptsd #cptsd #bpd #osdd #did
March 26, 2025 at 7:08 PM
Sometimes a cat can give you the love you really need... I sure needed it as a child. Forever grateful.

#cats #love #kittens

(pic not mine, feel free to claim)
March 16, 2025 at 4:32 PM
Anyone else have cat alters? Mine is a nonverbal introject from a kitten I had as a child. I needed to keep her with me.

She looked like this 💜 (picture not mine, msg me if you want to claim it).

We simply call it Cat or Beast 🙂.

#did #osdd #pluralsky #alters
March 11, 2025 at 2:47 PM