Decolonizing Love
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I often reflect on the transcontinental Nazism and white supremacy ties of Elon Musk and Peter Thiel. Musk's maternal grandparents were Nazi Party members in Canada who relocated to South Africa for its apartheid system. Thiel, a German whose family did the same, joined them there.
February 16, 2026 at 7:49 PM
I often reflect on the transcontinental Nazism and white supremacy ties of Elon Musk and Peter Thiel. Musk's maternal grandparents were Nazi Party members in Canada who relocated to South Africa for its apartheid system. Thiel, a German whose family did the same, joined them there.
Yup, we've been telling you repeatedly: the nuclear family is designed for control. Control of women, control of populations. That's why capitalist governments push it so hard. That's why marriage comes with tax incentives.
February 5, 2026 at 5:53 PM
Yup, we've been telling you repeatedly: the nuclear family is designed for control. Control of women, control of populations. That's why capitalist governments push it so hard. That's why marriage comes with tax incentives.
Most infamous moments in poly discourse / internet poly history
1. Womblands on Tiktok
2. The “solo poly amputee hijabi” memes on X
3. West End Girl - Lily Allen
4. Frida Kahlo dating León Trotsky and Josephine Baker, while Diego Rivera violated their messy list by sleeping with Frida’s sister
1. Womblands on Tiktok
2. The “solo poly amputee hijabi” memes on X
3. West End Girl - Lily Allen
4. Frida Kahlo dating León Trotsky and Josephine Baker, while Diego Rivera violated their messy list by sleeping with Frida’s sister
January 29, 2026 at 5:15 AM
Most infamous moments in poly discourse / internet poly history
1. Womblands on Tiktok
2. The “solo poly amputee hijabi” memes on X
3. West End Girl - Lily Allen
4. Frida Kahlo dating León Trotsky and Josephine Baker, while Diego Rivera violated their messy list by sleeping with Frida’s sister
1. Womblands on Tiktok
2. The “solo poly amputee hijabi” memes on X
3. West End Girl - Lily Allen
4. Frida Kahlo dating León Trotsky and Josephine Baker, while Diego Rivera violated their messy list by sleeping with Frida’s sister
If I ever get kidnapped this is how you'd know
i could never be polyamorous, im way too possessive and i consider my affection as an investment
January 2, 2026 at 10:55 PM
If I ever get kidnapped this is how you'd know
What do Kris Jenner’s facelift, COVID, and billionaire transhumanist ambitions have in common? This unsettling piece connects the dots of our dystopian moment, and bonus traces how Blackness is mined for legitimacy, from Octavia Butler to the Kardashians.
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kris jenner's facelift: a transhumanist cautionary tale
hollywood is getting younger, and silicon valley is investing billions hoping you won't get any older.
substack.com
December 15, 2025 at 11:41 PM
What do Kris Jenner’s facelift, COVID, and billionaire transhumanist ambitions have in common? This unsettling piece connects the dots of our dystopian moment, and bonus traces how Blackness is mined for legitimacy, from Octavia Butler to the Kardashians.
substack.com/home/post/p-...
substack.com/home/post/p-...
Heartbreak of the week: learning that Noam Chomsky has vehemently defended Epstein multiple times, including after his convictions, and considered him a good friend. I also learned this week that Chomsky said Antifa was a gift to the right.
Don’t learn more about your heroes.
Don’t learn more about your heroes.
December 15, 2025 at 12:41 AM
Heartbreak of the week: learning that Noam Chomsky has vehemently defended Epstein multiple times, including after his convictions, and considered him a good friend. I also learned this week that Chomsky said Antifa was a gift to the right.
Don’t learn more about your heroes.
Don’t learn more about your heroes.
Not sure who needs to hear this but leftists who are quick to cancel, constantly call people out, or scrutinize other leftists over the smallest missteps are carrying on the legacy of Christian puritan culture.
December 9, 2025 at 12:36 AM
Not sure who needs to hear this but leftists who are quick to cancel, constantly call people out, or scrutinize other leftists over the smallest missteps are carrying on the legacy of Christian puritan culture.
Shibari comes from hojojutsu, a martial rope techniques used to restrain and shame prisoners in imperial Japan. These roots include fascist policing. Post-WWII, artists eroticized them as kinbaku. Its origins, like Western BDSM, lie in carceral and colonial control.
July 8, 2025 at 11:00 PM
Shibari comes from hojojutsu, a martial rope techniques used to restrain and shame prisoners in imperial Japan. These roots include fascist policing. Post-WWII, artists eroticized them as kinbaku. Its origins, like Western BDSM, lie in carceral and colonial control.
People often underestimate the depth of research that goes into our work. I have hyperlexia, which allows me to absorb and synthesize vast amounts of information quickly. Before I speak on any topic, I read everything I can find.
July 8, 2025 at 5:56 AM
People often underestimate the depth of research that goes into our work. I have hyperlexia, which allows me to absorb and synthesize vast amounts of information quickly. Before I speak on any topic, I read everything I can find.
Surving fascism as a polyamorist
July 7, 2025 at 3:15 PM
Surving fascism as a polyamorist
They shot two people after Pride outside the Stonewall Inn. News is still coming in, but this reminds me of when Dylann Roof attacked the AME Church in Charleston, precisely because of its significance in civil‑rights movements. These people know what they’re doing
ca.news.yahoo.com/shooting-out...
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Shooting outside of historic Stonewall Inn after NYC's Pride March: Mayor
The shooting occurred Sunday night in the Greenwich Village neighborhood.
ca.news.yahoo.com
June 30, 2025 at 5:10 AM
They shot two people after Pride outside the Stonewall Inn. News is still coming in, but this reminds me of when Dylann Roof attacked the AME Church in Charleston, precisely because of its significance in civil‑rights movements. These people know what they’re doing
ca.news.yahoo.com/shooting-out...
ca.news.yahoo.com/shooting-out...
We could have just been like the bonobos but instead we decided to have a cognitive revolution
June 27, 2025 at 5:59 PM
We could have just been like the bonobos but instead we decided to have a cognitive revolution
She backed the Palestinian genocide and before that extended prison slavery.
No matter who’s in charge, colonialism means endless hegemony and expansion.
Until we dismantle the disease, colonizers will keep colonizing.
No matter who’s in charge, colonialism means endless hegemony and expansion.
Until we dismantle the disease, colonizers will keep colonizing.
June 24, 2025 at 1:16 AM
She backed the Palestinian genocide and before that extended prison slavery.
No matter who’s in charge, colonialism means endless hegemony and expansion.
Until we dismantle the disease, colonizers will keep colonizing.
No matter who’s in charge, colonialism means endless hegemony and expansion.
Until we dismantle the disease, colonizers will keep colonizing.
How long do you give this truce? It wasn’t actually ever about nukes. Israel is a death cult that wants regime change in Iran and a greater Israel. A continued war with Iran is inevitable because colonizers are always going to seek expansion + don’t tolerate ideological opposition to their hegemony
June 24, 2025 at 12:08 AM
How long do you give this truce? It wasn’t actually ever about nukes. Israel is a death cult that wants regime change in Iran and a greater Israel. A continued war with Iran is inevitable because colonizers are always going to seek expansion + don’t tolerate ideological opposition to their hegemony
The West are colonizers and always have been and always will be until the colonialist mindset is uprooted.
Gaining independence isn’t enough, because colonialism is a disease that stays long after.
Gaining independence isn’t enough, because colonialism is a disease that stays long after.
June 22, 2025 at 7:39 PM
The West are colonizers and always have been and always will be until the colonialist mindset is uprooted.
Gaining independence isn’t enough, because colonialism is a disease that stays long after.
Gaining independence isn’t enough, because colonialism is a disease that stays long after.
I keep thinking about that moment when Gaddafi warned a room full of Middle Eastern leaders that what happened in Iraq would happen to all of them—and they laughed.
Colonialism always moves in fractals. What starts with one becomes a pattern.
Colonialism always moves in fractals. What starts with one becomes a pattern.
June 22, 2025 at 12:41 AM
I keep thinking about that moment when Gaddafi warned a room full of Middle Eastern leaders that what happened in Iraq would happen to all of them—and they laughed.
Colonialism always moves in fractals. What starts with one becomes a pattern.
Colonialism always moves in fractals. What starts with one becomes a pattern.
When attacks on nuclear sites are announced by the president on social media … dear god
June 22, 2025 at 12:22 AM
When attacks on nuclear sites are announced by the president on social media … dear god
The telegram founder Pavel Durov has 106 children!! What is it with tech bros and their breeding fetishes?
www.eonline.com/news/1418952...
www.eonline.com/news/1418952...
Tech Founder Pledges to Leave $17 Billion Fortune to All 106 of His Children
Telegram founder Pavel Durov recently detailed the future of his tech company, including how he’s leaving his $17 billion fortune to all 106 of his children.
www.eonline.com
June 21, 2025 at 5:07 AM
The telegram founder Pavel Durov has 106 children!! What is it with tech bros and their breeding fetishes?
www.eonline.com/news/1418952...
www.eonline.com/news/1418952...
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We should be able to buy adderall, testosterone & estrogen OTC at Walmart while buying a gun should require 6-12 months of intensive therapy beforehand and monthly reapproval from your psychiatrist
June 18, 2025 at 3:22 PM
We should be able to buy adderall, testosterone & estrogen OTC at Walmart while buying a gun should require 6-12 months of intensive therapy beforehand and monthly reapproval from your psychiatrist
Missing Chomsky’s analysis right now because I trust no voice in all this
June 18, 2025 at 4:48 PM
Missing Chomsky’s analysis right now because I trust no voice in all this
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Crazy that Luigi is charged with terrorism but the guy who had a hit list of democrats and shot 4 and killed two isn't
June 16, 2025 at 5:17 PM
Crazy that Luigi is charged with terrorism but the guy who had a hit list of democrats and shot 4 and killed two isn't
Ideally the Iranian regime and Israel regime destroy each other without mass civilian casualty
June 16, 2025 at 8:35 PM
Ideally the Iranian regime and Israel regime destroy each other without mass civilian casualty