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dave rubric
@daverubric.bsky.social
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In no particular order, this is about: OFMD (primarily stizzy), curséd politics, rhetoric, teaching college writing, soap, candles, and fiber arts || pfp: lovedhands || he/him, old, gay, and trans
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More relevant than ever
Level 1 to 4 headcanon diagram Canon (Large circle enclosing Level 1) Level 1 Headcanon (Green circle, overlaps with Canon) includes and builds around pre-existing canon can fill in blanks/answers questions left unresolved in canon a casual viewer could easily digest the concept Level 2 Headcanon (Yellow-green circle, overlaps with Level 1 and Level 3) Takes elements from canon and explores them in a transformative way ignores some pre-existing canon views canon through a lens outside the intended way it was written Level 3 Headcanon (Orange circle, overlaps with Level 2 and Level 4) not rooted in canon material at all builds off of pre-existing fanon content great for when a fandom agrees that canon SUCKS Level 4 Headcanon (Red circle, overlaps with Level 3) you literally just made that up
November 25, 2025 at 1:28 AM
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Do not eat #soap 🫧🧼
Slices of soap that look like cake
November 22, 2025 at 7:08 PM
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Forbidden cake
Loaf of soap iced like a cake
November 22, 2025 at 7:48 AM
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Sharing again bc I'm proud of it! Check out my OFMD AU set in Minneapolis, starting with an Ed/Izzy fic in the 80s, an Ed/Stede SMAU set now, and ending currently with a Steddyhands get-together fic (there is also a WIP where they figure their shit out).

archiveofourown.org/series/2955477
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November 21, 2025 at 4:13 PM
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You must eat him to defeat him
Gummy elf on the shelf
November 21, 2025 at 8:39 AM
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Orange boy
November 21, 2025 at 12:25 AM
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Mushrrrrrrrooooommmm
Orange fly agaric mushrooms
November 21, 2025 at 12:17 AM
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I have to speak at our campus Trans Day of Remembrance event today and I thought I'd share what I'm going to say
I came out as trans in 2011. I've been going to Transgender Day of Remembrance vigils for a long time now, and one of the things I've learned over these years is that trans people have to cultivate a very particular relationship to grief. It's not optional. It's something you learn how to work through, because you have to. So much of entering into trans relationships is knowing death. We fight every moment of our lives, and for some of us the fight is infinitely more difficult. Some of us have parents who betray us; some of us have friends who never quite get it; race, class, ability, and political conflict all compound with such a particular weight that it's hard to comprehend. Woven into this is the threat of violence from inside and outside our bodies and the lack of responsibility that the world feels for sustaining the presence of trans bodies. We hold these truths in our hearts but also have to protect ourselves. It's too much to constantly consider. But far too often the unthinkable happens. Over the years I've watched TDoR evolve. There's been growth in how people putting on the events understand intersectionality. When we think about trans death on a global scale, we have to grapple with what it means to speak for others, to claim a global trans community. And that's complicated. Most of the names we will honor are people who died in contexts very different from ours. But I believe it's important to mark and grieve those we have lost, even those we don't know. Our fates as trans people are intertwined and influenced by each other, even if we experience life very differently and in very distinct ways. The death of one trans person impacts every trans person in the world. I want to talk about grief in this particular moment we're in. We're experiencing one global crisis after another, and it can seem endless - the amount of loss, the weight of it. It's easier not to acknowledge it, not to make space for it. To keep pushing forward and pushing down what makes us uncomfortable, what makes us sad. In American culture, there's no space made for grief and mourning unless you make it yourself, or make it alongside others who care for those you've lost. And trans people know this. We have to cope with the potential for loss constantly in a way that many people struggle to understand. Part of this is because our community is numerically small and dispersed. For many trans people, connection to trans community may only be people online, or one or two people in your neighborhood or town. We are lucky to have a larger trans community in our region, but it can still feel lonely. When we lose someone, we feel it across that whole fragile web. I've been thinking a lot about what kinds of emotions bring about political change. We live in a world where anger has been the motivating force for social movements, especially in the last ten years. And we see how easily anger gets co-opted, weaponized, turned against the very movements it started in. There's nothing wrong with being angry. But it's important to make space for grief and sadness and loss. Space to remember and mourn and care for each other, to help keep us here in the here and now. That's what we are doing today as we practice grief. It's making space we're not usually given. It's saying these names and holding the weight of these lives, even briefly, even when it hurts. That's the work. That's how we keep each other here.
November 20, 2025 at 6:57 PM
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i can't escape stede (strawberry also cute)
lighthouse soap stamp
November 20, 2025 at 5:35 PM
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They're cute 🥰
Slices of the forbidden cake (soap). It's grey with bright pink and orange
November 20, 2025 at 3:25 AM
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Baked potato with bbq
Aforementioned bbq baked potato
November 19, 2025 at 7:39 AM
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Forbidden cake #soap
A loaf of dark grey soak with orange swirls
November 19, 2025 at 7:20 AM
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Much more to learn but it's still pretty #soap
Bars of soap with swirls of color and black
November 18, 2025 at 7:29 AM
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That tracks
Sisyphus rolling "filling out a when2meet" boulder up a "innate desire for global communism" hill
November 17, 2025 at 6:39 PM
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Excited to cut this one, but I don't think the inside will look as good bc I poured before it was thick enough. Rhubarb mint scent
The top of a loaf of soap, with an abstract design of many colors
November 16, 2025 at 5:45 PM
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you know the tutorial is going to be extremely good when the first frames of the video look like this
title card with weird background image and "column swirl tutorial" in all caps in a silly font
November 13, 2025 at 5:09 PM
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I cut it too early but I think it's cool
A bar of purple and white swirled soap.
November 12, 2025 at 4:21 PM
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worlds collide
reviews on a mica blender website, where a review of the product in soap is on the top left and a review of the product in fishing lures is on the bottom right
November 6, 2025 at 7:34 AM
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Bouuuuuuugieeeeee
Diptyque candle I found at Goodwill for $3
November 1, 2025 at 6:32 AM
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Gift for Wife Women Housewife Soaper
Amazon listing for a soap making kit
October 31, 2025 at 3:31 PM
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hot pink and orange soap swirled with black and white
October 30, 2025 at 8:44 PM
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Bird taking a big sip of unsee juice
October 29, 2025 at 6:05 AM
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i love being a lower salience cultural issue don't you
Fourth, Democrats should shift our stances on some lower-salience issues where our views are unpopular, including some cultural concerns (e.g., affirmative action in college admissions, transgender athletes). Democrats should also focus less on these lower-salience cultural issues and focus more on the economy and the cost of living.
October 27, 2025 at 10:12 PM
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I was going for a "marble" look. Noooo I can't add another hobby. But really is making soap actually different from making candles
A square of soap cut in half
October 25, 2025 at 6:31 PM
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They're so dumb 😭😭😭
I mean, I guess I don't know what I could have done," Casey said. He crumpled his napkin, then straightened it out. "I mean, high school really sucked—you didn't miss much.” Stephen let himself really look at Casey. The lapels of Casey's work shirt were frayed, one side already mended. The line of his jaw, sharper than Stephen recalled, was angry with acne. He felt an urge to touch him, an odd echoing feeling that he'd felt many times, many years before. "What?" Casey asked. Stephen jumped. "Huh?" "Why are you staring at me?” He felt his face heat. “Sorry—I was just kind of distracted looking at your face. How it’s changing, I mean.” Casey smirked. “You know, there are some creams and stuff you can buy for the acne—” “Oh, don't Avon lady me,” Casey said, crossing his arms. “I've been a teenager and I'm raising one. We keep whoever makes zit cream in business.”
October 25, 2025 at 6:23 AM