DamnIt Janet
@damnnitjanet.bsky.social
Author. Gamer. Geek. Queer. Artist.
Our ask is simple: Target, Home Depot, and Amazon must stop undermining our democracy by collaborating with, and enabling, the Trump administration. Reinstate their DEI policies, refuse to cooperate with ICE, and withhold funding to Trump’s authoritarian regime.
November 26, 2025 at 12:58 AM
Our ask is simple: Target, Home Depot, and Amazon must stop undermining our democracy by collaborating with, and enabling, the Trump administration. Reinstate their DEI policies, refuse to cooperate with ICE, and withhold funding to Trump’s authoritarian regime.
After surviving trauma, toxic relationships, and family dysfunction, I thought reaching 'survivor' status was the finish line. My latest post explores why staying in survivor mode keeps you stuck—and how to shift to thriving instead.
#survivor #thriver #toxicfamily
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#survivor #thriver #toxicfamily
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September 16, 2025 at 8:59 PM
After surviving trauma, toxic relationships, and family dysfunction, I thought reaching 'survivor' status was the finish line. My latest post explores why staying in survivor mode keeps you stuck—and how to shift to thriving instead.
#survivor #thriver #toxicfamily
janettopping.com/2025/09/16/w...
#survivor #thriver #toxicfamily
janettopping.com/2025/09/16/w...
Narcissist parents, narcissist siblings, narcissist exes? I didn't just break the cycle—I documented the whole damn circus. #book #author #spillthetea #memoir
September 13, 2025 at 2:11 AM
Narcissist parents, narcissist siblings, narcissist exes? I didn't just break the cycle—I documented the whole damn circus. #book #author #spillthetea #memoir
A mother who lost custody of her daughter joins the military to become strong enough to save them both - and spends twenty years building a sanctuary worthy of the moment her daughter finally calls and says "I need to come live with you."
September 12, 2025 at 2:18 PM
A mother who lost custody of her daughter joins the military to become strong enough to save them both - and spends twenty years building a sanctuary worthy of the moment her daughter finally calls and says "I need to come live with you."
I didn’t write this to be liked.
I wrote it because silence was killing me.
It’s not about identity.
It’s about consequence.
If you’ve ever felt punished for telling the truth too soon—
This might be the story you’ve been waiting for.
www.janettopping.com
I wrote it because silence was killing me.
It’s not about identity.
It’s about consequence.
If you’ve ever felt punished for telling the truth too soon—
This might be the story you’ve been waiting for.
www.janettopping.com
August 29, 2025 at 5:07 PM
I didn’t write this to be liked.
I wrote it because silence was killing me.
It’s not about identity.
It’s about consequence.
If you’ve ever felt punished for telling the truth too soon—
This might be the story you’ve been waiting for.
www.janettopping.com
I wrote it because silence was killing me.
It’s not about identity.
It’s about consequence.
If you’ve ever felt punished for telling the truth too soon—
This might be the story you’ve been waiting for.
www.janettopping.com
Just published the story of my first real rebellion against my mom -the Keeper - forging a permission slip changed everything.
open.substack.com/pub/janettop...
open.substack.com/pub/janettop...
The Permission Slip That Started Everything
I pressed the pen against the permission slip for the sex education class and wrote her name, my hand moving with the practiced confidence of someone who had memorized every curve and illegible scrawl...
open.substack.com
August 28, 2025 at 5:35 PM
Just published the story of my first real rebellion against my mom -the Keeper - forging a permission slip changed everything.
open.substack.com/pub/janettop...
open.substack.com/pub/janettop...
Save this for your TBR list! #Educated #Memoir #MilitaryMom #BookRec #TaraWestover #NewBook #MustRead #MotherhoodMemoir #BookLovers #SimilarBooks #BookClub #ComingSoon
August 27, 2025 at 10:37 PM
Save this for your TBR list! #Educated #Memoir #MilitaryMom #BookRec #TaraWestover #NewBook #MustRead #MotherhoodMemoir #BookLovers #SimilarBooks #BookClub #ComingSoon
Episode 2 Religion and Entertainment
A personal experience of indoctrination in a religious family and subsequent rejection to feelings of shame, guilt, and fear. The entertainment industry can reinforce biases. And also spread positive and informative content.
open.spotify.com/show/2ulbbGA...
A personal experience of indoctrination in a religious family and subsequent rejection to feelings of shame, guilt, and fear. The entertainment industry can reinforce biases. And also spread positive and informative content.
open.spotify.com/show/2ulbbGA...
Feminist Sense
Podcast · Jae Franklin · Exploring the world through the eye of an inclusive feminist, queer, and intersectional lense.
open.spotify.com
March 22, 2025 at 2:40 PM
Episode 2 Religion and Entertainment
A personal experience of indoctrination in a religious family and subsequent rejection to feelings of shame, guilt, and fear. The entertainment industry can reinforce biases. And also spread positive and informative content.
open.spotify.com/show/2ulbbGA...
A personal experience of indoctrination in a religious family and subsequent rejection to feelings of shame, guilt, and fear. The entertainment industry can reinforce biases. And also spread positive and informative content.
open.spotify.com/show/2ulbbGA...
💔 **My Wedding Dress is Missing!**
My custom dress, shipped from Australia, has been stuck at the USPS hub in Indianapolis for over a week. My wedding is in 3 weeks, & I can’t afford to replace it. Please share or help! USPS hotline/local office couldn’t help.
#USPSHelp #BrideInDistress
My custom dress, shipped from Australia, has been stuck at the USPS hub in Indianapolis for over a week. My wedding is in 3 weeks, & I can’t afford to replace it. Please share or help! USPS hotline/local office couldn’t help.
#USPSHelp #BrideInDistress
March 11, 2025 at 10:32 PM
💔 **My Wedding Dress is Missing!**
My custom dress, shipped from Australia, has been stuck at the USPS hub in Indianapolis for over a week. My wedding is in 3 weeks, & I can’t afford to replace it. Please share or help! USPS hotline/local office couldn’t help.
#USPSHelp #BrideInDistress
My custom dress, shipped from Australia, has been stuck at the USPS hub in Indianapolis for over a week. My wedding is in 3 weeks, & I can’t afford to replace it. Please share or help! USPS hotline/local office couldn’t help.
#USPSHelp #BrideInDistress
March 8, 2025 at 3:59 PM
My new podcast is up on Spotify. open.spotify.com/show/2ulbbGA...
Feminist Sense
Podcast · Jae Franklin · Exploring the world through the eye of an inclusive feminist, queer, and intersectional lense.
open.spotify.com
February 21, 2025 at 10:06 AM
My new podcast is up on Spotify. open.spotify.com/show/2ulbbGA...
Come check out my budding shop on Threadless!
#smallbusiness #lgbtq #myart #Threadless
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#smallbusiness #lgbtq #myart #Threadless
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February 12, 2025 at 4:53 PM
Come check out my budding shop on Threadless!
#smallbusiness #lgbtq #myart #Threadless
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#smallbusiness #lgbtq #myart #Threadless
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Reposted by DamnIt Janet
The things nightmares are made of.
#scape Friday
#dreamSCAPE
#dreams
#eastcoastkin
#foggyfriday
#bw
#birds
#scape Friday
#dreamSCAPE
#dreams
#eastcoastkin
#foggyfriday
#bw
#birds
February 7, 2025 at 3:58 PM
The things nightmares are made of.
#scape Friday
#dreamSCAPE
#dreams
#eastcoastkin
#foggyfriday
#bw
#birds
#scape Friday
#dreamSCAPE
#dreams
#eastcoastkin
#foggyfriday
#bw
#birds
Reposted by DamnIt Janet
This great blue heron is landing on a frozen lake. So graceful.
#🪶
#birds
#nature
#greatblueheron
#wildlife
#birding
#photography
#birdsofbluesky
#photography #wildlife #naturephotography #birdphotography #nikon #nikonZ8 #nikonphotographer
#🪶
#birds
#nature
#greatblueheron
#wildlife
#birding
#photography
#birdsofbluesky
#photography #wildlife #naturephotography #birdphotography #nikon #nikonZ8 #nikonphotographer
February 7, 2025 at 11:43 PM
This great blue heron is landing on a frozen lake. So graceful.
#🪶
#birds
#nature
#greatblueheron
#wildlife
#birding
#photography
#birdsofbluesky
#photography #wildlife #naturephotography #birdphotography #nikon #nikonZ8 #nikonphotographer
#🪶
#birds
#nature
#greatblueheron
#wildlife
#birding
#photography
#birdsofbluesky
#photography #wildlife #naturephotography #birdphotography #nikon #nikonZ8 #nikonphotographer
This Red winged blackbird wouldn't stop moving long enough for me to get a good picture, but the Carolina Chickadee and the Finches are enjoying their safflower seeds! #birds #birdingUS #BackyardBirds #IndianaBirds #Birder #Addbirds
February 9, 2025 at 3:05 AM
This Red winged blackbird wouldn't stop moving long enough for me to get a good picture, but the Carolina Chickadee and the Finches are enjoying their safflower seeds! #birds #birdingUS #BackyardBirds #IndianaBirds #Birder #Addbirds
👈🏼 I might be gay 🥰🔥🏳️🌈💋💋💋
February 6, 2025 at 11:52 PM
👈🏼 I might be gay 🥰🔥🏳️🌈💋💋💋
Candy Hearts Watercolor Tutorial by @lynndprattpaint.bsky.social
January 28, 2025 at 7:09 PM
Candy Hearts Watercolor Tutorial by @lynndprattpaint.bsky.social
Note to self: Don't do two events in 12 hours 😵💫😴
a cartoon character from the movie monsters inc is looking at the camera and saying `` me right now '' .
ALT: a cartoon character from the movie monsters inc is looking at the camera and saying `` me right now '' .
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January 26, 2025 at 10:59 PM
Note to self: Don't do two events in 12 hours 😵💫😴
January 21, 2025 at 12:31 PM
Getting people to RSVP for a wedding should not be this hard! #weddingplanning
January 18, 2025 at 9:09 PM
Getting people to RSVP for a wedding should not be this hard! #weddingplanning
January 17, 2025 at 8:50 PM