Cozy Cat Cafe
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We do trans-inclusive cozy feminism here. I dispell common misconceptions about the #4B Movement in my series #WarningHotChocolate #cats #4B+ #4BMovement #coffee #hotcocoa #feminism #cozy #BlueCrew 💙💙💙 #resist
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Calling all the LGBTQ+ inclusive 4B people. Like (❤️) this post if you want to be included in a 4B starter pack. Yes, it will be called something neutral to account for all the name variations and naming concerns. #4BMovement #4B #4BAM #4N #4Y #BoycottCisHetMen #LetsGoGirls #LetsGoGiri
TW: The opinion of a man. If you don't care, keep scrolling. I am proud of you. 💜☕️
November 15, 2025 at 4:14 PM
TW: The opinion of a man. If you don't care, keep scrolling. I am proud of you. 💜☕️
Heard someone say "Never keep or abort a baby based on a man." And I absolutely agree in principle. Aborting a baby because the man wants you to have it is absolutely traumatic. I watched a popular youtuber deal with this on her channel.
Still, ask yourself if you want a baby or THIS baby. ☕️💜
Still, ask yourself if you want a baby or THIS baby. ☕️💜
November 14, 2025 at 3:45 PM
Heard someone say "Never keep or abort a baby based on a man." And I absolutely agree in principle. Aborting a baby because the man wants you to have it is absolutely traumatic. I watched a popular youtuber deal with this on her channel.
Still, ask yourself if you want a baby or THIS baby. ☕️💜
Still, ask yourself if you want a baby or THIS baby. ☕️💜
That awkward moment when you use gender neutral language to describe SA and abuse as bad, and men comment asking if it's bad "when women do it."
Sir, you just confirmed your own gender bias that you think SA and DV are things mostly men do. ☕️💜
Sir, you just confirmed your own gender bias that you think SA and DV are things mostly men do. ☕️💜
November 12, 2025 at 3:51 PM
That awkward moment when you use gender neutral language to describe SA and abuse as bad, and men comment asking if it's bad "when women do it."
Sir, you just confirmed your own gender bias that you think SA and DV are things mostly men do. ☕️💜
Sir, you just confirmed your own gender bias that you think SA and DV are things mostly men do. ☕️💜
I know that people can agree that marriage isn't important and have meaningful connections without it, but personally, I will never trust a man who wants a baby, but not a marriage. Women avoid marriage for very different reasons than men. ☕️💜
November 12, 2025 at 12:01 PM
I know that people can agree that marriage isn't important and have meaningful connections without it, but personally, I will never trust a man who wants a baby, but not a marriage. Women avoid marriage for very different reasons than men. ☕️💜
He doesn't want to "save the marriage." He wants you to continue to tolerate him. ☕️💜
November 12, 2025 at 11:59 AM
He doesn't want to "save the marriage." He wants you to continue to tolerate him. ☕️💜
Wishing everyone a stress-free Sunday. ☕💜
November 9, 2025 at 8:08 PM
Wishing everyone a stress-free Sunday. ☕💜
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I mean. There’s already an epidemic of male loneliness. If you’d like to go for a 4B movement in the US, go right the fuck ahead. This is absolutely how you fucking get there with a fucking quickness. Just remember: we fucking told you, so you only have yourselves to blame. 😒😒😒😒
I know we're all watching election returns but don't let this get lost in the mix: the Heritage Foundation is calling on the HHS to conduct a 'safety' review of oral contraception
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The Group Behind Project 2025 Wants RFK Jr. to ‘Study’ the Pill
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November 5, 2025 at 3:26 AM
I mean. There’s already an epidemic of male loneliness. If you’d like to go for a 4B movement in the US, go right the fuck ahead. This is absolutely how you fucking get there with a fucking quickness. Just remember: we fucking told you, so you only have yourselves to blame. 😒😒😒😒
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The 4B movement is a response to the female safety crisis. The male loneliness epidemic is a distraction from the root issue.
November 6, 2025 at 5:00 AM
The 4B movement is a response to the female safety crisis. The male loneliness epidemic is a distraction from the root issue.
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"What was she wearing?" ❌️
"Do we have a description of the suspect? Can we organize to identify him and bring him to justice?" ✅️
"Do we have a description of the suspect? Can we organize to identify him and bring him to justice?" ✅️
November 4, 2025 at 8:39 PM
"What was she wearing?" ❌️
"Do we have a description of the suspect? Can we organize to identify him and bring him to justice?" ✅️
"Do we have a description of the suspect? Can we organize to identify him and bring him to justice?" ✅️
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“homophobia is not a phobia” people are just about the most irritating ignoramuses in the world
November 4, 2025 at 5:04 PM
“homophobia is not a phobia” people are just about the most irritating ignoramuses in the world
If you're not already following @liberaljane.bsky.social, you absolutley should. Her art is fantastic and her political messaging is on point. Many of her works adorn the Cafe's imaginary walls. ☕️💜
November 4, 2025 at 7:10 PM
If you're not already following @liberaljane.bsky.social, you absolutley should. Her art is fantastic and her political messaging is on point. Many of her works adorn the Cafe's imaginary walls. ☕️💜
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Your vote matters. 💓 Many election outcomes are razor-thin, and your ballot can decide who makes the laws that impact your life and your community.
November 4, 2025 at 2:59 PM
Your vote matters. 💓 Many election outcomes are razor-thin, and your ballot can decide who makes the laws that impact your life and your community.
Conservatives will boast proudly about how being a mom is the "toughest, most important job there is!" But when mothers request assistance they are suddenly leeches on society. ☕️💜
November 4, 2025 at 7:05 PM
Conservatives will boast proudly about how being a mom is the "toughest, most important job there is!" But when mothers request assistance they are suddenly leeches on society. ☕️💜
"Being mean to people only drives them further to the right." ❌️
"People who change parties due to negative social interactions lack principle and discipline. They were not true allies to begin with. Politics are not social clubs." ✅️
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"People who change parties due to negative social interactions lack principle and discipline. They were not true allies to begin with. Politics are not social clubs." ✅️
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November 4, 2025 at 4:49 PM
"Being mean to people only drives them further to the right." ❌️
"People who change parties due to negative social interactions lack principle and discipline. They were not true allies to begin with. Politics are not social clubs." ✅️
☕️💜
"People who change parties due to negative social interactions lack principle and discipline. They were not true allies to begin with. Politics are not social clubs." ✅️
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"Misandry provokes misogyny and creates worsening conditions for women." ❌️
"Misogyny doesn't require provoking and even if every woman was quiet, gentle, and polite about obtaining and maintaining their human rights, misogyny would continue to exist." ✅️
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"Misogyny doesn't require provoking and even if every woman was quiet, gentle, and polite about obtaining and maintaining their human rights, misogyny would continue to exist." ✅️
☕️💜
November 4, 2025 at 4:45 PM
"Misandry provokes misogyny and creates worsening conditions for women." ❌️
"Misogyny doesn't require provoking and even if every woman was quiet, gentle, and polite about obtaining and maintaining their human rights, misogyny would continue to exist." ✅️
☕️💜
"Misogyny doesn't require provoking and even if every woman was quiet, gentle, and polite about obtaining and maintaining their human rights, misogyny would continue to exist." ✅️
☕️💜
Warning Hot Chocolate. TW: DV
Explaining why women stay in abusive relationships with coffee. A thread. 🧵
Day 1: You walk into a local coffee shop. You order a drink. It's amazing. It immediately becomes your favorite drink and this is now your favorite coffee shop.
Explaining why women stay in abusive relationships with coffee. A thread. 🧵
Day 1: You walk into a local coffee shop. You order a drink. It's amazing. It immediately becomes your favorite drink and this is now your favorite coffee shop.
November 4, 2025 at 2:50 PM
Warning Hot Chocolate. TW: DV
Explaining why women stay in abusive relationships with coffee. A thread. 🧵
Day 1: You walk into a local coffee shop. You order a drink. It's amazing. It immediately becomes your favorite drink and this is now your favorite coffee shop.
Explaining why women stay in abusive relationships with coffee. A thread. 🧵
Day 1: You walk into a local coffee shop. You order a drink. It's amazing. It immediately becomes your favorite drink and this is now your favorite coffee shop.
"Why don't you just leave?" ❌️
"Hey, so this is abuse. He is abusive to you, and it sounds like it's escalating. Here are some resources to help you understand and get out. Please be careful. The most dangerous time for women is when they leave." ✅️
It's 2025. Stop asking women this. ☕️💜
"Hey, so this is abuse. He is abusive to you, and it sounds like it's escalating. Here are some resources to help you understand and get out. Please be careful. The most dangerous time for women is when they leave." ✅️
It's 2025. Stop asking women this. ☕️💜
November 4, 2025 at 2:44 PM
"Why don't you just leave?" ❌️
"Hey, so this is abuse. He is abusive to you, and it sounds like it's escalating. Here are some resources to help you understand and get out. Please be careful. The most dangerous time for women is when they leave." ✅️
It's 2025. Stop asking women this. ☕️💜
"Hey, so this is abuse. He is abusive to you, and it sounds like it's escalating. Here are some resources to help you understand and get out. Please be careful. The most dangerous time for women is when they leave." ✅️
It's 2025. Stop asking women this. ☕️💜
"Why do yall keep choosing these loser husbands?" ❌️
"Why are these husbands such losers?" ✅️
Stop blaming women. They didn't think their husbands would be losers when they chose them.
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"Why are these husbands such losers?" ✅️
Stop blaming women. They didn't think their husbands would be losers when they chose them.
☕️💜
November 4, 2025 at 2:41 PM
"Why do yall keep choosing these loser husbands?" ❌️
"Why are these husbands such losers?" ✅️
Stop blaming women. They didn't think their husbands would be losers when they chose them.
☕️💜
"Why are these husbands such losers?" ✅️
Stop blaming women. They didn't think their husbands would be losers when they chose them.
☕️💜
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Basically the whole of Twitter and TikTok are sharing recipes with people on how to RATION FOOD.
Chile.
Chile.
November 4, 2025 at 1:20 PM
Basically the whole of Twitter and TikTok are sharing recipes with people on how to RATION FOOD.
Chile.
Chile.
While I support women vetting men they are dating carefully, we have to stop pretending that "choosing" a good man is anythint but luck on the woman's part. She could have vetted another man just as carefully, and if he turned out to be abusive, she'd be told to "choose better." ☕️💜
November 3, 2025 at 10:52 PM
While I support women vetting men they are dating carefully, we have to stop pretending that "choosing" a good man is anythint but luck on the woman's part. She could have vetted another man just as carefully, and if he turned out to be abusive, she'd be told to "choose better." ☕️💜
When a man says "not all men," I just assume he's confessing that it is him. 🤷♀️☕️💜
November 3, 2025 at 10:36 PM
When a man says "not all men," I just assume he's confessing that it is him. 🤷♀️☕️💜
"What about female abusers? Are you going to say not all women?"
🤨 No. Because that is weirdo behavior. Female abusers deserve to be punished as well. The reason women don't get defensive about their existence is because we KNOW that female abusers do not represent the majority of us. ☕️💜
🤨 No. Because that is weirdo behavior. Female abusers deserve to be punished as well. The reason women don't get defensive about their existence is because we KNOW that female abusers do not represent the majority of us. ☕️💜
November 3, 2025 at 10:35 PM
"What about female abusers? Are you going to say not all women?"
🤨 No. Because that is weirdo behavior. Female abusers deserve to be punished as well. The reason women don't get defensive about their existence is because we KNOW that female abusers do not represent the majority of us. ☕️💜
🤨 No. Because that is weirdo behavior. Female abusers deserve to be punished as well. The reason women don't get defensive about their existence is because we KNOW that female abusers do not represent the majority of us. ☕️💜
TW: SA. Even women with recorded proof of their rapes are not having their rapists convincted. The system is not delivering justice. It is designed to not deliver justice for rape victims. I will never fault a woman for doing what she had to do against her rapist. ☕️💜
We have women now recording their rapes as “proof” and then them serving time as a result for recording without “consent.”
We have women who murder their rapist and then are sentenced to jail.
Yet rapists walk free ALMOST every time.
It’s women and children who face the consequences.
We have women who murder their rapist and then are sentenced to jail.
Yet rapists walk free ALMOST every time.
It’s women and children who face the consequences.
November 3, 2025 at 8:45 PM
TW: SA. Even women with recorded proof of their rapes are not having their rapists convincted. The system is not delivering justice. It is designed to not deliver justice for rape victims. I will never fault a woman for doing what she had to do against her rapist. ☕️💜