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Cozy Cat Cafe
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We do trans-inclusive cozy feminism here. I dispell common misconceptions about the #4B Movement in my series #WarningHotChocolate #cats #4B+ #4BMovement #coffee #hotcocoa #feminism #cozy #BlueCrew 💙💙💙 #resist
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Quote and photo of Denielle Burdick. ☕️💜
There is no gender war. Unfortunately, men have been abusive for generations. And women are finally standing up and shouting they aren't accepting it anymore. A picture of a black haired woman with tattoos.
November 27, 2025 at 8:34 PM
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This is how it's done. ☕️💜
Taylor Bailey posted: Them: Your degree won't keep you warm at night. Me: Oh aight (smirk emoji) A picture of a young, educated black woman sleeping beneath a giant blanket with her Doctorate in Pharmacy printed on it.
November 24, 2025 at 10:29 PM
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This is a difficult truth for many children of single mothers. I have a cousin in a similar situation. Her child's father only fights for custody to sleep with her. ☕️💜
Ryahgold asks: Why do men not associate with their kids when their not on good terms with the mom? So, being a father is conditional? Kiffanik replies: What a lot of ppl call “keeping my Dad away” was actually their Mom refusing to sex work so their Dad would stick around. He didn’t want you, he wanted her and would tolerate you for access to her. Atm0701_80: That part
November 19, 2025 at 2:33 PM
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TW: The opinion of a man. If you don't care, keep scrolling. I am proud of you. 💜☕️
November 15, 2025 at 4:14 PM
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I stayed because I wanted my child to have a father. I left because I wanted ny child to have a mother.
November 4, 2025 at 9:03 PM
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CCC says, "18-20....? That's two years of life. And 2021-2025. We're talking about women as old as 75 sharing memories of their husbands demanding sex days after child birth? You're trying to compare decades of women's experiences, around the globe, to a couple of college virgins. And just so you know, women 43% of women in the US are also single and not dating. For these exact same reasons. You're looking at the consequence and calling it the cause. ☕️💜" Monkeyd.carti says, "Fairs. I could say more on this too but it will get a bit too deep. Not trying to invalidate the womens personal experience, but im also not trying to invalidate my own."
November 3, 2025 at 3:20 PM
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It's limited by age, yes, and last I checkef was 2021. A blurry screen shot shows that 50.2% of men between 18-20 are virgins. But men over 25 and under 30 are 1.9% virgins.
November 3, 2025 at 3:19 PM
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CCC says, "It's not a small portion. Nearly every woman has experienced this. Even women who have been partnered upwards of a decade. If it were a small portion, it wouldn't be a near universal, global experience. The math doesn't add up. The logical conclusion is that it is a larger portion of men. ☕️💜" Monkeyd.carti says, "Okay, but in conjunction with your point, about 70% of men have never been with a woman. If 70% of the gender have never been involved with a woman, its only a portion of that 30% that are doing the global damage" Ccc says, "Where on earth did you get that number? Is it limited by age demographic or including actual children? ☕️💜"
November 3, 2025 at 3:16 PM
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Moneyd.carti says, "Because i happen to be a man who respect women highly. I havent done what you are accusing me of doing so its a little offensive?" 1_nomadmermaid says, "You don't respect women if you're taking something that happens too often to women and taking it as a personal attack because you don't feel like you're capable of it. If a man is going around killing women, do you defend the behavior because you don't kill women? You made a whole little theory about male behavior that puts the responsibility on women choosing the wrong men instead of listening to all the women sharing their experiences with the same kind of disrespect."
November 3, 2025 at 2:09 PM
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TW: A man's opinion. If you don't care, keep scrolling. I am ✨️proud✨️ of you! ☕️💜
Zenaibu says, "a man will tell you that you aren't meeting his needs and his needs are fucking you after your mother died or 7 days after giving birth to HIS baby." Sportsmom17 says, "Men's sex drives are no different from women's. They've just been taught they don't have to control them." Moneyd.carti says, "Good men have control. Players and fuck boys do not. Seems like the fuckbois keep getting picked. Shrug emoji" 1_nomadmermaid says, "Do you date and sleep with men? Because how the hell would you even know what men are doing behind closed doors? You're just saying anything..."
November 3, 2025 at 2:07 PM
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Women sharing their experiences is healing and powerful. It teaches other women not to tolerate this behavior. ☕️💜
Apaynemusic says, "I remember my dad passing away. I didn't eat, sleep or shower for days before his funeral and my ex asked me for sex. I crashed tf out" Johannal376 says, "Why is it so many men lack empathy." Apaynemusic says, "That I don't know. My dad been gone 9 years and I still remember that moment." asapaprol says, "Men are so traumatizing."
November 3, 2025 at 2:02 PM
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Post by Heretic Unbound on Threads. ☕️💜
They keep calling it gender wars,every time women talk about feminism or demand equal rights. But let me ask this ... Was it a gender war when women were denied land ownership? Was it a gender war when women couldn’t go to school? Was it a gender war when wives suffered in silence in abusive marriages with no way out? Was it a gender war when women weren’t even allowed to open a bank account or a credit card without a man’s permission? Nobody called that a gender war. That was just tradition, just culture. But the moment women say: we deserve education, freedom, safety, land, respect, and equality, suddenly it’s gender war. No.. it’s not war. It’s justice. It’s balance. And if equality feels like war to you, it means you’ve been benefitting from women’s oppression all along.
November 2, 2025 at 8:06 PM
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It does not go both ways because if it did, men would be 4B too. You can tell men don't believe this because they don't advise each other on how to prevent it or what to do if it is happening. ☕️💜
Supermega10001 says "But not all women, right?" And quotes The DHS data shiws that of children abused by one parenr between 2001 and 2006 70.6% were abused by their mothers, whereas only 29.4% were abused by their fathers. CozyCatCafe says: Okay, now do you advocate for men to not have children with women in order to protect future children from harm? Cause I would with big scary numbers like that! Stop having children with abusive women, guys! Wear condoms! Get a vasectomy! VET BETTER! ☕️💜
October 29, 2025 at 5:07 PM
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Never let them dim your shine. ☕️💜
BiggyShortyyy says: A man told me my master's degree was a waste of time. A man with a high school education. An annoyed black woman squirts raid in the direction of the man.
October 27, 2025 at 5:41 PM
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Quote from Rewilding. ☕️☕️
October's energy: stop romanticizing what's already over. Rewilding
October 26, 2025 at 10:46 PM
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Quote from Rewilding. ☕️💜
Stop Applogizing For Who You Are A phoenix. Quote from Rewilding
October 26, 2025 at 10:45 PM
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Studiobydc2: I'm willing to bet you'd understand what I'm saying if it was the woman that "all of a sudden" wanted a family but the man said "we both didn't want anything serious." Cozycatcafe: I can see that you're projecting about women not listening because you're not listening to me rigjt now either. Good day, sir.
October 25, 2025 at 10:02 PM
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Studopbydc2: I’m telling you they never seriously talked in 7 years. What exactly were you doing for 7 years? Nobody, especially in the climate where many of our young people don’t want children, is “all of a sudden” wanting kids. Either they never talked seriously about a future or she never listened. CozyCatCafe: What are you talking about? She clearly stated before they started dating that she did not want children. He also told her he did not want children. That IS the serious talk. They lived happily for seven years. He changed his mind and told her so. She broke up with him. ☕️💜
October 25, 2025 at 9:58 PM
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Studiobydc2: Sounds like the man never did but you thought you could mold him to it. It’s ol. Fellas do the same thing with women. CozyCatCafe: No, you are willfully misreading what I am saying. I am telling you flat out that a few days ago, a childfree woman who had been dating her childfree boyfriend for seven years had him turn around one day and decide HE wanted children. Now, he is entitled to change his mind, but the fact remains that she CHOSE someone who aligned with her and it didn't matter. ☕️💜
October 25, 2025 at 9:54 PM
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Tw: A man's opinion. If you don't care, I am proud of you. Keep scrolling.
Carkneeseeyah: Stop dating people who don't align with your lifestyle, bullseye emoji. CozyCatCafe: Unfortunately, it doesn't matter if the men align with your lifestyle because whatever you want, he will decide he wants the opposite as soon as you are attached. Childfree? He wants kids now. You want kids? He doesn't. Like to travel? He hates it? Active lifestyle? He wants to stay on the couch. ☕️💜 Studiobydc2: Sounds like the man never did but you thought you could mold him to it. It’s ol. Fellas do the same thing with women.
October 25, 2025 at 9:53 PM
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Art and Quote from Rewilding ☕️💜
An eye with sun rays and leaves as lashes captioned: The veil isn't thinning. It's gone.
October 25, 2025 at 8:02 PM
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Art and quote by Rewilding. ☕️💜
Silhouettes of women dancing in the sunset, captioned: I'd rather bow to your becoming than applaud your pretending. Rewilding.
October 25, 2025 at 7:45 PM
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We did it y'all! But we can do better. Really drive those numbers down. 4B America. ☕️💜
The percentage of US adults (ages 25 to 49) living with a spouse and children has dropped to about 37% in 2023 from 67% in 1970.
October 24, 2025 at 9:37 PM
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Art by Naomi_Lord ☕️💜
An adorable black cat is curled beneath a purple witch hat. Art by Naomi_Lord.
October 24, 2025 at 7:34 PM
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Art by Ironlily ☕️💜
An adorable young knight wags her finger at you and ssys: If you truly don't want to disrespect others, then just don't, and no hiding behind "but!"
October 24, 2025 at 12:00 AM