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Shibari comes from hojojutsu, a martial rope techniques used to restrain and shame prisoners in imperial Japan. These roots include fascist policing. Post-WWII, artists eroticized them as kinbaku. Its origins, like Western BDSM, lie in carceral and colonial control.
July 8, 2025 at 11:00 PM
July 7, 2025 at 3:15 PM
July 7, 2025 at 3:15 PM
Surving fascism as a polyamorist
July 7, 2025 at 3:15 PM
We could have just been like the bonobos but instead we decided to have a cognitive revolution
June 27, 2025 at 5:59 PM
She backed the Palestinian genocide and before that extended prison slavery.

No matter who’s in charge, colonialism means endless hegemony and expansion.

Until we dismantle the disease, colonizers will keep colonizing.
June 24, 2025 at 1:16 AM
The West are colonizers and always have been and always will be until the colonialist mindset is uprooted.

Gaining independence isn’t enough, because colonialism is a disease that stays long after.
June 22, 2025 at 7:39 PM
June 22, 2025 at 2:57 AM
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June 18, 2025 at 11:31 PM
June 11, 2025 at 7:57 PM
They idolize figures like Gandhi, Nelson Mandela, and Martin Luther King Jr., presenting them as the sole models of resistance while conveniently erasing the histories of BIPOC-led armed struggles.

Violent fights for liberation were crucial for securing our freedom
March 14, 2025 at 1:53 PM
Have you ever read anything more poetic?
March 5, 2025 at 2:37 AM
Tbh Trump causes so much chaos, the Zelensky thing just seems like he’s usual fuckery but indeed narcs also hold grudges
March 3, 2025 at 1:42 AM
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February 23, 2025 at 4:50 PM
I love how unserious we are about the apocalypse
February 22, 2025 at 7:20 AM
Except being two spirit that’s me. However I am queer. So just need to learn to fly 🤣
February 20, 2025 at 11:58 AM
When people show you who they are, believe them. Those who lack the moral backbone to stand against violations of humanity in one realm likely won’t in others. In this endgame, these are the moments that reveal what people are truly made of—whether their actions align with their professed values.
February 19, 2025 at 9:22 PM
I love how Black women have collectively chosen not to be the world's saviors this time—especially after everyone made it clear they don't bat for us the same.

We always survive. Some of y'all though, not sure you know how to.

Anyways ciao.
February 17, 2025 at 7:58 PM
February 16, 2025 at 6:07 AM
My first ever workshop at a University was today at the University of Toronto on dismantling the nuclear family.
University of Toronto is ranked #1 in Canada and #17 globally.
I STARTED at the top! 🏆😏🎉

Going on my American university tour beginning in a few weeks
February 15, 2025 at 9:58 AM
The dancer who waved the Sudan/ Palestinian Flag during Kendrick Lamar's half time performance is Zül-Qarnain.
Here he is explaining why he did it and feelings about aftermath
February 11, 2025 at 9:05 PM
Before European colonialism, only a small percentage of societies upheld monogamy as the social standard, and those that did—such as Japan and China—were imperialist states. This is no coincidence; monogamy, private property, and hierarchical state formation go hand in hand.
February 11, 2025 at 7:03 PM
February 10, 2025 at 7:05 PM
The dancer who waved the Sudan/Palestinian Flag during Kendrick Lamar's half time performance is Zül-Qarnaįn.
He runs a project called Open Book Platform which focuses on truth in media.
He was released without charge.
His Instagram handles are @openbookplatform and @fff_zulqarnain
February 10, 2025 at 7:05 PM